posted April 23, 2014 07:41 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Not again

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LOL
I checked the search engine and was more confused. Plus a lot of people are talking about it on youtube

posted April 23, 2014 07:44 PM            

But all my annoyance aside. It's basically a theory stating that your soul was split and made to incarnate at different times and place, hopefully experiencing enough to finally come back together and reach a state of union completely unknown to you since the split. Thus, you feel absolutely understood, connected, sexually/mentally/physically/emotionally compatible.

This scares you, you run or they run and then they tell you how that will work out.

Some people believe that they have met their twin but won't be with them this lifetime out of choice (usually followed by "they're married").

posted April 23, 2014 08:08 PM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
Anyway, it's just a theory. Essentially, if you find someone that friggin' floats your boat in ways it's never been bouyed, enjoy it and don't quibble over definitions.

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posted April 24, 2014 01:42 AM            

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Originally posted by livictori:
LOL
I checked the search engine and was more confused. Plus a lot of people are talking about it on youtube

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They exist and are very real, but people idealize and romanticize them, trying to fit them into the whole "soulmatey, fluffy pixie dust" type of relationship modality.

They aren't your ideal relationship, they aren't your knight in shining armour or damsel in distress, they aren't your smooth-sailing type of relationship where you just play house and have babies and have sex/be lovey dovey all day long and thats it lol.

If you want that you can find yourself a nice soulmate.

That's not what TFs are here for (although with some there can be that stuff involved), but they are mission and WORK oriented first and foremost. It requires a lot of inner work, a deep deep transformation to take place on all levels, a complete shattering and purging of your old beliefs and lifestyle, etc in order for you to deserve them. TFs are a gift for all the inner work you do on yourself and how in touch you are with yourself.
You have to come face to face with your most vulnerable and authentic self, and have a willingness to walk through fire and weather all kinds of storms if you wanna even think about being with your's (that is if you have one).

I know a lot of people will get their toes stepped on and dislike me for this saying this lol, but I'm just being real here.

There is sooo much false, delusory crap out there on Twinflames that it makes others believe its the ideal relationship to strive for...
You must be very careful and discerning when it comes to stuff on TFs because a lot of those "experts" out there likely haven't even experienced it for themselves.
They give out misleading info and a false sense of hope to others, making people being obsessed with this concept and desperate to find theirs. This is very sad and dangerous in my opinion...
Some of the people saying stuff on TFs are only regurgitating and parroting the same info over and over again off other sources and there is nothing original or new about their stuff at all.
Some of them even use it as a marketing scheme, and a good strategy for them is saying that everyone has one, so they can have a larger client base lol.
Of course those REAL twins who give readings are only doing it out of good intent, they are experienced and know what they're talking about, therefore making them skilled in guiding and assisting others.
But a lot of those other fake ones out there label it as this grand, passionate, all-consuming romance that will suddenly make your life better, but when it comes to the metaphysical and more deeper/serious info, they have nothing else to say.

Its another common misconception that everyone has a Twinflame.
You're only a TF if you are an evolved soul. (I know some of you are rolling your eyes now lol)
But the truth is, they are beings of a very high frequency who's main focus is raising the consciousness of the planet. They aren't superior or "better" than anyone else by any means; they are just more experienced, in touch with their higher selves, and are here to serve a specific purpose.
They have integrity, honesty, sincerity, compassion, and they use their accumulated skills for the healing/assisting of humanity through their work and their vibe in general.
If everyone had a TF then why would the planet be so corrupt?
I know it sounds very hollywood-like and all but it is what it is.

My point is that if you want to attract your potential twin, you have to be willing to go deep within yourself and focus on YOU. The internet has a lot of impostors and wannabes so be very weary.
You must outside of the survival modality of relationships, all that is the old way of living, based on the lower chakras and doesn't apply to TFs. Focus on yourself, and your connection to your inner being/higherself/spirit and do what makes your heart sing or brings you joy.

