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Topic: Help me, I'm froking out. yes froking.
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Venusincap89
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From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 18, 2014 07:25 PM
  
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Yeah... Well first he wasn't punctual, he didn't communicate when he was coming or a plan. I left the original meeting place because I was feeling like I was getting stood up. He texts me a half hour later and said they were waiting on me there, like......... I had texted him I was there when I got there. Apparently he didn't know "Hurr" meant here, but later his friends totally did. Anyway, I go to the karaoke bar and he paid attention to me the most, but he flirted with other girls (heavily) and like I just wasn't sure if he was interested or we were friends or what. I hate uncertainty. I met some cool people though and had so much fun that I was able to overlook all the ticks, but as boyfriend material? Ehhhh.....What is it with Sag moons liking me so much.
OMG...
so he wasn't clear with the time and place, made you feel like you were being stood up, ON TOP OF THAT HE FLIRTED WITH OTHER WOMEN
You are a saint for actually staying for the date!! :O :O :O
I've never seen or heard of a woman as kind as you, no joke.
What's most sad is though... this guy has no idea what's going on...
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Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 278
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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posted April 18, 2014 07:33 PM
wow honestly this guy is some next level d-bagIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 07:52 PM
I seem to be a collector for horror stories. He was clear on the time and place at first and then he said he "got called into work unexpectedly" which he's a correctional officer and they did some kind of shank down. Or he had another date, idk, its only the first meeting and I'm displeased lol. Yeah all that mutable energy totally explains his behavior though. But yeah so then he said he didn't want to reschedule and he wanted to meet me (I gave him m out.) And I wanted to meet him too which is why I met him at the hole in the wall karaoke bar. From then on it wasn't as bad but grinding with other girls and inviting the bartender to your birthday the next day, I'm like ....... We're totally opposites.IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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posted April 18, 2014 07:56 PM
LMAOOOO so it wasnt even 'just flirting'
it was pretty much as extreme as ADULTERY (sexual act - Grinding, against his commitment on the first date)
Adultery on the first date... WOWWWWWWand honestly, he should value his words more than you should. He shouldn't have scheduled a date with you if there was an even slight chance that he might face difficulty... DID HE AT LEAST PAY FOR THE DATE!? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 08:17 PM
Uhm he bought me a fireball shot..IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 278
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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posted April 18, 2014 08:27 PM
Woww...well at least I am certain he will like.. beg for your attention in about a week or two
At least opportunity for Karama should fall into your hands.. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 08:44 PM
Eh, whatever. I only think guys who know their attractive and act cocky are douches. Then again maybe I should widen the spectrum...IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 18, 2014 08:51 PM
Omg he's such a girl..like grinding on other people to make you jealous?
i know some guys with that logic, it's like girl, no. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted April 18, 2014 09:01 PM
LOL what a total catch! =OBeing late on a date is a big strike one but flirting with other women as well? Lol I would have just left. Next. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 09:58 PM
Yeah he's got Mars in Gemini and Venus in Pisces. Drinking was also involved...but hey I found two places where the atmosphere was really cool!IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
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From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 18, 2014 10:47 PM
Was it a date? It sounds to me like he just invited you as another girl to hang out with people or as an option. I totally get how it could misinterpreted if he flirted with you. Us girls like to think that if a man flirts, he's into us and wants to date. Mistake I am currently making with someone, so I can relate. But a date doesn't consist of a man inviting a woman to the bar he works at for drinks he can probably score for free. That's no effort whatsoever. You deserve better! Someone worthy of you. Someone who will baby your Saturn squares and be good to you. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 11:13 PM
Who would baby my Saturn squares? No I wasn't under the impression it was a date, but his friends did keep dropping hints he was crashing and burning. One of them even blatantly said he was off to a strong start for having me come to a bar to meet him the first time. I texted him a bit today and I'm not going to his party for that exact reason of wanting to be treated better. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 11:18 PM
^ under the impression once I got there.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted April 18, 2014 11:24 PM
Ehhh I hate friends.I hate people friends, their so nosey or people depend on their friends which is pathetic. Friends just mess everything up maybe they wanted him to date you because they though you were good for him,
WHICH YOU MOST LIKELY ARE, probably too good. but he probably is not interested in dating anyone.
******* friends.
Did I mention how much I hate dealing them,
this isn't a spice girls song. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted April 18, 2014 11:27 PM
You're still considering him? I would write him off if I were you.Venus in Pisces, Mars in Gemini make horrible boyfriends- flaky, sneaky and too changeable.
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hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 11:40 PM
I just don't get why you'd be so friendly and focused on someone and then not follow through! K - Lol, none of his friends knew me either! But we all got along and I'm a little disappointed it didn't work out. But you know, he's a ****** person in his own way and ****** people find other ******** so no worries. Hapless, nah not really hung up on him. I'm not going to the party tonight but I do really like the bar he works at! Genuinely. I'd never heard of it beforehand. IP: Logged |
sag_stellium
Knowflake Posts: 130
From: Washington, DC
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 18, 2014 11:41 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Who would baby my Saturn squares? No I wasn't under the impression it was a date, but his friends did keep dropping hints he was crashing and burning. One of them even blatantly said he was off to a strong start for having me come to a bar to meet him the first time. I texted him a bit today and I'm not going to his party for that exact reason of wanting to be treated better.
