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ariestaurus
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posted April 20, 2014 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone here dated a Cappy Moon man? What were your experiences? Feel free to add any tips/advice.

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posted April 20, 2014 05:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The one in my generation has moon conjunct neptune and uranus.

Very anal and practical. Highly efficient. Like to have schedules for things. Financially stable. Like classic beauty kinda person. Like independent women who are strong and smart.

There are plenty of threads on cap moon men.

I like this energy in men more than in women.

I have noticed younger cap moons can be selfish

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posted April 20, 2014 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How the Moon expresses itself (The Cappy Moon) depends on the Sun, I think. I adored a Sag sun, Cappy moon. He was consistent and loyal despite my temper. He never lost his temper with me but you'll know you hurt them when you get less and less of ...well, them.. They can come off very monotone vibe-wise, and be so serious about you so fast you're almost unsure if you should take them seriously, but are actually really sensitive but not in an immature way. I like them a lot. They mean the things they say and will rarely ever just let words fly.

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posted April 20, 2014 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a more than a handful. All are in committed stable relationships. One of the Pisces, however, is unapologetically promiscuous - Venus & Mars in Aries.

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posted April 20, 2014 09:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I ditto hannarama. Sometimes they can come off as a little cold, but their emotions, I have found, run just as deep, if not deeper than most. They are extremely loyal, and good providers for those they care for. Very level-headed emotionally. Usually don't overreact or "lose it." Patient.

The guy I'm with has Cappy moon, and we are very open and honest. He said that in his youth, he was very unemotional, but has become more emotional with age, only because he's learned emotions aren't bad--and that showing them isn't a sign of weakness (though only with those he trusts!). He was also extremely promiscuous and could have casual sex without batting an eye in his twenties, but now sex is tethered much more to his emotional side and connection with a partner. He's very sweet and shows his affection through thoughtfully calculated and crafted words, as well as gifts. SO. MANY. GIFTS. O_o

He has sun/venus Scorpio and mercury/mars Sag. His ascendant is Pisces. I adore him to death.

Would it be too much to ask the context from which the question stems? Just curious. :0

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posted April 21, 2014 07:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:

He has sun/venus Scorpio and mercury/mars Sag. His ascendant is Pisces. I adore him to death.

Would it be too much to ask the context from which the question stems? Just curious. :0[/B]


My guy is also a scorp sun and venus retrograde (both his sun and venus are conjunct Pluto in the 10th), and has moon/asc in cappy. He is a major workaholic and is only 27. I'm 29. He became a fully licensed doctor at 26. We are in an ldr- we live about 2.5 hrs apart. I have feelings for him, and he says he has feelings for me as well. He is very sensitive and respectful, but is obsessed with his work. We have been seeing each other for 6 months but it has been slow. We don't see each other much due to schedules and distance. We have had many disagreements because of this.

Did it take a while for your relationship with your scorp to get off the ground? Do you consider him an honest/loyal person? How long have you been with him?

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posted April 21, 2014 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoSurvivor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's difficult for male w/ Cap Moon to believe that anyone is good enough for them, especially in career they want to have control every step of the way, at least with the ones I know.

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posted April 21, 2014 05:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
My guy is also a scorp sun and venus retrograde (both his sun and venus are conjunct Pluto in the 10th), and has moon/asc in cappy. He is a major workaholic and is only 27. I'm 29. He became a fully licensed doctor at 26. We are in an ldr- we live about 2.5 hrs apart. I have feelings for him, and he says he has feelings for me as well. He is very sensitive and respectful, but is obsessed with his work. We have been seeing each other for 6 months but it has been slow. We don't see each other much due to schedules and distance. We have had many disagreements because of this.

Did it take a while for your relationship with your scorp to get off the ground? Do you consider him an honest/loyal person? How long have you been with him?


I should mention my guy has venus scorp retro, too. The workaholic thing is usually a means to not have to deal with some major emotions/issues. It's how emotions can be shut out and not dealt with. All the Caps are ambitious,s but to this extent, it could signal some inner turmoil, or a more basic need for control.

We've been dating for a little over four months, and we are long distance, too. Funny. Although it's only three hours apart (we met through a mutual friend and live in different states), it still gets hard even though we make time to visit each other back and forth.

Things started off easily enough: he proclaimed his feelings for me and then it was basically him urging me on to get the ball rolling. I feel like I have to be the primemover in the relationship. I'm fine with that, but if feel like they'd move a lot more slowly otherwise, just because he was guarded at first.

Once he trusted me, it was on.

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posted April 21, 2014 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
I should mention my guy has venus scorp retro, too. The workaholic thing is usually a means to not have to deal with some major emotions/issues. It's how emotions can be shut out and not dealt with. All the Caps are ambitious,s but to this extent, it could signal some inner turmoil, or a more basic need for control.

