posted April 22, 2014 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Reasons why he is not interested can be endless!! Other woman might be better in bed.....have nicer legs....cook better.....smile a bigger smile......be stupider (which he likes)....have nicer parents.... etc etc etc etc That is something astrology won't be able to tell. Personally I would just ask him.

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This.

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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
I agree with this.

Sometimes we astro-rationalize everything too much.

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And this.

Though your sun is unaspected, could be something?

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Originally posted by Piscesmoongirl:
Jjj i believe you about Neptune.
I like to believe that he does have feelings for me. Maybe his feelings are intense and they scare him. But looking at his Venus, i see that it is in scorpio, which means he likes intense relationships. But who am i kidding? I just like to think that scenario because it hurts to admit that something so strong (on my side at least) is a one-sided thing.

EDIT: We don't have a venus-neptune aspect but the moon-neptune one is at 0 degrees.
Is it possible that in the future, a progression can trigger a planet that will cause him not to be afraid and run from it?

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IMO, with his venus in scorpio if he liked you he would not have been afraid of intensity and you'd know he liked you.

posted April 22, 2014 03:39 PM              

Because there's a difference between him knowing you and rejecting you (unrequited love) and liking a person form a distance without really knowing him (you having a crush on somebody).

Besides, if you don't know him well, obviously you can't say you love him. He could be completely different than you imagine.

I'm asking this because this is a "good" synastry, meaning, IMO, if these two people knew each other well, they would be close, they would like each other, at least for a while. Even the "bad" aspects described by the others can also be very strong positive ones (Moon/Neptune: telepathy, a romantic's dream, Venus/Saturn, enduring love, if he has an evolved Saturn, Moon/Uranus - excitement, unpredictability, this one a little bit trickier, but it depends on how both of you like the Uranian energy) And apparently you are both Uranian.

posted April 22, 2014 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
There was an old thread on unrequited love including charts of selebrities. It was concluded that most unrequited love charts show hard aspects with Neptune
. Try to search for this thread, quite interesting.

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posted April 22, 2014 10:56 PM            

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Originally posted by ReachingForTheStars:
The Neptune aspects in this synastry made me think of that old thread too. I think this is the one you were referring to:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/209416.html

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Exactly that one. Thanks for bumping it, star!

Seems that the Neptune person looks upon their love objects as if they were perfect for them. That's what Neptune does.

posted April 23, 2014 01:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Piscesmoongirl:
To answer your question Leoloo, we live in the same neighborhood and from ages 6-12 i was in the same class with this boy. Then, we went to different schools and afterwards, i left town to go to college. So did he. I saw him again a few years later and as we live in a small town, we sometimes bump to each other. What i want to say is that I used to know him... as a child. I can't really say that i know well the man he has grown up to be but neither that i don't know him at all. But you are right, we don't fully know each other now that we are adults and it's hard to do that, because we don't have common friends. I hoped i helped you understand.

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posted April 23, 2014 01:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:

Exactly that one. Thanks for bumping it, star!

Seems that the Neptune person looks upon their love objects as if they were perfect for them. That's what Neptune does.

The OP's Neptune squares the man's luminaries. There is the clue.

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OMG! You know, I read that thread a few times in the past, and I still couldn't figure out if it's the neptune person with the unrequited feelings, or if it was the other way around. Tricky neptune! Thanks for clearing that up.

posted April 23, 2014 05:20 AM              

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Originally posted by Piscesmoongirl:
To answer your question Leoloo, we live in the same neighborhood and from ages 6-12 i was in the same class with this boy. Then, we went to different schools and afterwards, i left town to go to college. So did he. I saw him again a few years later and as we live in a small town, we sometimes bump to each other. What i want to say is that I used to know him... as a child. I can't really say that i know well the man he has grown up to be but neither that i don't know him at all. But you are right, we don't fully know each other now that we are adults and it's hard to do that, because we don't have common friends. I hoped i helped you understand.

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posted April 23, 2014 05:57 AM              

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Originally posted by Orange:

Exactly that one. Thanks for bumping it, star!

Seems that the Neptune person looks upon their love objects as if they were perfect for them. That's what Neptune does.

The OP's Neptune squares the man's luminaries. There is the clue.

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Hi, Orange, I have to disagree with that. From my experience, it is usually the planet person who idealizes the Neptune person, Neptune is this glamorous, mysterious, enticing individual to the planet person.

I think we should make a distinction between unrequited love and the tendency to idealize or fantasize about someone from a distance. In the second case, there seems to be a connection with Neptune in the natal, the person is a Neptunian, especially with Venus/Neptune, Venus in 12th or in Pisces (especially for women) or sometimes Mars/Neptune (especially for men) and Sun/Neptune ASC/Neptune. I have Venus square Neptune myself and it manifests that I project the best in people when I first meet them, as if I live in a perfect world, where nobody lies, or cheats the other etc., and disappointments are inevitable. I know it's not true, but I really really have to put an effort not to have this initial reaction. I also tend to "glamorize" certain people and fantasize a lot. These are the more "negative" aspects of Venus/Neptune, apart from the numerous positive ones I experience.

For me, unrequited love is a situation in which two people know each other, they are at least friends, or they have dated or have been in a relationship, but one is not into the other.

In this case, what I've noticed so far from synastries of unrequited love, is that one's personal planets or important points are more aspected than the other's, especially the rulers of the love houses 5th, 7th, 8th, why for the other it is not the same. Or for one of them the planets of the other fall into love houses (primary or secondary), while for the other they don't. Simply put, one is not the other's type. This is when unrequited love happens, IMO. Therefore, I don't think there is a specific astrological aspect showing unrequited love.

Of course, there is also the case in which one person has all kinds of relationship issues, like not being able to sustain a long term relationship or simply looking for other things than relationships at that point.