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Topic: What shows unrequited love in this synastry?
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Piscesmoongirl
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posted April 22, 2014 08:07 AM
  
 I am the inner circle. He is the outside. TOB confirmed.
What shows unrequited love between us when all i see is good aspects and placements? Venus conjunct Asc
Jupiter conjunct Moon
Venus trine Moon, Mercury, Mars
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LeeLoo2014
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posted April 22, 2014 08:11 AM
What makes you think it's unrequited? And how long has it been "unrequited"?IP: Logged |
ariestaurus
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posted April 22, 2014 08:11 AM
His saturn opposite your 7th house venusHis sun on your south node could indicate thus, as well Look at your composite, too IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 22, 2014 08:16 AM
I see good aspects too, if anything, your moon is in his 3rd and not activating a very personal house, and that jupiter NN conjunction (my experience has been that NN conjunctions meant unrequited love for the planet, but it was a personal planet each time). Other than that...IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 22, 2014 08:17 AM
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geminigal2805
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posted April 22, 2014 08:18 AM
What about Uranus conjunct Asc? Wouldn't the Uranus person bring erratic/sudden behaviour that would change the Asc persons POV about the relationship? I'm just asking. I'm trying to learn. Hope u don't mind.IP: Logged |
Piscesmoongirl
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posted April 22, 2014 08:21 AM
I am in love with him since... well, forever. I asked him out a while ago for a cup of coffee and although he said sure why not, nothing happened. We greet each other when we meet randomly but nothing more. And he has a girlfriend now. (He didn't have one when i asked him out). So there. What shows he is not interested in me like i am in him?IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted April 22, 2014 08:25 AM
What about that triangle with the vertices at Venus-Asc, Moon-Jupiter and mars? Does it mean much?
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charlie
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posted April 22, 2014 08:35 AM
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Originally posted by Piscesmoongirl:
I am in love with him since... well, forever. I asked him out a while ago for a cup of coffee and although he said sure why not, nothing happened. We greet each other when we meet randomly but nothing more. And he has a girlfriend now. (He didn't have one when i asked him out). So there. What shows he is not interested in me like i am in him?
The fact that he is with someone else now shows that he is not interested in you the same way. Sometimes men are very easy to read.. IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 22, 2014 08:43 AM
That is what she said precisely, that he is not interested.
The story has a NN conjunction flavor, but Jupiter is too neutral to do that. Maybe a more experienced astrologer could see the reasons.IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 22, 2014 08:48 AM
On second thought, ariestaurus may be right, how tight is that conjunction to your SN? IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted April 22, 2014 08:52 AM
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Originally posted by maira:
That is what she said precisely, that he is not interested.
The story has a NN conjunction flavor, but Jupiter is too neutral to do that. Maybe a more experienced astrologer could see the reasons.
Reasons why he is not interested can be endless!! Other woman might be better in bed.....have nicer legs....cook better.....smile a bigger smile......be stupider (which he likes)....have nicer parents.... etc etc etc etc That is something astrology won't be able to tell. Personally I would just ask him. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted April 22, 2014 09:25 AM
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Originally posted by Piscesmoongirl:
I am in love with him since... well, forever. I asked him out a while ago for a cup of coffee and although he said sure why not, nothing happened. We greet each other when we meet randomly but nothing more. And he has a girlfriend now. (He didn't have one when i asked him out). So there. What shows he is not interested in me like i am in him?
Do you know him? Are you friends?
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anonymidarkness
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posted April 22, 2014 09:29 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
Reasons why he is not interested can be endless!! Other woman might be better in bed.....have nicer legs....cook better.....smile a bigger smile......be stupider (which he likes)....have nicer parents.... etc etc etc etc That is something astrology won't be able to tell. Personally I would just ask him.
I agree with this. Sometimes we astro-rationalize everything too much. IP: Logged |
Piscesmoongirl
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posted April 22, 2014 10:08 AM
The SN is 4 degrees away from the Sun.
We used to be classmates in school when we were young. Now we are just acquaintances.
I realize of course the countless possibilities of why he is not interested in me, i just wanted to know if something indicates the reason, in an astrological way.
