posted April 27, 2014 12:20 AM              

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Originally posted by pocaloca:
Actually Nine , the one I met were sweet as honey, super gentle at the outset..They make one feel bad to even have any doubts in their benevolence.
After a while beast comes out though.

They stab you in the back in the most cruel way possible while you are nor prepared at all. Not even one of those I met through the life had the courage to fight in a honorable, straight forward way if there was objective reason for the fight in the first place..yikes

Anyway a good quote from late Tupac Shakur :

" Don`t blame( pisces) people for disappointing you,
blame yourself for trusting them. "

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posted August 03, 2021 05:40 PM            

I think this is worse with Ascendants than with Pisces Suns.
Every time I meet a Pisces I know that he is going to manipulate me. But after all, it is the nature of that sign.

It would be like asking an Aries not to get angry.
Or ask a Taurus to accept changes.
Or ask a Gemini to be honest.
Or ask a Cancer not to love his mother.
Or ask a Leo to renounce his crown.
Or ask Virgo not to be a perfectionist.
Or ask Libra not to be superficial and flirtatious.
Or ask Scorpio ... Nothing to say here 😅
Or ask Sagittarius not to travel and settle down.
Or ask Capricorn to give up his reputation.
Or ask Aquarius to stop being cold.

Each sign has its nature and must be assimilated.

I like those manipulative fish. At least while they seem innocent before turning into sharks. 😁

But you have to be aware that they are going to manipulate you, and nothing with them is real.

If you want something real, look for signs of Fire or Earth.
Or Scorpio, the only decent Water sign.

posted August 03, 2021 07:24 PM            

There's people who assume I'm very dominant, or very smart or whatever they decide fits me. I'm a complex person just as anyone else is, but I try my best just to fit in and not be noticed. The issue always is people projecting their fantasies on me, and coming up to conclusions about who I am as a person without getting to know me.

One of my fears is to be manipulated, because I often attract that type of person. I know what it feels like to be a victim of someone's mind games, I hate it.

Which is why I try my hardest to not do that to people, sometimes my survival instincts kick in though. From childhood traumas and such. Most of time I'm completely oblivious, I realize later on something was weird about the interaction.

I have been interacting with another pisces rising, conjunct Pisces sun in the first house. He does like to influence people, and has his faults just like anyone else. I've noticed a tendency to not live up to the words that spill from his mouth and he is no stranger to ghosting people.

At the end of the day we are all at different stages of our life, with lessons that are to be learned.

I consider manipulation to be a lower frequency of the sign, or it shows up, like I said when we're in bad situations. I can't speak for anyone else, but I personally make it my goal to be authentic. Being a hypocrite is not my jam, nor is purposely controlling anyone's perception.