People who have Saturn squares beat themselves up or accept inferior treatment. Your brain realizes its wrong to accept such behavior because you are intelligent. So, to someone like with Saturn aspects, I say wait until you find someone who will be good to you. And that will help your squares. "Baby" them, like I said earlier. Saturn needs handholding to get through its issues. You have to treat your Saturn well and the other person will learn to treat your Saturn well. I assumed you have Saturn squares based on a post I read in this thread. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10119
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 18, 2014 11:44 PM
thats true... People are so weird.Oh yeah I remember
on valentines day I went out with this sag I met online. FIRST ONLINE DATE, cause I just wanted to try it once. and we went to a bar and I was wtf... why are going to bar and not somewhere seclude, so I got drunk to avoid being mean and lost my date so many times and people had to help me. and I almost left with these new friends too, but i think they wanted a 3some that was the vibe I was getting so I was like naaaaaah **** people I gave my valentines day to spend with you instead my friends.
I had plans with my friends but bailed cause this ******* sag was like last minute wanna go out. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted April 18, 2014 11:51 PM
@Kero - so did you tell them off?,I hated telling guys off because I never got an apology anyway and I just felt like a baby having a temper tanttrum, but I'm to my limit with this kind of treatment..@Sag - yes I have sun, mercury, Venus square Saturn. And Moon trine Saturn. It gets lonely. 😭 IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10119
From: Mercury
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posted April 18, 2014 11:56 PM
I remember this I legit said something like
It's not your fault you're Sagittarius... in my drunken rambles oh wait I asked this sag to drop me at my friends house and I was telling my friend. HE'S A SAGITTARIUS HE TOOK ME TO A BAR. LOL im ridiculous. Like my gemini wants one on one interaction.
like I wanna go somewhere secluded and talk to you cause I like you, I'm so attracted to you right now and no one else really matter at this moment. Bars for scoping out people not getting to know someone. but online I impressed **** out of him, he was a film major and I got the reference for this one indie movie he dressed up as for this party. I'm like how can you mess this up? You're a mess. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Knowflake Posts: 602
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted April 18, 2014 11:57 PM
Well I'm Aries Sun, Sag Moon and can be late sometimes. But try not to do it on first dates. Also I'd call if that was the case. Anyways, not defending him, the flirting with other women would have enraged my Taurus Venus. Yup, play hard, teach him a lesson, they only step on you if you let them. ------------------
~the raving one dancing in the nude~ IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
Knowflake Posts: 278
From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted April 19, 2014 12:05 AM
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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Ehhh I hate friends.
I hate people friends, their so nosey or people depend on their friends which is pathetic.
Friends just mess everything up
Agreeedd.. as if dating one person wasn't difficult enough, group date just complicates things to whole another degree. (Especially in the early stages of dating... why would you introduce your friends to your date, when your date didn't even get good enough time or chance to get to know you?) When I didn't know better, I've been to so many group dates where I had to impress both the date and her friendssss
Not only does it feel like you are on a date with all of them (not romantically but in a sense that there is a mission to accomplish), but you feel so awkward having to wait for your turn to be able to speak to your date xD I have never seen a lady who even recognized such issue though
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hannaramaa
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posted April 19, 2014 12:06 AM
Kero - YASSSS. GEMINI ASC CONJ. MARS here and it shows. I had fun but I was annoyed. And on top of it this gay dude my "date" befriended earlier that night kept butting in and giving me advice (ironically he's an Aries too) and today he said I should still go to the party because I said I would. Uhhhh....... DM - Again, YASSS. I have a Taurus Moon! It didn't enrage me because I was tipsy, but I was definitely like "Okay...." He even got up and sang Oh, Darling by The Beatles and the Gay Aries was like "You know that's about you" ...ugh! Who cares muchacho, he's not serious. Get your life. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10119
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 19, 2014 12:16 AM
Idk I don't like bars or clubs, I didn't enjoy myself.
Maybe when I was 17..Maybe it's your aries.. Aries are party animals
I lack libra and leo too.. A party for me is having a bunch of friends over and they can invite who ever they want and we just smoke and chill.
and talk and listen to music and maybe make out if find someone cute. Or just roaming around town chilling LOL
It's my virgo jupiter squaring my stellium I bet. Like I wanted to do something tonight but Im working on this paper and studying but i have not achieved anything.
This weekend is going to be me pretending to work on stuff uhhh IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 10119
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted April 19, 2014 12:22 AM
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
It's official, Kerosene is on fire today
Im on fire everyday. IP: Logged |
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