Based on your observations, no serious placement or aspect indicates this, so i will just have to live with that.IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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posted April 22, 2014 10:20 AM
The partner's moon in ur 3rd H can help break the ice. He will tell you "everythings" in his mind. Even it's just a trivial matters , till you annoyed 
I have this with BF , his moon also in my3rd conjunct myNeptune . He told me everything in his mind , even just a little things such as choosing his cloth , he ask me every times.IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted April 22, 2014 10:38 AM
Neptune to Venus and to Moon. Trust me on this.Your Neptune opposes his Moon and squares his Sun and his Neptune quincunxes your Venus and widely sextiles your Moon.
Neptune aspects to Moon/Venus create the feeling of deep and spiritual love in both persons (I am sure he feels the connection too). Most persons, even so men, run from it, because they think it is not real. It confuses them. There must be other acpects between you that bring you together, like Saturn or Pluto or Chiron to personal planets, otherwise they just run and never come back.
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charlie
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posted April 22, 2014 11:21 AM
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Originally posted by jjj:
Neptune to Venus and to Moon. Trust me on this.Your Neptune opposes his Moon and squares his Sun and his Neptune quincunxes your Venus and widely sextiles your Moon.
Neptune aspects to Moon/Venus create the feeling of deep and spiritual love in both persons (I am sure he feels the connection too). Most persons, even so men, run from it, because they think it is not real. It confuses them. There must be other acpects between you that bring you together, like Saturn or Pluto or Chiron to personal planets, otherwise they just run and never come back.
ooooh!! I have had the Neptune/Moon and it's very tricky... one is bound to run, indeed. IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted April 22, 2014 11:35 AM
quote:
Originally posted by jjj:
Neptune to Venus and to Moon. Trust me on this.Your Neptune opposes his Moon and squares his Sun and his Neptune quincunxes your Venus and widely sextiles your Moon.
Neptune aspects to Moon/Venus create the feeling of deep and spiritual love in both persons (I am sure he feels the connection too). Most persons, even so men, run from it, because they think it is not real. It confuses them. There must be other acpects between you that bring you together, like Saturn or Pluto or Chiron to personal planets, otherwise they just run and never come back.
There was an old thread on unrequited love including charts of selebrities. It was concluded that most unrequited love charts show hard aspects with Neptune
. Try to search for this thread, quite interesting.
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manderin
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posted April 22, 2014 11:39 AM
The only person I ever truly fell in love with had his venus right on my Descendant. Haven't yet met another person to have their venus there. But his Saturn made no contacts at all to me so he wasn't interested in making it last. I was heartbroken but moved on.He eventually ended up marrying someone who's venus was on HIS Descendant and also made plenty of good aspects to his Saturn. Looks to me like venus on the Descendant is powerful and will make the Desc person fall in love, but it won't necessarily make the venus person fall. IP: Logged |
Piscesmoongirl
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posted April 22, 2014 12:17 PM
Jjj i believe you about Neptune.
I like to believe that he does have feelings for me. Maybe his feelings are intense and they scare him. But looking at his Venus, i see that it is in scorpio, which means he likes intense relationships. But who am i kidding? I just like to think that scenario because it hurts to admit that something so strong (on my side at least) is a one-sided thing. EDIT: We don't have a venus-neptune aspect but the moon-neptune one is at 0 degrees.
Is it possible that in the future, a progression can trigger a planet that will cause him not to be afraid and run from it? IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted April 22, 2014 12:24 PM
saturn is not well positioned. you have venus opp. saturn which is probably one of the worst aspects for anything long-term (although you might date long term there are always issues). and you have his moon in bad position to your Uranus and his own for that matter. it creates instability, especially since they are surrounding the ASC. he must find you very attractive though; with that venus sitting on the ASC I can't imagine he wouldn't!IP: Logged |
maira
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posted April 22, 2014 12:35 PM
This is what I thought initially, that he hides it, but there's no need to enable a one sided attraction (believe me, I have lost three years infatuated with someone who couldn't care less). And to answer your question, yes, it's possible, but in the mean time, try no to feed it. Just live your life and be happy with it  IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted April 22, 2014 01:41 PM
I would like to look at your synastry w DOBs... and I would also like to know how much real contact you have had.IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted April 22, 2014 02:27 PM
dp! sorry. IP: Logged |
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