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Topic: Coming off as serious when you're not
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 29, 2014 09:28 AM
  
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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
It's the mercury venus conjunction! That is a really cute placement...but lets look at the sign! Virgo is practical, down to earth, a snippy at times and takes a while to come to decisions--there is some restraint there (or the appearance of it)mercury is how you talk, venus is how you express yourself socially.....in the 3rd house of communication no less.. Plus, online, has a lot to do with writing and tone....so I think it's the virgo influence...and that conjuction is also aspecting pluto which is not exactly known for being "fun and frivolous" LOL.
That's like my favorite aspect in my chart.. now I'm starting to rethink that. LOL just kidding. I like that aspect a lot and I don't know what I'd do without it. The square to Pluto, though. I hate it so much.
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 29, 2014 09:30 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
hahaha!!! Sagittarius is the weakest influence in my chart says astro.com  But I have a strong jupiter and ascendant conjunction jupiter, maybe that's it??? I think I come of as serious in here, because this forum is mainly a source of information… In the beginning I didn't come here to chat with people but to know more about astrology…. now it's more like a mix, I like chatting a bit, but mostly just seeking information to get clever...
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lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 583
From: Virginia
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 29, 2014 10:06 AM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
That's like my favorite aspect in my chart.. now I'm starting to rethink that. LOL just kidding. I like that aspect a lot and I don't know what I'd do without it.The square to Pluto, though. I hate it so much.
I think that square is powerful though!!! Overall, I think the aspect shows you speaking your mind/heart with an emphasis on tact, and that pluto meaning that your words are never just words, they have a lot of power....! I'm going to start looking at aspects this way in terms of the energy they carry as opposed to the aspects, b/c sometimes I see a square and I'm like O_O! But that just means the energy needs to be worked or tweaked a bit to be fully expressed more of a positive way...
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Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 4807
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 10:07 AM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
That's like my favorite aspect in my chart.. now I'm starting to rethink that. LOL just kidding. I like that aspect a lot and I don't know what I'd do without it.The square to Pluto, though. I hate it so much.
merc-venus conjunction? I have it exact. How do you experience it? IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1539
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 10:39 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
I see you somewhere between serious and not serious.
Haha well described!!
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coteau
Knowflake Posts: 45
From: neptune
Registered: Dec 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 12:08 PM
I personally associate the 11th house with the internet, so since saturn is almost on the 10th house on the 11th house cusp, you being seen as serious on the internet seems plausible to me, im not sure though, since it's opposite mars...
Also your 10th house ruler is in capricorn, in the 8th(not letting things get out of control?), beyond the fact that neptune can mean social hermit.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 29, 2014 03:55 PM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
merc-venus conjunction?I have it exact. How do you experience it?
Mine are 4 degrees apart. But since Mercury is also my chart ruler, I feel the conjunction more than I feel all my other aspects. I always make sure that what I'm saying is pleasant (unless I'm mad, then I swear a lot) and tactful. With writing, I always choose words that sound "right" for me. Idk. It's probably because of the Virgo influence, too. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3504
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 08:05 PM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Not serious really. More like intellectual and you know a lot of things about different stuff.
Oh, great, haha. And thank you for that complement, Solar_Leo_Queen  IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3504
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 08:09 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
To me you seem more cerebral than serious.
Good, and two different people said similar things, lol. Thanks for the response, Cappy IP: Logged |
socialgraffiti
Knowflake Posts: 180
From: uranus
Registered: Jul 2013
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posted May 30, 2014 12:32 AM
Ooh, I have the same problem! I think it's Saturn aspecting the Ascendant, and it's on the cusp of the 11th and 10th house, the 10th being where it is domicile and therefore stronger. Another factor could be that it's in a pretty close opposition to Mars, the ruler of your 11th house (friends) and 6th house (daily routine, lifestyle). I've got Saturn square Ascendant by 2 deg., and I've honestly been told I have a "serious resting face". They're always surprised once they get to know me though :P I'm pretty goofy, haha IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 30, 2014 04:30 PM
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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
Ooh, I have the same problem! I think it's Saturn aspecting the Ascendant, and it's on the cusp of the 11th and 10th house, the 10th being where it is domicile and therefore stronger. Another factor could be that it's in a pretty close opposition to Mars, the ruler of your 11th house (friends) and 6th house (daily routine, lifestyle). I've got Saturn square Ascendant by 2 deg., and I've honestly been told I have a "serious resting face". They're always surprised once they get to know me though :P I'm pretty goofy, haha
No actually, people always think I'm approachable and friendly the first time they meet me. Unless I'm in a bad mood (when my 1st house Moon works its magic), then my Gemini rising really stands out. People only think I'm serious on the internet. Not in real life.. at all. IP: Logged |
themischievousone
Knowflake Posts: 481
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 31, 2014 02:41 PM
I think a combo of the moon and mercury comes off when communicating online. Especially when it's through instant message communication. Or at least those are the signs/planets that I can usually pick up from someone after an online chat where I haven't met them face to face. When I look at OP's chart, imo the Cancer and Virgo might be the reason for coming off as serious online. IP: Logged |
themischievousone
Knowflake Posts: 481
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Registered: Feb 2013
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posted May 31, 2014 02:44 PM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Does anyone know if I come off as serious or not?
You come off very, very airy virgo to me. Or I'm picking up on some sort of familiar energy and I can't pinpoint it yet.  More of good communicator of ideas and knowledge than serious. IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3504
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 31, 2014 07:50 PM
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Originally posted by themischievousone:
You come off very, very airy virgo to me. Or I'm picking up on some sort of familiar energy and I can't pinpoint it yet. More of good communicator of ideas and knowledge than serious.
Thank you for the complements and response, themischievousone And yeah, I am air dominant and a Virgo, so that's probably why. IP: Logged |
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