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Topic: Experiences with Cappy Moon Men
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lvASTRO
Knowflake Posts: 88
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 23, 2014 09:03 AM
  
Maybe he is skeptical and questions your sincerity--not because you are disengenuine, but because he has a hard time trusting. I find it a common theme with the Cappy moons, especially men (at least the ones I've met... Some seem to trust me and be able to get deep. One talked about his father's death to me after not having discussed it since his father passed when he was 9...) The biggest fear is of rejection. It shakes the sense of security and stability. You get mushy and gooey and there's a feeling of insecurity for him. Even though you are being vulnerable and putting yourself out there, he feels it projected onto himself. It sounds like he's in to you, but he might be wanting a slower, less "risky" pace. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
Knowflake Posts: 116
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 23, 2014 10:57 AM
Thanks lvASTRO  I was thinking that, as well. My Moon is conjunct his 3rd house North Node, so I'm very loving and emotional in my communication with him. I really don't hold back with him at all. It's supposed to be good for his growth, but the NN can be scary. He has told me he is petrified of getting his heart broken. Very Moon in Cap. And yes, he definitely has trust issues, and this has caused trouble for him in the past. I've been told that the best thing to do is to be patient. However, I'm sure you're very aware about how frustrating it can be! What do you have in your chart that allows you to connect with these guys so well? IP: Logged |
Baaaafish
Newflake Posts: 24
From: Los Angeles, ca, usa
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted April 23, 2014 12:56 PM
My relationship took 7 years to get off the ground, that's hilarious now and it lasted for 4. We were engaged, but I know we would never get married because of his selfish tendencies. He was also a Venus in Scorp that was conjunct my Pluto and my Moon. Also another thing about Cap moons is, the habit of running. They climb the mountain to get your heart but usually its about the challenge. They can be very fickle, once it's over. I know a few people with Cap Moon, including my Aunt, and she will chase a guy forever, years, but once she gets him, she can't waste any real emotions on them, they can feel like it's a waste of time or energy, if the relationship doesn't resemble the powerful/lucrative experience they hoped it would be.IP: Logged |
Orange
Knowflake Posts: 1346
From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted April 23, 2014 01:05 PM
I said it before and I say it again - men with Capricorn Moons are some of the most gorgeous men on the planet. Cappy Moon just gives them a perfectly proportional face.David Beckham, Ceorge Clooney, Brad Pitt, Jonny Depp, Jon Bon Jovi, Ayrten Senna ( the handsome brazilian formula one champ), etc...
of course there are some ugly ducklings with cappy Moon but most often than not - it bestows the native, both men and women - with perfect faces. anyway,
one of my ex's is an Aqua with Cappy Moon and Venus. Such a gentleman he was, very reliable, very steady, very attentive to my needs, solid rock relationship while it lasted. IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
Knowflake Posts: 116
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 23, 2014 04:22 PM
That's quite the list of hotties!! Yummy!! My guy is handsome in my opinion, but others don't think so. On two separate occasions, a stranger has come up to us and said I can do a lot better than him :/ so mean. My friends ask what I see in him. My venus and mars are in his 1st house so I'm definitely attracted. IP: Logged |
lvASTRO
Knowflake Posts: 88
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted April 23, 2014 04:57 PM
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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Thanks lvASTRO I was thinking that, as well. My Moon is conjunct his 3rd house North Node, so I'm very loving and emotional in my communication with him. I really don't hold back with him at all. It's supposed to be good for his growth, but the NN can be scary. He has told me he is petrified of getting his heart broken. Very Moon in Cap. And yes, he definitely has trust issues, and this has caused trouble for him in the past. I've been told that the best thing to do is to be patient. However, I'm sure you're very aware about how frustrating it can be! What do you have in your chart that allows you to connect with these guys so well?
I say screw them. If you like the guy and are attracted, that all that matters. If he treats you like gold--DONE. I'd rather have a sweetheart than an attractive a-hole (not that the two are mutually exclusive, but you get it...) We have NN-SN conjunction, almost exact--Pisces-Virgo. We shake each other in the right direction, I think. It feels like criticism at first, but we both realize what we SHOULD be doing... As far as dealing with them, I have a Cap stellium in Mars-Saturn-Uranus-Neptune, with a few natal Saturn aspects, all falling in my fourth house (house of home/security), and my sun-moon midpoint is Scorpio, so I come off as deep and intense even though I'm not afraid to show it (I've found their emotions run just as deep). My MC is also Cancer. I feel like I have a ton of energy in my chart that helps me understand and appreciate them. I've talked to my guy, and he says that sometimes I strike the nail on the head better than he does about how he feels. I have an uncanny way of putting it into words. But I SO agree. The reservation can be frustrating. Hot/cold. On/off. Interested? Disinterested? Did I say too much? Just be resilient and steadfast. I think it is so worth it. And the refreshing thing to remember: it's not a game he's playing. It's just insecurity. We all have 'em.
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ariestaurus
Knowflake Posts: 116
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 08:18 AM
Thanks IvASTRO- you've been so helpful!The SN-NN link is very powerful. I actually share this aspect with my mother, the person I love most in this world. You certainly have a lot to lean from each other. And yes, the hot/cold thing is perplexing! I'll try to keep my impatient Aries moon in check as a venus in cap person, I know cappy people don't stick around unless they think you're worth it!! thanks so much again for your great advice!! IP: Logged | |
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