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posted April 16, 2014 09:23 PM            

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So I'm going on a first date with a guy, he has Sag rising Aries sun Taurus moon Mercury in Aries and then Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aquarius. What do I wear, how is my boring aas ever going to keep him entertained? We're meeting for drinks at the bar he works at. I'm nervous....

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posted April 16, 2014 09:34 PM            

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Just be yourself. He's probably more worried about entertaining you!

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posted April 16, 2014 09:41 PM            

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You're right Randall! Although I look at his placements and wonder if they even get nervous?! I have Sun Venus square Saturn which I think makes me put a lot of pressure on myself.

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posted April 16, 2014 09:46 PM            

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Talk talk talk ... talk about different things. Then do something random. This guy seems like he likes the spontaneous type. Do or talk about something out of the blue just as long as it entertains you as well.

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posted April 16, 2014 09:48 PM            

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You seem laid back

Just go along with his fun..
Unless he crosses a boundary.

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posted April 16, 2014 09:58 PM            

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hes already going out with you, that means hes already interested. just be yourself, no point in not.

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posted April 16, 2014 10:19 PM            

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Yeah I'm not a chatterbox unless I know what I'm talking about or have an opinion, but that's true K, am laid back. Plus I'll have beer or something to relax me at first.

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posted April 16, 2014 10:23 PM            

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Is he extroverted?

i think opposites attracted so if he is outgoing I think he would like that your not a spaz

Im extroverted and sometimes I get annoyed by other extroverts because it's like.. Chill your not that funny...
I have this Libra/Gem friend and It's like Girl your so loud the entire floor does not care about your saturday night.

im attracted to introverted silent types.
so I can dance 4 u
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGc9n6BiWXA

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posted April 16, 2014 10:31 PM            

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He'd have to be I think to be a club promoter. He's funny at least which always makes me think they're extroverted. He said he's opposite from his Gemini brother, who I went to high school with and is a hot mess so that gives me a little hope.

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posted April 16, 2014 10:34 PM            

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I second that. ^^

A potential partner was an extreme extrovert and wanted all the attention on him. When I became really annoyed with his attitude I just out shined him and he hated it.

If he's extrovert then he will probably drive the conversation anyway (Mercury in Aries).

Have a GnT before you leave and you'll be sweet.

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posted April 16, 2014 10:34 PM            

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Just be really seductive rather than bubbly lol

That is something introverts have going for them!

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posted April 16, 2014 10:38 PM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
I second that. ^^

A potential partner was an extreme extrovert and wanted all the attention on him. When I became really annoyed with his attitude I just out shined him and he hated it.

If he's extrovert then he will probably drive the conversation anyway (Mercury in Aries).

Have a GnT before you leave and you'll be sweet.

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When i speak all eyes are on me and everyone leans in.

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posted April 16, 2014 10:45 PM            

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what placements do you have hanna?

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posted April 16, 2014 10:52 PM            

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Gemini ASC Aries Sun Taurus Moon Mercury in Aries Venus in Aries Mars in Gemini

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posted April 16, 2014 10:58 PM            

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OHHHHH

He has Venus in Gemini and you have Gemini rising!!
I think this is a guaranteed successful first date, at least on your part xD
I normally hate it when people say 'just be yourself', but in this case I think it pays you to 'just be yourself' xD

I myself have a Leo rising and I attract venus in leos allll thheee timmeee xD

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posted April 16, 2014 11:04 PM            

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Lol what does Venus conjunct ASC entail?

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posted April 16, 2014 11:05 PM            

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You don't need to try hard at all, your synastry are SUPER compatible! I'm sure both of you will be very alike mentally and emotionally and will be on the same page from the get go.

Relax, I'm sure you'll knock his socks off .
In fact, I'd say slow on on the physical, I think both of you will be very attracted to each other.

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posted April 16, 2014 11:08 PM            

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Aren't Mars in Aquarius kind of slores?

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posted April 16, 2014 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Lol what does Venus conjunct ASC entail?

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From my understanding, you would basically appear to have what he wants in his love life (Well at least, such ASC-Venus attraction has been true for me)
I think the attraction factor is already evident in the fact that he has asked you out
Also, as others have suggested, you two seem to be super compatible!!

So relax and have fun tomorrow

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posted April 16, 2014 11:27 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Aren't Mars in Aquarius kind of slores?

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Hm. . .I'm a Mars in Aquarius.

And no.

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posted April 17, 2014 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Hm. . .I'm a Mars in Aquarius.

And no.

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That's just what I heard, not necessarily claiming it as fact. What do Mars in Aquarius go for though. Mars / Uranus, likes all types?

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posted April 18, 2014 07:06 PM            

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So I went, I had a lot of fun!

I also realized… I got his birth year wrong. He was born in 87, so he doesn't have the placements I gave! He's got Moon in Sagittarius, Mercury in Aries, Venus in Pisces, Mars in Gemini. Mutable and Cardinal…. good lord no wonder he's inconsiderate a little bit. But he seems really sweet! But probably too wishy washy for me.

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posted April 18, 2014 07:09 PM            

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Lol congrats on your success!!
but how was he inconsiderate?

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posted April 18, 2014 07:15 PM            

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Well I guess the fact that he took you out to a bar for a first date itself tells alot xD
I would never take someone to a bar on the first date

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posted April 18, 2014 07:20 PM            

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Yeah... Well first he wasn't punctual, he didn't communicate when he was coming or a plan. I left the original meeting place because I was feeling like I was getting stood up. He texts me a half hour later and said they were waiting on me there, like......... I had texted him I was there when I got there. Apparently he didn't know "Hurr" meant here, but later his friends totally did. Anyway, I go to the karaoke bar and he paid attention to me the most, but he flirted with other girls (heavily) and like I just wasn't sure if he was interested or we were friends or what. I hate uncertainty. I met some cool people though and had so much fun that I was able to overlook all the ticks, but as boyfriend material? Ehhhh.....

What is it with Sag moons liking me so much.

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