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Topic: Experience with Venus in Virgo?
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IV XXIV
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posted May 21, 2014 09:54 PM
  
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I know I'll probably stir up drama with this and I know that I'll just ignore those people.  As Venus in Virgo...
There's been some negative things said, as well as in the leo virgo Venus thread.
If you will observe, I didn't get all butthurt like so many people do about their signs/placements.
That's how you do that...
Take notes.  Back to your regular scheduled programming
I think it's the smartest route to take, honestly. Everyone is different and perceives things/people differently. I could love Aries placements while you could hate them.. Doesn't mean they're bad people. Some people take things a little too personally online, but I guess it's because it's hard to pick up on sarcasm. But good going on taking the higher road.  IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
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posted May 21, 2014 09:55 PM
And thank you to all who have shared! I appreciate all your responses  IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted May 21, 2014 10:02 PM
Lol so much for ignoring with an answer. Baying an opera of toilet insults  Didn't get butt hurt but would come in and explain. The attention seeking thing is becoming easier to see. One present thread can't weigh against all those in the past IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted May 21, 2014 11:06 PM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Lol so much for ignoring with an answer. Baying an opera of toilet insults Didn't get butt hurt but would come in and explain. The attention seeking thing is becoming easier to see. One present thread can't weigh against all those in the past
You need to grow up seriously. This is now the 2nd thread you've harassed him in. If you don't stop now I assure you you will be dealt with. I don't play fair when it comes to those I love.
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12muddy
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posted May 21, 2014 11:10 PM
So much for internet bravado please deal with me. Thinks it will stir up drama. Said it anyway but didn't forget to "ignore". Wants drama and now has it but is feeling harrased. LOL IP: Logged |
Melodie
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posted May 21, 2014 11:20 PM
I only know of two people with Virgo Venus. The things I like about them, they're very handy and they show affection in practical ways. The things I don't like, they're very critical of others but they're sensitive to criticism directed at them. And the Virgo Venuses I know do not like to talk about their feelings. They internalize everything yet expect you to know what they're thinking. quote:
Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
We analyze and nitpick (only in my head) every last thing. I wouldn't expect perfection. That's a myth imo.
But I do think, "Is that something that I can live with long term?" The good... I'll do almost anything for her. I do lots of little things, thoughtful things. I aim to make her happy. However, if it feels unappreciated and/or taken advantage of.... LOOK OUT.
Holds very true with my ex. The constant critiquing. He rarely says it outright, but he'll hint at it in his passive-aggressive Cancer Moon way. And he loved to use the word appreciate. I always tried to express my appreciation, but combined with his Leo Sun, it's like he's never satisfied.
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awakemer
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posted May 21, 2014 11:22 PM
major difference between a pure unaspected venus in virgo versus a highly aspected virgo venus or even a venus virgo retrograde. IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
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posted May 21, 2014 11:36 PM
The guy I know with Virgo Venus seems quite opposite, though.. He's like anti-human touch. He's very uncomfortable with affection, and is even awkward about it when he shows it with his closest friends. And whether or not the venus is aspected; I wish I knew for sure, but I don't know his TOB. IP: Logged |
meissieri
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posted May 22, 2014 10:02 AM
*sigh* Here we go again...
Thread hijacking. IP: Logged |
babybull82
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posted May 22, 2014 10:34 AM
I'm going to have to take a pass on this particular venus placement lol. It's like someone said above, they expect you to know what they are thinking, without actually telling you. This one had cancer moon, Scorp sun & asc...so he was totally lacking directness...don't have time for that blah. But um he was very helpful I guess lol IP: Logged |
tphoenix5
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posted May 22, 2014 11:41 AM
I would just like to add that most venus in virgos I have met... and I have met a few in the days I was an astrologer have a weird aversion to dirty fingernails. They are often drawn to people by cleanliness or lack thereof. But do not want a male or female with dirty fingernails. ITs weird but I have seldom met a Venus in Virgo that I did not say... dirty fingernails freak you out... and they would say... you KNOW ME>....naw but I knew that.IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 22, 2014 11:44 AM
^ Dirty fingernails are horrible.
Any person with good hygiene understands that.IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted May 22, 2014 12:33 PM
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Originally posted by meissieri:
*sigh* Here we go again...
Thread hijacking.
Because of your stuck up you know what friend of yours. I knew how she was from post one almost a year ago but gave her the benefit of the doubt. Her ego can come back to earth any day now. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted May 22, 2014 12:39 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Because of your stuck up you know what friend of yours. I knew how she was from post one almost a year ago but gave her the benefit of the doubt. Her ego can come back to earth any day now.
Why not just let it go? Just don't answer DF. Just ignore. You two gotta learn to not respond to every little thing. For real.
Sorry, but I had to speak up because I see you and BG doing the same things over and over. I think you should just tune out posts you don't agree with a bit more.I started doing the same thing :] IP: Logged |
meissieri
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posted May 22, 2014 04:51 PM
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Why not just let it go? Just don't answer DF. Just ignore. You two gotta learn to not respond to every little thing. For real.
