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Topic: What in your chart makes you attract the "wrong guy/girl?"
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1542
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 31, 2014 11:31 AM
  
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Originally posted by enchantress299:
For me, I would say it is my Jupiter/Uranus squaring Sun/Venus and grand trining my Mars and Moon. I think the heavy Uranus aspects I have make me attract heavily Uranian types, and though I have the aspects myself and I sometimes take on an aloof persona, I am incredibly stable in my lifestyle and personality. Unfortunately the men I attract to me all seem to have a major Uranian element (or sometimes Jupiterian element) and they tend to not be as stable because they tend towards the Uranian unpredictability (or Jupiterian lack of impulse control) instead of the Uranian detachment. I've learned how to spot these types now, and though I recognize and appreciate their charisma, I've learned how to stay away from them. Unfortunately though, the more stable types that I would like to attract typically don't have an interest in me. So... That's just the way it goes I guess.
yeah, this is so well described it's the exactly same thing for me… I also got moon and mars square uranus and I seem to attract those uranian types no matter what I do… And I AM also uranian myself with those aspect, but my venus is very stable and well aspected (scorp venus sextile saturn, uranus and neptune, trine jupiter and conjunction pluto) and I like to feel safe with my partner, which is impossible with all that uranian energy…. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 1831
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 31, 2014 12:19 PM
I THINK the right type for me is a Virgo-something but since I don't like Virgos much and it's my ascendant and mars, I assume I don't like Virgos because I have those traits myself and therefore I zone in on Pisces which is the exact opposite of what I need. I also have a rxNeptune in 4H and it's SOOOO easy for me to just swim away with those Pisces boys but it always ends the same: they get on my ******* nerves so I leave. Somewhere down the line, when I have matured and stopped flip flopping around like a newly caught mackarel waiting to have its neck broken, I will settle down with a Virgo of some kind. And yes, I attract Pisces like no other. IP: Logged |
enchantress299
Knowflake Posts: 729
From:
Registered: May 2009
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posted May 31, 2014 06:51 PM
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And I AM also uranian myself with those aspect, but my venus is very stable and well aspected (scorp venus sextile saturn, uranus and neptune, trine jupiter and conjunction pluto) and I like to feel safe with my partner, which is impossible with all that uranian energy….
Yes, my Venus also is heavily aspected by my Saturn/Pluto conjunction. In fact, Venus sextile Saturn is the 2nd tightest aspect in my chart. Also, my Venus conjuncts my MC (though in the 9th). Soooo... I suspect that is one of the reasons I have a more 'balanced' lifestyle than some of the others with Venus/Uranus or Sun/Uranus aspects. I also like to feel safe and stable with a partner, and I will actually refuse to be in any relationship if I don't have that trust. Which, is in some ways how the Uranian aloofness manifests for me.... I am independent until I have a damn good reason not to be. IP: Logged |
AriesKat
Knowflake Posts: 787
From: Brooklyn, NY USA
Registered: May 2011
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posted June 01, 2014 07:13 PM
Pisces moon in 12th Venus opp pluto IP: Logged |
whaaat
Knowflake Posts: 218
From: Portland, MA,U.S
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted June 02, 2014 02:07 AM
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yes, I know, I also have venus opposite pluto  ...does sun opp pluto represents any other thing than the father? mine is dead, oh and takes for answering
I'm really sorry to hear that... 
The Sun can influence your relationship with men in general: in my case making me want to overpower them.
The Sun is also YOUR OWN personality, so you could either be deeply Plutonian/Scorpionic yourself or attract these type of people instead ( both apply to me, hence all dem psycopaths seeking me out). IP: Logged |
Yanmorg
Knowflake Posts: 425
From:
Registered: Feb 2013
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posted June 02, 2014 03:23 AM
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I think the heavy Uranus aspects I have make me attract heavily Uranian types, and though I have the aspects myself and I sometimes take on an aloof persona, I am incredibly stable in my lifestyle and personality. Unfortunately the men I attract to me all seem to have a major Uranian element (or sometimes Jupiterian element) and they tend to not be as stable because they tend towards the Uranian unpredictability (or Jupiterian lack of impulse control) instead of the Uranian detachment. I've learned how to spot these types now, and though I recognize and appreciate their charisma, I've learned how to stay away from them. Unfortunately though, the more stable types that I would like to attract typically don't have an interest in me. So... That's just the way it goes I guess. [/B]
THIS! I can definitely identify with this post 100%. I have moon square uranus and moon square neptune with a pleasant dose of moon trine saturn in my natal chart. When I was younger, I attracted the easygoing, players. Now that I'm older, I attract stable types who are ironically commitment phobes. How is that even possible? For example, I dated a guy with a Taurus Sun and moon who also has Venus AND mars in Cancer. Along with this, he has moon trine uranus, moon opposite pluto, venus opposite uranus, and mars opposite uranus AND neptune. Another guy I dated was a Scorpio Sun/Venus but he had Venus in Scorpio retrograde in the 8th trine Saturn in Pisces retrograde in the 12th house. Both were commitment phobes, but the only difference is, The Taurus was way more exciting.
I am struggling with this sane issue at this point in my life. Why do I keep attracting the wrong guys?
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starlitroad
Knowflake Posts: 512
From: romania,Ns
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted June 02, 2014 03:26 AM
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Originally posted by whaaat:
I'm really sorry to hear that... :(
The Sun can influence your relationship with men in general: in my case making me want to overpower them.
The Sun is also YOUR OWN personality, so you could either be deeply Plutonian/Scorpionic yourself or attract these type of people instead ( both apply to me, hence all dem psycopaths seeking me out).
Ohh! Thank you!! I might be a bit plutonic, actualy..pluto is my 4th dominant planet after saturn, moon and venus. Pluto opposes my sun venus and mercury. I attract manipulative ppl and those who like mind games...of course if they push to hard I might reciprocate, but usually I have some aspects that does not allow me to harm ppl...but ofc I am also taken for granted......or as a fool. Oh joy ------------------
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