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Topic: "Love and longing": ugly composite?
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niyasa Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Italy Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 01, 2014 06:04 AM
Hi! I've known l. when we were both 14 years old and at first I had a crush on him. Then we became friends, we both had experiences with other people and then we found ourselves in the same group of friends. We always felt super comfortable with each other, I know he is the only person I can be silent with without feeling forced to say anything. We have a sort of psychic connection I think. Slowly I fell in love with him. We had a story of ten days during a trip with friends. Once the trip ended, with all its dreamy quality, we didn't talk to each other for other ten days. Then I called him and he told me that he thought about me a lot and missed me, but he wanted to remain friends. Obviously we didn't. We kept seeing each other almost every day because of many friends in common, but nothing happened anymore between us, and we weren't able to behave as friends. Everyone told me he wasn't the same person anymore since we had an affair. A year later I lost touch with them, but now - about 7 months later - I'm hanging out with them again. I never stopped thinking about him, and I feel it's the same thing for him. I just don't understand what it is that keeps us apart. Were we too young? I usually don't delude myself, I try to be as honest as possible with myself and when something it's not supposed to be I try to accept it. I know it could work well between us; I feel it more than anything. But I also think that if we're not together yet, after a lot of time, then there's something in all this that I don't understand. Everyone that knows both of us would be happy to see us together, so I'm not the only one who believes it haha.I apologize for the long text! I think our synastry is pretty good, of course there are some challenging aspects but overall I don't think they're so disruptive, due to the many good aspects. But I'm worried about the composite, with the sun, moon and venus in 6th house. Any tips? Is the composite so bad? Thank you so much! Synastry [IMG]http://i833.photobucket.com/albums/zz256/nyiasa/astro_61 gw_01_39_anonymous_anonymous3551120651_zps14be2006.gif[/IMG] Composite [IMG]http://i833.photobucket.com/albums/zz256/nyiasa/astro_6 21gw_01_39_anonymous_anonymous3556122297_zps19159839.gif[/IMG] Davison [IMG]http://i833.photobucket.com/albums/zz256/nyiasa/astro_64g w_01_39_anonymous_anonymous362271321_zps8d2479f9.gif[/IMG] IP: Logged |
niyasa Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Italy Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 01, 2014 06:10 AM
Sorry, I realized now I should have posted this in Personal readings. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8052 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 01, 2014 06:58 AM
Okay the composite is a sun-moon-venus stellium with mercury conjunct the moon opposite pluto and jupiter and trine neptune and uranusIn synastry there are only bad aspects Sun square sun, mercury square mercury, venus square mars, moon square pluto, MARS OPPOSITE PLUTO, moon square venus. These all would cause an attraction but incompatibilty when they actually got together. Mars opp pluto with him being an aries can create tremendous tension between you. But it would be underlying. I dont mean it would be awkward between you, what i mean is much more underlying..like a scary feeling between you which you can never exactly pinpoint. The composite stellium opposite pluto only adds to that as it is very passionate, but causes the passion to waver as it faces bullying and other tendencies of control from one partner over the other. I believe that he likes you less than you like him. He is definitely feeling that composite with that sun-venus-moon stellium of true love opposite passionate pluto and the sizzling synastry. But he is obviously very hesitant about it..most likely because the synastry is only squares. I had a sun-venus-moon stellium trine saturn and neptune with someone once, and GREAT synastry minus mars opposite saturn and pluto and sun opposite saturn, and though we were good friends who obviously had a crush on each other, and at a point did almost eventually date...i rejected his advances. I did not feel that it was worth pursuing because there was something that irked me about him ...even though i missed him and longed for him so much when i wasnt around him . Still kinda miss him. He was an aries and i a cancer, too. But, the attraction wasnt strong enough for me to pursue it. Something just felt not right. I'd imagine that this isnt exactly the case here since he obviously felt a strong attraction and had no problem acting on it. It seems instead he may have used you and just doesnt plan on being serious, though he obviously has feelings. ------------------ Cancer: eternally the mother of the zodiac... ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoid | Guide to Chinese Zodiac Appearance | The Order in Astrology IP: Logged |
niyasa Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Italy Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 01, 2014 09:44 AM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Okay the composite is a sun-moon-venus stellium with mercury conjunct the moon opposite pluto and jupiter and trine neptune and uranusIn synastry there are only bad aspects Sun square sun, mercury square mercury, venus square mars, moon square pluto, MARS OPPOSITE PLUTO, moon square venus. These all would cause an attraction but incompatibilty when they actually got together. Mars opp pluto with him being an aries can create tremendous tension between you. But it would be underlying. I dont mean it would be awkward between you, what i mean is much more underlying..like a scary feeling between you which you can never exactly pinpoint. The composite stellium opposite pluto only adds to that as it is very passionate, but causes the passion to waver as it faces bullying and other tendencies of control from one partner over the other. I believe that he likes you less than you like him. He is definitely feeling that composite with that sun-venus-moon stellium of true love opposite passionate pluto and the sizzling synastry. But he is obviously very hesitant about it..most likely because the synastry is only squares. I had a sun-venus-moon stellium trine saturn and neptune with someone once, and GREAT synastry minus mars opposite saturn and pluto and sun opposite saturn, and though we were good friends who obviously had a crush on each other, and at a point did almost eventually date...i rejected his advances. I did not feel that it was worth pursuing because there was something that irked me about him ...even though i missed him and longed for him so much when i wasnt around him . Still kinda miss him. He was an aries and i a cancer, too. But, the attraction wasnt strong enough for me to pursue it. Something just felt not right. I'd imagine that this isnt exactly the case here since he obviously felt a strong attraction and had no problem acting on it. It seems instead he may have used you and just doesnt plan on being serious, though he obviously has feelings.