We've been dating for a little over four months, and we are long distance, too. Funny. Although it's only three hours apart (we met through a mutual friend and live in different states), it still gets hard even though we make time to visit each other back and forth.

Things started off easily enough: he proclaimed his feelings for me and then it was basically him urging me on to get the ball rolling. I feel like I have to be the primemover in the relationship. I'm fine with that, but if feel like they'd move a lot more slowly otherwise, just because he was guarded at first.

Once he trusted me, it was on.


Yes, I've heard that about the workaholism thing- that they bury their emotions in work. Makes complete sense. And yes, I've heard trust is key- both for Cappy and Scorpy-influenced people.

My guy and I also met through mutual friends

What is your synastry like?

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posted April 21, 2014 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
Has anyone here dated a Cappy Moon man? What were your experiences? Feel free to add any tips/advice.

My ex-boyfriend had his cancer sun opposite his capricorn moon..I think it suited him well, it kind of gave him an edge. He was very nurturing like a cancer but with the depth of a capricorn…. but he was also very stifled with expressing his emotions I remember…. but I was not as much into him as he was with me, so I didn't really cared for his emotions…when he started to express his love I left him

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posted April 22, 2014 03:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AscTaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
My ex-boyfriend had his cancer sun opposite his capricorn moon..I think it suited him well, it kind of gave him an edge. He was very nurturing like a cancer but with the depth of a capricorn…. but he was also very stifled with expressing his emotions I remember…. but I was not as much into him as he was with me, so I didn't really cared for his emotions…when he started to express his love I left him

Ouch!!!! I think you just realized his worst fear without knowing it.

Capricorns fear nothing more then to have their love rebuffed.

My Dad is Cancer Sun/Cap Moon. He is also not that good at showing emotions and can be very awkward when trying to.

His Moon conjuncts my Sun/Neptune in Sagittarius less than 1 Degree. I don't really warm up to him at all(despite this).

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posted April 22, 2014 03:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I guess I was involved with an unevolved cap moon man.:-/
We argued a lot and he's emotionally manipulative. He told me the worst lies ever(at one point he had cancer).

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posted April 22, 2014 05:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow^^ That's crazy because I also had a guy lie to me about having cancer to get attention. I was with someone else and we were just friends.
I thought it was because of his Venus conj my Pluto, acting obsessive.
His Moon was Leo, not Cap.

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posted April 22, 2014 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I guess I was involved with an unevolved cap moon man.:-/
We argued a lot and he's emotionally manipulative. He told me the worst lies ever(at one point he had cancer).

Yeesh, what were his other placements? What kind of aspects did his Moon make to his other planets? Post his chart if you want

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posted April 22, 2014 09:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought it was our synastry too Odette.His Sun/Pluto conjunction tightly trines my Sun,Moon,Venus,and Mercury.Plus a bunch of 12th house and Neptune in synastry.
But........he also lies on social media.So yeah,the dude has issues.
His moon is his chart ruler,it squares Saturn,trines his venus ,and it's in the 7th house.

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posted April 22, 2014 09:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is that compulsive lying a cappy moon trait? All the capppy moons I've known are steadfastly honest, to the tee. I have Leo moon, and sometimes I exaggerate (I don't make the truth elastic, but I do have a dramatic flair), but maybe it's that placement?

I'll see if I can find our synastry chart, OP. I'll post t when I am home from the gym.

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posted April 22, 2014 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 22, 2014 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Holy crap, that's a crazy chart! 0_o

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posted April 22, 2014 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Why? Is it most of his planets being on the lower half of the chart?

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posted April 22, 2014 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is pretty weird. The guy I mentioned is also a Libra with Scorpio Mercury and Scorpio Venus conj his Pluto.
He was born: 15/10/87.

The strange thing is a few years after I ended contact with him I met a second guy born on the exact same day (only he is gay) and we're still close friends. This second guy has never lied to me or tried to manipulate me.

Their ascendants must be different because they have a very different appearance.

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posted April 23, 2014 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It must be the ascendants.Maybe you guys had 12th house synastry?

This guy just has issues.I think he suffers from low self-esteem.So he lies and manipulates to make himself feel better and get what he wants.My honest opinion.

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posted April 23, 2014 12:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lvASTRO     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Here is our chart. Aspects below. He's on the left, myself the right. Some orbs are bigger; can't figure out how to change it...
A lot of the smaller orb aspects of the semis, biquints, and sequis can actually be felt, I think.

To note, also our s/m midpoints, and our vertexes.

