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LucieLemonade
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posted May 03, 2014 02:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know. I have Venus in the 12th and I've never had an inappropriate crush, ever. I've had two quite serious crushes on guys who were not interested in me.

Neither were married, in a relation nor older, nor related, etc. Never had a crush on a friend's man, etc. Never been in love with a criminal or any "bad boy", etc.

I wouldn't say it's because I somehow made myself not do it. It just never happened.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 03, 2014 01:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, with Venus in 8th house, I have "inappropriate" crushes all the time.

I once crushed on my cousin , but that stayed as a crush. I think my brain did a flash-forward on how things would be if I followed through; awkward.

I know this will sound controversial, but I'll say it:

If two people have deep feelings for each other and are confined by rules pertaining to "relation", "age", even geographical proximity- those rules will not stand.

Many people continue to do things that society disagrees with. It just that society gets even more sensitive when it comes to the expression of sexuality(in "inappropriate" ways).

It is really up to the two people concerned whether or not the expression of the feelings they have for each other is part of their souls journey of experience.

As for me, sleeping with my cousin was not the soul experience that I wanted. Not because I care much for what others think, but it just didn't feel like the kind of experience that I'd be joyous in having.

A woman once called a radio station and spoke about how she had been sleeping with her son-without her husband's knowledge.

Many other listeners condemned her ; citing the bible, customs , cultural practices and even biological reasons for such a "horrendous" act.

One caller asked her, however, how it felt to her deep inside to do this? She responded by saying that she loved her son more than her husband and the feelings ran deep.That the son felt the same way too.

Now whether we are "comfortable" with this or not is irrelevant,she is having that experience for herself.

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Enneline
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posted May 03, 2014 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Enneline     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for sharing.

And I don't judge sex between cousins as inappropriate. Of course it sounds like inbreeding but many cultures accept intimate relations between cousins. But this is not for me. I consider my cousins as my 2nd brothers; I could never even kiss them.

Mother and son? Well, this is going too far. That's incest, has nothing to do with "inappropriate" any more

Back to astrology: Yes, I would agree if someone says the 8th house could play an important role when it comes to "inappropriate" crushes.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted May 03, 2014 03:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's the million dollar question right there: what is "too far"? And is this "too far" applicable only to you or to the masses?

And if it is to the masses, why are people being jailed for it? Some continuing this behavior underground?

As a Venus and Uranus in 8th, these are things I ponder personally. But then again, as I said, it is a very controversial topic.

I just had a notion that perhaps it is Venus in 12th after all too. For the 12th house is "the breakdown of boundaries"; in this case, what is "appropriate" by societies standards(Saturn)

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posted May 03, 2014 03:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for page one     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Enneline:
Thanks for sharing.

And I don't judge sex between cousins as inappropriate. Of course it sounds like inbreeding but many cultures accept intimate relations between cousins.


Marriage between cousins was accepted in the western world as well, until inbreeding became a problem. Look at the Hapsburgs.

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Faith
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posted May 03, 2014 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Prince William and Kate are fourteenth cousins.
http://www.channel4.com/news/royal-wedding-william-and-kate-are-very-distant-cousins

I don't put anything past these royals....

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IV XXIV
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posted May 03, 2014 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for IV XXIV     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Wrong" not in terms of "too different, incompatible cultural backgrounds/ties, etc." but in terms of "he is gay and you are a girl" or "he is the husband of your best friend AND sister".

Lol story of my life. The first and only person I fell in love with was 5 years older than me - I was 13, he was 18. He was also in a long-term, committed relationship. His girlfriend loooooved me. Not lol.

I've had things for professors, bosses, coworkers, married men, my best friend's exes, even women. I have Sun in Taurus, Venus and Mercury in Aries all in the 12th. I really don't care where you come from or what your gender is, if I like you, I like you. Although.. My further actions will be contingent upon your marital status.. Lol. I'm not a fan of home wreckers.

But, my very first relationship (I was 15, so don't judge me) was with a boy who was in a 2 year long relationship. We began dating while they were still together. While I protested doing anything physical with him while he was still in another relationship, it was still wrong.

I'm convinced I'm doomed. I constantly am only attracted to people I can't have. Celebrities too. If I can have you/do have you, I'll get bored. And fall for someone else while I'm with you. I'm probably just going to be single for the rest of my life so I don't hurt someone badly. Fun times for me! Lol.

I'm actually beginning to think I'm a masochist because I'm entirely too jealous, sensitive and needy for those types of situations but I always end up putting myself in them anyway. "You can get addicted to a certain kind of sadness", I guess.

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