posted May 21, 2014 12:40 AM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have sun in Virgo and I have been friends with Venus in Aries people. Does the person with Venus in Virgo also have the sun there?

I do have a fire sign Venus.

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posted May 21, 2014 12:44 AM              

But yeah I think the only thing about them is the fact that they tend to havr hard time being satisfied with themselves and even their partners...
other than thattt venus in virgo iss awesomee

posted May 21, 2014 12:44 AM            

He loves to be appreciated for what he does as a provider and supportive companion. It's important to acknowledge all the little things this Venus does for you, or you'll rub them wrong. His taste in women? - Natural, well-mannered, neat appearance. Flashy doesn't really do it for him, even with that little Leo Sun.

You can have that Aries fire going on but the lively, life of the party, sometimes too blunt Aries appeal might get under their skin depending on other things going on in the chart. Virgo placements care about how they appear and the people they're surrounded with.

posted May 21, 2014 12:48 AM              

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have sun in Virgo and I have been friends with Venus in Aries people. Does the person with Venus in Virgo also have the sun there?

I do have a fire sign Venus.

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posted May 21, 2014 12:49 AM            

I found he was very practical, down to earth, and genuinely cared about people. But...could be too critical at times, tough to emotionally open up, and stubborn.

posted May 21, 2014 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
Been off and on with a Leo/Venus Virgo guy; he's been "fitting" because he compliments my Cap Venus. We both look at love and the expressions of love in the more "practical' sense. Not the most romantic placement in my experience lol But it's about what they do for you, in their eyes more than romanticism.

He loves to be appreciated for what he does as a provider and supportive companion. It's important to acknowledge all the little things this Venus does for you, or you'll rub them wrong. His taste in women? - Natural, well-mannered, neat appearance. Flashy doesn't really do it for him, even with that little Leo Sun.

You can have that Aries fire going on but the lively, life of the party, sometimes too blunt Aries appeal might get under their skin depending on other things going on in the chart. Virgo placements care about how they appear and the people they're surrounded with.

EDIT: Oops, you're a Venus Aries. Disregard the last part!

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posted May 21, 2014 12:54 AM              

One bad thing is that I can be fickle. I may pursue and suddenly have a change of heart. That's one of the biggest complaints and I really can't explain it. It just happens.
Picky... We analyze and nitpick (only in my head) every last thing. I wouldn't expect perfection. That's a myth imo.
But I do think, "Is that something that I can live with long term?"

posted May 21, 2014 12:55 AM            

He's calm and patient. Romantic, sweet n playful. I admire those qualities so much, but funny sometimes they grate on my nerves. When there are conflicts I'd deal with it by talking about it immediately. We may even fight along the way, I like letting things out. He likes to take his time to think things through. While he takes his sweet time I'll be stewing in my cauldron. His libra sun oppose my aries moon - yeah... Lol whenever my temper starts to flare, he'll sing "My sweet's gonna burn the place down... Down down down.." lolol cheeky focker.

He's caring. Takes care of every single little thing that I may overlook. He seldom complains, and isn't demanding or overbearing.

posted May 21, 2014 12:56 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Venus Virgo here...

One bad thing is that I can be fickle. I may pursue and suddenly have a change of heart. That's one of the biggest complaints and I really can't explain it. It just happens.
Picky... We analyze and nitpick (only in my head) every last thing. I wouldn't expect perfection. That's a myth imo.
But I do think, "Is that something that I can live with long term?"

The good... I'll do almost anything for her. I do lots of little things, thoughtful things. I aim to make her happy. However, if it feels unappreciated and/or taken advantage of.... LOOK OUT.

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posted May 21, 2014 12:59 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
I like libra sun/virgo venus. It's a combo that often shows up among friends. My s.o has it too.