TFs have some serious business to do, spiritually.
It all starts with inner transformation and that reflects outwards, into your reality.
Its a union of extremes on every level, weather good or bad. it cleanses and purges you by bringing up to the surface your deepest of fears and anything else that needs to be worked on.
Its main purpose isnt a relationship, but a devotion to self development, spirituality, enlightenment, and being of service to humanity.

Are you willing and ready to that kind of work?
That's what TFs are here for.

I don't care if anyone disagrees with me or calls it a bunch of bull because chances are they haven't experienced it for themselves to know what its really like.
Those who have will know.

If you want real guidance and real info, go to a pair of real TFs, not wannabes.

I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I feel a need to defend this concept because its been so abused and manipulated.
Please don't be fooled by those websites that tell you its your ideal relationship and that everyone has one, because its not true.

posted April 24, 2014 01:45 AM            

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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Twin flame relationships usually are described as very difficult, or wrong place, wrong time--at least from accounts I've read on here, and online.

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posted April 24, 2014 01:50 AM            

Your post is wonderfully insightful.

I've also read that even if you're an evolved, higher soul, your twin flame may not necessarily even be incarnate during your lifetime. Some souls don't choose to reincarnate right away and instead 'exist' on the higher plane of consciousness as energy.

posted April 24, 2014 01:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
I'll tell you what it means.

It's when you get really drunk and meet a girl at a party and start to call each other soul mates and later in the night tell her she's your twin flame and than talk about getting matching twin flame tattoos but end up fooling around but their ex who lives with her comes home and you have to sneak out the bathroom window. ._.

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ROFL
I agree with you.

posted April 24, 2014 01:56 AM            

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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
^^^

Your post is wonderfully insightful.

I've also read that even if you're an evolved, higher soul, your twin flame may not necessarily even be incarnate during your lifetime. Some souls don't choose to reincarnate right away and instead 'exist' on the higher plane of consciousness as energy.

I think it's such a fascinating subject.

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Thanks, I just felt the need to ramble lol because I am very passionate about this. So many people have the wrong idea on TFs.

To me, it wouldn't make sense that one incarnates while the other stays up there as a caretaker.. We have guides for that.

I believe because TFs are returning graduates (meaning they're done with all their previous earthly lifetimes), and they are here on a purely mission-based purpose, they will have to incarnate together in order to fulfill that.
They sort of need each other in that regard, yin can't exist without yang and vis versa, they will greatly influence the other in their work and two is more powerful than one, so idk, that theory to me doesn't add up.

I am only speaking from my own experience of course, maybe for others its different.

EDIT:
Those with TFs who have passed on though, are an entirely different thing.

posted April 24, 2014 05:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:
They exist and are very real, but people idealize and romanticize them, trying to fit them into the whole "soulmatey, fluffy pixie dust" type of relationship modality.

They aren't your ideal relationship, they aren't your knight in shining armour or damsel in distress, they aren't your smooth-sailing type of relationship where you just play house and have babies and have sex/be lovey dovey all day long and thats it lol.

If you want that you can find yourself a nice soulmate.

That's not what TFs are here for (although with some there can be that stuff involved), but they are mission and WORK oriented first and foremost. It requires a lot of inner work, a deep deep transformation to take place on all levels, a complete shattering and purging of your old beliefs and lifestyle, etc in order for you to deserve them. TFs are a gift for all the inner work you do on yourself and how in touch you are with yourself.
You have to come face to face with your most vulnerable and authentic self, and have a willingness to walk through fire and weather all kinds of storms if you wanna even think about being with your's (that is if you have one).

I know a lot of people will get their toes stepped on and dislike me for this saying this lol, but I'm just being real here.