Sorry, but I had to speak up because I see you and BG doing the same things over and over. I think you should just tune out posts you don't agree with a bit more.I started doing the same thing :][/B]
I agree, Starlight. Of course nobody likes to be put on the spot in public, but things are not going to stop if you keep replying. Just take a deep breath and don't engage. And yes Muddy is my friend and she's anything but stuck-up with me. <3 IP: Logged |
meissieri
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posted May 22, 2014 05:00 PM
Ontopic: Yeah, I dislike dirty fingernails on myself. On others... as long as they wash their hands properly before cooking or something like that. *shudders* Not in my food.And I'm racking my brain over why I don't relate to all of these 'picky'/too high standards descriptions. I'm sure you guys have experienced it that way, but yeah. Is it the T-square? House? Duad? Me being a woman? I am very much about perfection about my own looks and work, though. And I did use to be quite the nitpicker on things - being irritated and taking it out on others. Hmm, but maybe that's my Mars in Virgo... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 22, 2014 05:21 PM
It's gotta be the Neptune/12H influence, meiss.IP: Logged |
lioninash
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posted May 22, 2014 05:57 PM
im a leo sun 10th house, venus in virgo 10th house.
when i'm single, its hard for me to take guys that are into me seriously. i hate it when i talk to a guy for only a few days.. and they start saying how they think im so amazing and blah blah blah and sugar coat everything. it makes me think "do they do this for every girl they talk to?" and it's a complete turn off. another turn off is guys that care waaaaay too much about their looks. i like a guy that can pull off messy hair, jeans and a tee. over-dressed guys make me feel like i always have to dress up and be perfect, and i hate that. i like being me, my perfectly imperfect self, and i look for that in others. i have to admit, sometimes i lose interest quickly. i'll really like the person but then something just happens and i don't have feelings for them anymore. it can be anything from something they said to something they did, not even bad but idk sometimes they just do something that makes me reel in the feelings and decide they're not what i'm looking for and move along.
i'm in a relationship now, and i've been with him for almost 3 years. he's the greatest boyfriend i've ever had, and the thing that set him apart from other guys is that he didn't try too hard. i liked that. he just let things flow and we ended up falling in love with each other. also, I'M THE ONE that asked HIM out on a date, which i had never done before. i met him because he saw me at a party sitting on the couch alone, and he came over and sat next to me and just started talking to me.. i'm pretty sure he's my soul mate
but anyways, in my opinion, if a venus in virgo likes you, they'll make the first move. i over-analyze a lot when it comes to love, so when i thought i found the perfect guy, i definitely made it known to him that i wanted to see more of him.
hope this helped IP: Logged |
meissieri
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posted May 22, 2014 05:57 PM
Yeah, probably. Maybe the Neptune influence softens the Virgo up or something. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted May 22, 2014 07:25 PM
I think Venus is mostly about appearance. My ex with Virgo Venus fell in love with me in a professional setting. I was always dressed in business dresses and sexy suits, with my glasses on. I looked very Capricorn basically.. I have Moon and Mars in Cap (and Taurus Venus) which is compatible with Virgo Venus.
People always say they're shy. I don't find them shy. Earthy Venus people show their love in practical ways - by being there for you and doing things for you. If you speak their language it's easy to get the message that they like you. If you expect more obvious, dramatic, verbal displays of affection - then you'd feel let down. They're not *that* type. IP: Logged |
IV XXIV
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posted May 22, 2014 10:23 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
I think Venus is mostly about appearance. My ex with Virgo Venus fell in love with me in a professional setting. I was always dressed in business dresses and sexy suits, with my glasses on. I looked very Capricorn basically.. I have Moon and Mars in Cap (and Taurus Venus) which is compatible with Virgo Venus.
People always say they're shy. I don't find them shy. Earthy Venus people show their love in practical ways - by being there for you and doing things for you. If you speak their language it's easy to get the message that they like you. If you expect more obvious, dramatic, verbal displays of affection - then you'd feel let down. They're not *that* type.
I could see that being a problem for me... :/ thank you for sharing Odette! IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted May 26, 2014 02:55 AM
I went on and on about venus in virgo people finding it difficult to be satisfied in relationships, but it turns out that I have north node in 7th house, which makes me hard to be satisfied in relationships too, as well as a hypocrite
Ha! KarmaIP: Logged |
foxxyxo
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posted May 26, 2014 04:40 AM
im sorry but i really hate people with mercury in virgo and venus in virgo it seriously kills ******* everything....and people say capricorns are bad pshhhhhhh at least they can be hilarious and loyal and romantic...virgos with their relentless critisizing just never ends and yes so true, they love to dish it out but can barely take it back. merc virgos love to explain things in 5 different ways with metaphors and similies even if its the most boring topic on the planet. CAN"T STAND IT GET TO THE FREAKING POINT. if your going to talk about something for 30 min at least add some humor, but *le sighhhh* you guys are incapable of that...your critisizm makes you come off "better than" but really underneath it all you guys are so insecure and uptight venus in virgo, man this has to be a karmic position. i know this beautiful russian girl who deserves the world and a beautiful husband but she is soooooooooo picky and so critical of others and so fickle that shes almost 32 and still single (and believe me i know she wants a relationship). it's like once they get hurt once, they take themselves out of the game forever. talk about insecurity to the max. if you do anything for them they seem seriously so unappreciative of it and act like it was expected of you anyways but then when they do something for you, you better thank them or they'll kill the moment. also they like to act like your helpless and you need help with everything and that they're there to teach you everything you know....insulting. i mean yes help me, i help you, but don't treat me like im some helpless puppy dog that needs your guidance 24/7 IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted May 26, 2014 05:00 AM
You can't criticize venus in virgos, if you are going to critize them about the fact that they criticize
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LostTaurus
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posted May 26, 2014 08:23 AM
Moody, persnickety, fearful (sometimes to the point of paranoia...), detail-oriented (no, REALLLLY...), patient (with his/her own agenda), impatient (with his/her own agenda), secretive (but not in a malicious way, just guarded), adoring, resentful that they're adoring, great planners, great executors, terrible romancers in the "romantic comedy" sense, among the truest friends you'll ever have (as long as you don't expect huge 4th of July-type declarations). IP: Logged |
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