He's calm and patient. Romantic, sweet n playful. I admire those qualities so much, but funny sometimes they grate on my nerves. When there are conflicts I'd deal with it by talking about it immediately. We may even fight along the way, I like letting things out. He likes to take his time to think things through. While he takes his sweet time I'll be stewing in my cauldron. His libra sun oppose my aries moon - yeah... Lol whenever my temper starts to flare, he'll sing "My sweet's gonna burn the place down... Down down down.." lolol cheeky focker.

He's caring. Takes care of every single little thing that I may overlook. He seldom complains, and isn't demanding or overbearing.

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posted May 21, 2014 01:10 AM              

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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
Well the fickleness would work well with my constant need for a chase/change.. What are your other placements? Sun/Moon/Merc/Mars.. if you don't mind me asking?

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Sure! No problem. House number in parenthesis

Asc Libra
Sun Leo (11)
Moon Gemini (9)
Mercury Virgo (12)
Venus Virgo (12)
Mars Virgo (12)

posted May 21, 2014 01:13 AM            

Yeah he sees "ugly" fights as detrimental to the relationship. While I agree to a certain extent, I sorta see those strong outbursts of emotions as a sign of passion - sounds a bit messed up but you know what I mean.

Yah we do talk things through n I forget quickly so we don't fight often.

posted May 21, 2014 01:13 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Sure! No problem. House number in parenthesis

Asc Libra
Sun Leo (11)
Moon Gemini (9)
Mercury Virgo (12)
Venus Virgo (12)
Mars Virgo (12)

What's yours? If you want to share.

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Your Mars in Virgo.. How do you think that affects you (in relationships?) Thank you for sharing, by the way! Very kind of you to do so.

posted May 21, 2014 01:17 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Dang you have aries merc too ? Does his sun oppose your aries placements? Woa I guess some nice sparks r gonna fly

Yeah he sees "ugly" fights as detrimental to the relationship. While I agree to a certain extent, I sorta see those strong outbursts of emotions as a sign of passion - sounds a bit messed up but you know what I mean.

Yah we do talk things through n I forget quickly so we don't fight often.

Oh and he definitely didn't chase me. He was direct but was like "If you want it, come n get it". In our relationship, he's often the one who teases n "seduces".

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I don't know his TOB, so our synastry isn't exact and I loosely go off it, but his sun does oppose my venus. That's all though, it's mostly my sun that makes a lot of aspects to his venus, jupiter, pluto, and neptune.

I too agree with strong outbursts of emotions as a sign of passion. I've got the notorious Venus in Aries working when I pick fights because I'm bored and want more passion/intensity. It's terrible lol.

I would hate being baited in and not chased, although part of me would love to do the chasing. It'd be back and forth.

posted May 21, 2014 01:22 AM              

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Originally posted by IV XXIV:
Your Mars in Virgo.. How do you think that affects you (in relationships?) Thank you for sharing, by the way! Very kind of you to do so.

Same structure as yours:
Asc Taurus
Sun Taurus (12th)
Moon Gemini (1st)
Mercury Aries (12th)
Venus Aries (12th)
Mars Cancer (very end of 3rd - most say 4th, so I usually say 4th)

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Oh cool! I really like Cancer Mars. It's supposed to be a bad placement, but I think it's great. I love the nurturing, caring nature and the protectiveness. My fiance has it.

My Mars seems to be a mystery to me. Mine conjuncts asc from the 12th.
Sexually, since Mars covers that. It's ALL about my partner almost all of the time. Very selfless and Virgo is mutable so I'll do my best to do what they like.
The only other things that I know is things such as... if I ask why someone did this or that, or why they want me to and the response that I get is along the lines of "Because I said so." Not good. I get VERY annoyed about that. I asked for a reason, not to get some generic, smartbutt answer. That kind of thing will irritate a mars virgo.

It's kind of a mystery to me though. I've read about mars virgo in 12 but... I don't understand it completely.

posted May 21, 2014 01:31 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Oh cool! I really like Cancer Mars. It's supposed to be a bad placement, but I think it's great. I love the nurturing, caring nature and the protectiveness. My fiance has it.