Me:
S/M Mid: Scorpio 20.5'
Vertex: Taurus 21.24'

Him:
S/M Mid: Capricorn 6.16'
Vertex: Virgo 22.13'

Our north nodes are opposite at Pisces/Virgo, orb 0.15'

Pluto Conj AS Orb 0°24'
Sun Conj Pluto Orb 0°34'
Venus Conj Pluto Orb 3°49'
Uranus Conj Pluto Orb 3°58'
AS Conj Sun Orb 4°24'
Jupiter Conj Moon Orb 6°15'
Moon Opp MC Orb 1°00'
Saturn Opp Sun Orb 2°01'
Pluto Opp Venus Orb 5°18'
Jupiter Opp Mercury Orb 5°46'
Sun Square Mercury Orb 1°06'
Moon Square AS Orb 1°09'
Venus Square Mercury Orb 2°09'
Uranus Square Mercury Orb 2°18'
Pluto Square MC Orb 2°33'
Moon Square Venus Orb 3°44'
Jupiter Square Pluto Orb 4°06'
Node Square Uranus Orb 4°52'
Chiron Square Moon Orb 4°56'
Node Square Saturn Orb 5°31'
Mercury Square Sun Orb 6°21'
Neptune Square Sun Orb 6°58'
Mars Trine Moon Orb 0°34'
Mercury Trine Moon Orb 1°17'
Lilith Trine Pluto Orb 1°23'
AS Trine Pluto Orb 1°42'
Saturn Trine Neptune Orb 2°07'
Chiron Trine Mars Orb 2°33'
Chiron Trine Neptune Orb 2°35'
MC Trine Venus Orb 3°03'
Sun Trine Sun Orb 3°16'
Pluto Trine Mercury Orb 3°25'
Uranus Trine MC Orb 3°41'
Venus Trine MC Orb 3°49'
Lilith Trine Sun Orb 4°05'
AS Trine MC Orb 5°57'
Venus Trine Sun Orb 6°32'
Uranus Trine Sun Orb 6°40'
Saturn Sextile Pluto Orb 0°41'
Neptune Sextile AS Orb 1°14'
MC Sextile AS Orb 1°51'
Neptune Sextile Mercury Orb 2°35'
Chiron Sextile Sun Orb 2°41'
Sun Sextile Neptune Orb 3°22'
Lilith Inconj Mercury Orb 0°17'
MC Inconj MC Orb 0°18'
Jupiter Inconj Neptune Orb 1°17'
Jupiter Inconj Sun Orb 1°23'
Venus SemiSq Saturn Orb 0°12'
Mars SemiSq AS Orb 0°16'
Uranus SemiSq Saturn Orb 0°21'
Mercury SemiSq AS Orb 0°26'
Venus SemiSq Uranus Orb 0°51'
AS SemiSq Jupiter Orb 0°56'
Uranus SemiSq Uranus Orb 0°59'
Neptune SesquiQ Moon Orb 0°22'
Saturn SesquiQ Jupiter Orb 1°27'
Mars Quintil Mercury Orb 0°32'
Pluto Quintil Uranus Orb 0°52'
Mercury BiQuint Jupiter Orb 0°49'
Pluto BiQuint Sun Orb 1°48'
AS SemiSex Mercury Orb 0°01

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posted April 23, 2014 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Baaaafish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not the best place for a moon to be, not very supportive as lovers or fathers because some (not all) lack the ability to offer genuine comfort. I'm a Sun in Cap, Moon in Scorp, I was dating a man with a Sun in Scorp, moon in Cap and he still had a very hard time expressing himself, his emotions would bottle and he would turn self righteous. Even if he knew he was wrong he would be defensive. But it also depends on the aspects to his natal moon and your placements as well.

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posted April 23, 2014 08:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
Not the best place for a moon to be, not very supportive as lovers or fathers because some (not all) lack the ability to offer genuine comfort. I'm a Sun in Cap, Moon in Scorp, I was dating a man with a Sun in Scorp, moon in Cap and he still had a very hard time expressing himself, his emotions would bottle and he would turn self righteous. Even if he knew he was wrong he would be defensive. But it also depends on the aspects to his natal moon and your placements as well.

Looks like quite a few of us have dealt with Scorp Sun/Cap moon people! You have similar energy in your placements, so you probably understand them better than most.

Were you two in a committed relationship? Did you find that it was difficult for your relationship to get off the ground? Where was his Venus?

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posted April 23, 2014 08:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ariestaurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm an Aries Moon with Venus in Cap. My Venus in Cap adores his restraint and maturity, as well as his work ethic. But my Moon in Aries is playful, impatient, and needs tons of attention, and I find it difficult to understand him sometimes. When I'm too mushy with him, he tends to withdraw. Same as when I ask him how he feels, or I ask him to express his feelings to me. He responds much better to me when I talk to him about general, normal things rather than feelings.

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