There is sooo much false, delusory crap out there on Twinflames that it makes others believe its the ideal relationship to strive for...
You must be very careful and discerning when it comes to stuff on TFs because a lot of those "experts" out there likely haven't even experienced it for themselves.
They give out misleading info a false sense of hope to others, making people being obsessed with this concept and desperate to find theirs. This is very sad and dangerous in my opinion...
Some of the people saying stuff on TFs are only regurgitating and parroting the same info over and over again off other sources and there is nothing original or new about their stuff at all.
Some of them even use it as a marketing scheme, and a good strategy for them is saying that everyone has one, so they can have a larger client base lol.
Of course those REAL twins who give readings are only doing it out of good intent, they are experienced and know what they're talking about, therefore making them skilled in guiding and assisting others.
But a lot of those other fake ones out there label it as this grand, passionate, all-consuming romance that will suddenly make your life better, but when it comes to the metaphysical and more deeper/serious info, they have nothing else to say.

Its another common misconception that everyone has a Twinflame.
You're only a TF if you are an evolved soul. (I know some of you are rolling your eyes now lol)
But the truth is, they are beings of a very high frequency who's main focus is raising the consciousness of the planet. They aren't superior or "better" than anyone else by any means; they are just more experienced, in touch with their higher selves, and are here to serve a specific purpose.
They have integrity, honesty, sincerity, compassion, and they use their accumulated skills for the healing/assisting of humanity through their work and their vibe in general.
If everyone had a TF then why would the planet be so corrupt?
I know it sounds very hollywood-like and all but it is what it is.

My point is that if you want to attract your potential twin, you have to be willing to go deep within yourself and focus on YOU. The internet has a lot of impostors and wannabes so be very weary.
You must outside of the survival modality of relationships, all that is the old way of living, based on the lower chakras and doesn't apply to TFs. Focus on yourself, and your connection to your inner being/higherself/spirit and do what makes your heart sing or brings you joy.

TFs have some serious business to do, spiritually.
It all starts with inner transformation and that reflects outwards, into your reality.
Its a union of extremes on every level, weather good or bad. it cleanses and purges you by bringing up to the surface your deepest of fears and anything else that needs to be worked on.
Its main purpose isnt a relationship, but a devotion to self development, spirituality, enlightenment, and being of service to humanity.

Are you willing and ready to that kind of work?
That's what TFs are here for.

I don't care if anyone disagrees with me or calls it a bunch of bull because chances are they haven't experienced it for themselves to know what its really like.
Those who have will know.

If you want real guidance and real info, go to a pair of real TFs, not wannabes.

I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I feel a need to defend this concept because its been so abused and manipulated.
Please don't be fooled by those websites that tell you its your ideal relationship and that everyone has one, because its not true.

They key is is to focus on your spirituality and connection with yourself. Then all else will unfold.

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posted April 24, 2014 05:34 AM            

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since twin flames are essentially the merging of the feminine and masculine principal-which we all contain as individuals, regardless of biological gender.

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It's illogical. If each of us contains yin and yang, then there can be no "merging of the feminine and masculine principal" between "twinflames".

posted April 24, 2014 05:43 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
It's illogical. If each of us contains yin and yang, then there can be no "merging of the feminine and masculine principal" between "twinflames".

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It's not illogical. Just because we each contain both doesn't mean it's in equal amounts. There's two sides to the coin always...

posted April 24, 2014 05:47 AM            

We are all internally feminine and masculine in different portions and we're simply trying to merge with another that has similar but opposite portions of the masculine and feminine.

posted April 24, 2014 06:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Lavender CrystalSwan:

They aren't your ideal relationship, they aren't your knight in shining armour or damsel in distress, they aren't your smooth-sailing type of relationship where you just play house and have babies and have sex/be lovey dovey all day long and thats it lol.

If you want that you can find yourself a nice soulmate.

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Ooh, yes, please, I am sooo ready for one of my nice soulmates!

posted April 24, 2014 07:03 AM            

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Originally posted by MsPrism:
But maybe the only way we can evolve is through limiting one or the other in our incarnations, forcing us to involve ourselves with other people.

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