My Mars seems to be a mystery to me. Mine conjuncts asc from the 12th.
Sexually, since Mars covers that. It's ALL about my partner almost all of the time. Very selfless and Virgo is mutable so I'll do my best to do what they like.
The only other things that I know is things such as... if I ask why someone did this or that, or why they want me to and the response that I get is along the lines of "Because I said so." Not good. I get VERY annoyed about that. I asked for a reason, not to get some generic, smartbutt answer. That kind of thing will irritate a mars virgo.

It's kind of a mystery to me though. I've read about mars virgo in 12 but... I don't understand it completely.

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posted May 21, 2014 01:42 AM            

I’m soo guilty of picking fights with him coz I want to get some strong reactions lol.

posted May 21, 2014 05:59 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
extremely high standards

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impossible to satisfy in a relationship

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posted May 21, 2014 07:03 AM            

But I express my Venus by wanting to get to know people genuinely. Even if it's just casual chat, I'll be asking specific questions, just use the Mercurial side of Virgo here. And for presents... completely tailored to that person's interests and things they like. Even if I have to stumble around the city all day to find it. As a child, I would make things, too. And I do tend to put in extra attention for the underdog or people whom I don't think have been appreciated enough by others. Some of it has to do with my own self worth, I admit. And yes helping others... dropping what I'm doing to be there for them. It's quite easy to take advantage of me, so I've been trying to arm myself against that.

But I mostly feel my house placement, the T-square and my duad (Cancer - I love cooking for others and need hugs/cuddling. Not just want them, need).

Edit: For the beauty side of Venus: Yes, I'm a health freak and very conscious of my body. Want to keep it as strong as I can.

Also cover up my upper body. Like, a tanktop is fine, but I stay away from baring midriff or showing lots of cleavage. Instead I put the focus on my legs. It feels less... in-your-face, if that makes any sense?
And I love wearing one specific thing and draw all the attention to that. Necklace (I love them), something in my make-up, special shoes, etc. Probably the Virgo modesty and attention to detail?

posted May 21, 2014 08:48 AM            

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Originally posted by meissieri:
I'm a woman with Venus in Virgo (and Mars, too) but my problem has been not being picky enough if anything. Maybe being in the 12th house and the apex of a T-square has to do with it? Empty leg is Pisces, which is all about accepting people unconditionally.

But I express my Venus by wanting to get to know people genuinely. Even if it's just casual chat, I'll be asking specific questions, just use the Mercurial side of Virgo here. And for presents... completely tailored to that person's interests and things they like. Even if I have to stumble around the city all day to find it. As a child, I would make things, too. And I do tend to put in extra attention for the underdog or people whom I don't think have been appreciated enough by others. Some of it has to do with my own self worth, I admit. And yes helping others... dropping what I'm doing to be there for them. It's quite easy to take advantage of me, so I've been trying to arm myself against that.

But I mostly feel my house placement, the T-square and my duad (Cancer - I love cooking for others and need hugs/cuddling. Not just want them, need).

Edit: For the beauty side of Venus: Yes, I'm a health freak and very conscious of my body. Want to keep it as strong as I can.

Also cover up my upper body. Like, a tanktop is fine, but I stay away from baring midriff or showing lots of cleavage. Instead I put the focus on my legs. It feels less... in-your-face, if that makes any sense?
And I love wearing one specific thing and draw all the attention to that. Necklace (I love them), something in my make-up, special shoes, etc. Probably the Virgo modesty and attention to detail?

Anyone else has noticed this about Virgo?

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posted May 21, 2014 09:51 PM              

As Venus in Virgo... Leo
There's been some negative things said, as well as in the leo virgo Venus thread.
If you will observe, I didn't get all butthurt like so many people do about their signs/placements.
That's how you do that...
Take notes.