Thank you very much! So why I like him more? Does the synastry show it? Anyway I've always found the clashes between us more stimulating than rejecting. I like our relationship also because of its challenges. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming Moderator Posts: 8052 From: Registered: Oct 2010
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posted April 01, 2014 11:20 AM
Because if u look in the synastry its all ur personal planets aspecting his less personal onesYour moon square his venus Your moon opposite his pluto Your mars (the one who chases) square his venus Etc IP: Logged |
niyasa Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Italy Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 01, 2014 06:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming: Because if u look in the synastry its all ur personal planets aspecting his less personal onesYour moon square his venus Your moon opposite his pluto Your mars (the one who chases) square his venus Etc
Mmh, thank you. The moon square venus and moon opposite pluto are mutual though, even if the orbs are different. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT Knowflake Posts: 205 From: NJ Registered: Jan 2014
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posted April 01, 2014 07:14 PM
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/216018.html see if you have any of these aspects IP: Logged |
niyasa Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Italy Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 02, 2014 06:22 AM
quote: Originally posted by Supreme cT: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/216018.html see if you have any of these aspects
Thank you! We have saturn sesquiquadrate uranus (2°54) and pluto opp sun (-0°05), which is considered 'awesome' in the topic IP: Logged |
iQ Moderator Posts: 4683 From: Chennai, India Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 02, 2014 07:06 AM
You both are in the category of Karmic Soulmates, and it will not be possible for you two to stay apart as the years go by unless and until you resolve the past life differences through love in a long term relationship.Notice Eros and Psyche making an exact sextile. This is usually found in Twin Flames, as is Jupiter and JUNO conjunction. [ I am suspecting you both could even be twin flames with adverse karmic debts, but we will know for sure only after your Saturn Returns ] Notice the Sun making an exact Quintile with Saturn. A positive karmic aspect true but where is the Sun and Moon conjunction? On Algol, the fixed star of highly negative karmic debts. The perfect Grand Trine of APHRODITE, Saturn and North Node exists to sustain fated attraction for mutual good. The excess of 12th and 6th House planets is not making to make the relationship easy, there will be a lot of emotional problems but they need to be worked out through forgiveness and love. ------------------ Astrology Articles New Services and short readings IP: Logged |
niyasa Knowflake Posts: 31 From: Italy Registered: Nov 2013
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posted April 02, 2014 06:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by iQ: You both are in the category of Karmic Soulmates, and it will not be possible for you two to stay apart as the years go by unless and until you resolve the past life differences through love in a long term relationship.Notice Eros and Psyche making an exact sextile. This is usually found in Twin Flames, as is Jupiter and JUNO conjunction. [ I am suspecting you both could even be twin flames with adverse karmic debts, but we will know for sure only after your Saturn Returns ] Notice the Sun making an exact Quintile with Saturn. A positive karmic aspect true but where is the Sun and Moon conjunction? On Algol, the fixed star of highly negative karmic debts. The perfect Grand Trine of APHRODITE, Saturn and North Node exists to sustain fated attraction for mutual good. The excess of 12th and 6th House planets is not making to make the relationship easy, there will be a lot of emotional problems but they need to be worked out through forgiveness and love.
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