posted April 05, 2014 02:10 PM              

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Anyone with this aspect just feel like they dont have or understand emotions properly, i feel as hard as a rock. Being a sag i really dont like to show my emotions because i see it as a weakness, or makes me look so insecure to other people, or im just scared people will take advantage. At the same time it kind of feels like i have to show my emotions so people understand me better, but im scared of showing them. Saturn is in my 4th further emphasizing this emotionless person. I feel empty alot.

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i really dont like to show my emotions because i see it as a weakness, or makes me look so insecure to other people, or im just scared people will take advantage.

posted April 05, 2014 04:55 PM            

My moon is in the 3rd house and transiting Saturn trines it in the 7th house.

posted May 09, 2014 03:41 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Anyone with this aspect just feel like they dont have or understand emotions properly, i feel as hard as a rock. Being a sag i really dont like to show my emotions because i see it as a weakness, or makes me look so insecure to other people, or im just scared people will take advantage. At the same time it kind of feels like i have to show my emotions so people understand me better, but im scared of showing them. Saturn is in my 4th further emphasizing this emotionless person. I feel empty alot.

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My 8th house Moon squares my 12th house Saturn and I have a VERY emotional mother I would never understand......

Sometimes I see her as too weak and emotional and I can see the square between my Moon and Saturn can be an indicator of this

I have an Aquarius rising as well, so although I too have emotions it takes a while for me to properly express them..

posted May 09, 2014 05:31 PM            

Moon opposite Pluto (Scorpio in 7th). Although I don't show them or speak about them, my emotions are very intense. Another large reason why I kind of brush them under the rug and say I'll deal with them later.. Never get around to dealing with them though. So they come out in ugly ways. Lol.

posted May 10, 2014 08:19 AM            

I rather fall off a cliff than cry or carry on in front of people. I have deep emotion and sense everything but I keep myself well contained so no one sees it. I hate pity and people feeling sorry for me... But one of the bad traits of having a Mars in Cancer is that when you get really, really mad and frustrated you can start crying and looking weak even my Gemini Moon can't control it. To prevent this from happening to me I don't get in heated arguments that way I remain in control and I stay rational or I will walk away, I learned this when I was a little girl and it has helped. Cancer Mars sucks when it comes to frustration it can be all over the place, you have to discipline this Mars early or it can cause very embarrassing situations.

posted May 10, 2014 10:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Tulipe:
Aw, Cappy, I'm exactly like you. The thing is I also cry when reading books or watching movies so I have to make sure I'm alone when doing so. My Moon trine Saturn but Saturn in 8th house, so...

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Hehe, we're more similar than you think I'm embarrassed to admit but I tend to cry during movies too. Mostly death scenes do this to me. Currently I watch everything on my own so it's not a problem.

posted May 10, 2014 11:27 AM              

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posted March 21, 2018 07:13 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
[b]i really dont like to show my emotions because i see it as a weakness, or makes me look so insecure to other people, or im just scared people will take advantage.

That's Moon/Saturn.
It's not a Sag thing.
My sister is a Sag with Moon-Saturn and she's exactly like that.
It's about RESERVE, I think, and the need of Saturn to be in control.
But it's a good pair in the end. Moon/Saturn are the archetype of the Cancer/Capricorn axis: the Mother and the Father. A true teacher in emotional matters.[/B]

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posted March 21, 2018 09:36 AM            

I try to work through my Moon/Saturn trine. Its not natural to withhold the expression of affection. Because inevitability you also block it.

The same is true with Venus/Saturn aspects. Let love live!!!

So what I do is express it in subtle ways. I think the aspect allows for that. Nothing ostentatious or pretentious. Just something real.

My ex and I both had Saturn-Moon aspects. And we told each other how we felt in very subtle ways.

At times he would caress my hand. Or sometimes brush my lower back when sitting next to me.

posted March 21, 2018 11:27 AM            

There was a small time frame at 19 during which I was completely numb after a break-up and this numbness was so bad I didn't care about anyone or anything and I had to rely on my memories to know how to behave around others. Before this time being numb, I hated emotions and I didn't want them. The whole experience of not having emotions at all for a while disturbed me greatly, though I'm still very, very selective with who gets to see me vulnerable. I hate whenever I cry in front of others and I try my absolute best to avoid being overly emotional in public. Regardless, after I recovered from being numb, I never wanted to lose my emotions like that again. They still weren't pleasant to have, but I realized emotions are part of being human and you can't enjoy anything, feel pleasure, or feel human at all without them.

In 2017, while Saturn was opposing my Moon in Gemini, I developed anhedonia. My emotions were muted for around 3 months and were nearly completely muted by April. After I managed to reverse my anhedonia, I spent a few months feeling things normally, but on January 1st, I started feeling emotionally muted again, just a more peaceful, calming kind of muted and my emotions are still there able to be felt. They're only not as uncontrollable as they had been before some of 2015 and all of 2016.

I'm not sure anything astrologically points to my experience with emotions. I know Moon in Gemini isn't known for being very emotional yet my Moon is in 8th house with a bi-quintile from Pluto and a square from Mars. Saturn makes a square with my Sun but not my Moon so it isn't Saturn that's doing anything. Uranus isn't aspecting my Moon either.

Even though I'm not here saying feeling emotions is showing weakness or is otherwise embarrassing and inappropriate, to some extent I believe that I view emotions like this. It doesn't mean I'm never willing to be weak or that I'm never vulnerable with anyone. All it means honestly is I'm not as comfortable with my emotions as much as you'd expect based on the things I've said so far. I think part of my issue is I don't like being viewed as emotional and I don't think anyone even cares about my feelings thus I hide them. Either way, emotions don't always make sense and this defnitely doesn't help.

While emotions aren't supposed to be straightforward and easy to understand and all that, emotions do tend to have a trigger that results in someone feeling something. Sometimes I feel "negative" emotions without any such trigger and it's confusing, especially since without knowledge of the trigger I occasionally have trouble calming myself down by dealing with the source of the conflict in a mature fashion. Lately, I've been feeling stressed out a lot too. Emotions don't have to make sense and this is probably why they make me uncomfortable.