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Topic: what is a twinflame
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jjj Knowflake Posts: 285 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 24, 2014 08:16 AM
I think that people who have had this kind of intense soul connection draw their knowlegde from their own experience first hand and all the false information that is on the web cannot shake them much.On the other hand, those who have not had the experience... if they first read TF websites and boards without this experience and start looking based on this information, this can lead to nonsense. Those who know, know. Lavender CS seems to be one of them  IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53913 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 24, 2014 08:32 AM
I don't believe in it. I think this concept is like a musical. It is fine in theory but if you expect it to work in real life, you will fall with a great thud.------------------ Want To Ask Any Question About Bible Prophecy? Go For it. It is Free, of course. http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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tgem Knowflake Posts: 1514 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 08:39 AM
" On the other hand, those who have not had the experience... if they first read TF websites and boards without this experience and start looking based on this information, this can lead to nonsense.Those who know, know." YES.
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Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 09:33 AM
quote: Originally posted by jjj: . On the other hand, those who have not had the experience... if they first read TF websites and boards without this experience and start looking based on this information, this can lead to nonsense.
Exactlyyyy!!!!! This is pretty much what happens a lot of the time. Though its not to say its wrong that others want to find theirs, most real TFs will already know beforehand that the other exists and wouldn't need to be influenced by those twinkly over romanticized sites that blow the whole thing out of proportion lol. When I came to know of mine I didn't even know what soulmates were, let alone TFs. It was when I randomly typed in what I was going through and felt that all of these hocus pocus sites came up. And I admit at that time, I was even enthralled and wanted so much for my connection to that guy be like that, even though all along I knew that it was, but those sites deluded me for a while. I was a naive 13 year old girl, what can I say lol. This is what I mean by the dangers of it, some who are way out of touch with their spirituality and higher selves want this kind of thing. They fuction from the lower chakras and want instant gratification.  Good thing though that I came across Mel and Nichole soon as well, and their info pretty much made eveything so much more clearer. I wish there was something I could do as well to separate the "wheat from the shaft" so to speak lol, or the false **** from what is real and true. It greatly saddens me that people make assumptions about this concept and throw out just whatever about it without knowing if its actually legit or not, just anything that satisfies their egos. IP: Logged |
page one Knowflake Posts: 317 From: USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 24, 2014 09:37 AM
But Lavender, you haven't even met him yet.IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 09:43 AM
quote: Originally posted by page one: But Lavender, you haven't even met him yet.
True, but the physical meeting isn't necessary for the recognition to happen. Its a connection that takes place on a spiritual level first, then works its way down and the melding/molding of the original one energy body finalizes when the physical face to face meeting takes place. I do know him and have gone through those initial stages that bonda-fied twins do. So I guess I am a partially bonda-fied twin at this point lol. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 09:44 AM
Thank you tgem and jjj  I'm glad to see there's still those out there who can know how to discern using a balanced approach.  I used to believe all this time that this concept was very right brained and the logical mind would always fail to grasp it, whereas the key to really understanding it is actually using both hemispheres of your brain. 😜 I mean thats what TFs are about as well right; balancing your own masculine/feminine energies lol. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 10:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: It's illogical. If each of us contains yin and yang, then there can be no "merging of the feminine and masculine principal" between "twinflames".
I disagree. With TFs its not just about the merging of their masculine/feminine energies; but a full on 5-body meld that takes place. Why? Because they share the same core frequency, therefore they are magnatized to one another and want to merge. Its a necessary stage rather. You're correct that each of us contains the yin/yang but 99% of the population has theirs all in wack, which is why there's so much misuse of sexual energy. :/ Also, TFs have already experieneced previous lives as being bi, homosexual, trans, etc, they don't need to incarnate and go through all of that again just for the fun of it. Those are all old, 3-D relationship roles (which don't get me wrong, are actually needed for soul growth and experience in order to become a graduate). Ooooh now I know I've angered a lot of you... :P But I don't care. Enough hiding in the shadows and keeping my mouth shut while people go around throwing ridiculous bull and not knowing what they talk about when it comes to this concept. We have enough people whom are in confusion and need assistance, please don't make it harder for them. I know cause I've been there and know how painful it can be, and I really wish I had some real, legit knowledge when I found mine. If you haven't walked the walk, please don't talk to talk. You aren't doing any good for others but further confusing them. Its time to get real and raw!!! Come at me.  *this is not coming from a place of ego or superiority at all, if one is enthusiastic, passionate and very sure of something, they aren't likely to hide it. * IP: Logged |
mir Knowflake Posts: 1323 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted April 24, 2014 10:14 AM
I spoiled 7 years of my life thinking I met my flame until I got hit by the harsh face of reality. But it was a nice run over the rough sea... so yea I get the kick hehe.This was 25 years ago. Well 25-18 to be specific. IP: Logged |
page one Knowflake Posts: 317 From: USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted April 24, 2014 10:14 AM
The only one getting angry (or defensive) is you.IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 1488 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 10:20 AM
It's odd how people think they are experts on it when they haven't even fulfilled the goal themselves. Hm IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 10:23 AM
quote: Originally posted by page one: The only one getting angry (or defensive) is you.
Lol. I'm not angry, but I am defensive yes, because I don't like it when people give misleading info about this. Btw why are you pointing fingers at me? Have I said something that pushed your buttons?  IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 10:25 AM
quote: Originally posted by MsPrism: It's odd how people think they are experts on it when they haven't even fulfilled the goal themselves. Hm
Exactly what "goal" are you referring to?The TF connection/purpose is an ongoing and evolving process. Its not something linear that starts at point A and ends at point B. its always been there, just how aware one is to it, how they awaken/transform in the whole process and what they do with that "new"-ness of themselves is what it all comes down to. And yeah, that's cause us "experts" know what were talking about from EXPERIENCE. Something which many of those other folks who preach this TF stuff haven't gone through themselves. I'm talking experience of having felt the connection and all the highs, lows and perks that comes with it, which left me changed for good, so yeah, of course that gives me a right to give out info on it because I have LIVED it and still am.  IP: Logged |
jjj Knowflake Posts: 285 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted April 24, 2014 10:42 AM
I think everyone can chime in the discussion... who walk the walk (nice expression) rely most on their inner voice, anyway... all these websites and sharing of experiences is helpful, but the decision whether to stay put or to throw the towel is up to the individual.I have known pain before, but the way this special person presses your buttons and rips the rug from under your feet is incredible... sometimes I think that all the previous painful experiences were a preparation. Anyway, only time will tell, and it all can end, like Mir said. But I have faith And this experience has made me better person, for sure. IP: Logged |
Lavender CrystalSwan Knowflake Posts: 1135 From: Vancouver, BC, Canada Registered: Sep 2013
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posted April 24, 2014 10:50 AM
quote: Originally posted by jjj: I think everyone can chime in the discussion... who walk the walk (nice expression) rely most on their inner voice, anyway... all these websites and sharing of experiences is helpful, but the decision whether to stay put or to throw the towel is up to the individual.
Yes, very true.  IP: Logged |