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Topic: Coming off as serious when you're not
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 29, 2014 01:22 AM
  
So, I've noticed lately that people on the internet think that I'm a serious person and that I don't know how to loosen up. In real life, I'm technically not. My friends all know that I'm the funniest and craziest person alive. They all love me for it. I'm like the life of party and every group conversation. But when I go online, I barely have friends on the internet because everybody thinks I'm a serious person. I'm like so anti-social online. What in my chart shows this?  IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 01:28 AM
^Lol I should put up my chart too. I come off as anti-social on the internet too when I am not like that at all in real life.BTW I have a Leo stellium including the sun in leo. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
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posted May 29, 2014 01:43 AM
^ OMG finally someone understands me LOLIP: Logged |
Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 02:14 AM
Yeah I know. Am Cap rising with moon in cancer. Hmmm I don't really care though..I know who I am, I also have the right people in my life that I care about a lot and that knows me for who I am and that's all that matters to me  I have yet to meet a leo who doesn't like to have fun and who are not friendly enough to have a pleasant conversation with. uhhh except may be if the leo is a guy and is trying to hit on me..*rolled eyes* IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted May 29, 2014 02:33 AM
You want my new to this whole thing guess?  Merc in Virgo. When you communicate online that is pretty much what you are showing. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted May 29, 2014 02:34 AM
Why am I always accidentally quoting myself?! Sorry!IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
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posted May 29, 2014 02:36 AM
^ That makes pretty much sense, I guess. With the way I type and stuff, people always even think I'm much older than my age.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted May 29, 2014 02:39 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Yeah I know. Am Cap rising with moon in cancer. Hmmm I don't really care though..I know who I am, I also have the right people in my life that I care about a lot and that knows me for who I am and that's all that matters to me I have yet to meet a leo who doesn't like to have fun and who are not friendly enough to have a pleasant conversation with. uhhh except may be if the leo is a guy and is trying to hit on me..*rolled eyes*
Ahah me too  like, I'm okay with being anti-social on the internet, but what really bothers me is when people think I'm serious. I hate getting labeled as serious. Like hello? Gem rising here. I'm the least serious in the zodiac LOL And I don't meet too much Leos in real life. Idek why. I only met like three or four. All of them love to have fun. The guys don't usually hit.. unless it was my grandpa. He's a Leo and he likes to hit on younger girls -_-
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Jessica2407
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From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 02:54 AM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
You want my new to this whole thing guess? Merc in Virgo. When you communicate online that is pretty much what you are showing.
Makes sense here. But what if Pisces rules my 3rd house, and the latter is empty. Neptune is in my 12th Sag,Jupiter is in 5th.At some point online interactions will start boring me and I think I come off as anti social too.. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 4807
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 02:59 AM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Ahah me too like, I'm okay with being anti-social on the internet, but what really bothers me is when people think I'm serious. I hate getting labeled as serious. Like hello? Gem rising here. I'm the least serious in the zodiac LOL And I don't meet too much Leos in real life. Idek why. I only met like three or four. All of them love to have fun. The guys don't usually hit.. unless it was my grandpa. He's a Leo and he likes to hit on younger girls -_-
Oh I see! LOL I don't mind being labelled as serious. DUH I 've been labelled as too serious since I was in kindergarten! I can be though. Very serious I mean. But I also have a let's say special kind of humour that I show to people I like to interact with.People normally will not engage a conversation with me because I am perceived as unapproachable by most. Cap rising and all IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1539
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 03:08 AM
Hey wait a second this is MY problem lol, I come of as serious I think, no matter how many "lol's" I use in my texts…I think it's because I'm also a virgo sun with libra mercury square saturn? And capricorn is the strongest in my chart, so maybe that why, I don't know… But you?? Nooope, you don't seem especially serious in my eyes IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 03:19 AM
You have your Ascendant's dispositor; Mercury (planet of communication), in Virgo, and your MC's (supposedly your online persona, or so they say) dispositor; Neptune, is in Capricorn.
So maybe that's why people say you come off as serious?IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
Knowflake Posts: 3504
From: Vulcan & Mercury. Yes, I was born on both planets, somehow.
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posted May 29, 2014 03:32 AM
Does anyone know if I come off as serious or not?IP: Logged |
Jessica2407
Moderator Posts: 4807
From: Saturn
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 03:40 AM
quote:
Originally posted by next to neptune:
Hey wait a second this is MY problem lol, I come of as serious I think, no matter how many "lol's" I use in my texts…I think it's because I'm also a virgo sun with libra mercury square saturn? And capricorn is the strongest in my chart, so maybe that why, I don't know… But you?? Nooope, you don't seem especially serious in my eyes
Am a bit confused. Are you referring to my post or Solar Queen OP is a Leo sun, virgo merc, Gem rising.
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next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1539
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 04:09 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Am a bit confused. Are you referring to my post or Solar QueenOP is a Leo sun, virgo merc, Gem rising.
I'm referring to Solar Queen, I doesn't think she comes off as serious IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 29, 2014 06:54 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Does anyone know if I come off as serious or not?
Not serious really. More like intellectual and you know a lot of things about different stuff. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 29, 2014 06:55 AM
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Oh I see!LOL I don't mind being labelled as serious. DUH I 've been labelled as too serious since I was in kindergarten! I can be though. Very serious I mean. But I also have a let's say special kind of humour that I show to people I like to interact with.People normally will not engage a conversation with me because I am perceived as unapproachable by most. Cap rising and all
Yeah it's totally the Cap influence. Surprisingly, you don't come off as serious to me
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Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 1323
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted May 29, 2014 06:58 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
But you?? Nooope, you don't seem especially serious in my eyes
Thank you!! omg lol finally someone says that.. I actually feel that you have some Sag influence or something. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1539
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 07:33 AM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Thank you!! omg lol finally someone says that.. I actually feel that you have some Sag influence or something.
hahaha!!! Sagittarius is the weakest influence in my chart says astro.com But I have a strong jupiter and ascendant conjunction jupiter, maybe that's it??? I think I come of as serious in here, because this forum is mainly a source of information… In the beginning I didn't come here to chat with people but to know more about astrology…. now it's more like a mix, I like chatting a bit, but mostly just seeking information to get clever... IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted May 29, 2014 07:46 AM
I don't think you come off a "too serious" or anti-social either. But maybe not as fun and light hearted as you are in person. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 7110
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 07:56 AM
quote:
Originally posted by next to neptune:
Hey wait a second this is MY problem lol, I come of as serious I think, no matter how many "lol's" I use in my texts…
Hmm. I don't perceive you that way. quote:
Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
Does anyone know if I come off as serious or not?
To me you seem more cerebral than serious. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1539
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 29, 2014 08:27 AM
Really? How do you see me then?:O IP: Logged |
lotus_flower
Knowflake Posts: 583
From: Virginia
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 29, 2014 08:50 AM
It's the mercury venus conjunction! That is a really cute placement...but lets look at the sign! Virgo is practical, down to earth, a snippy at times and takes a while to come to decisions--there is some restraint there (or the appearance of it)mercury is how you talk, venus is how you express yourself socially.....in the 3rd house of communication no less.. Plus, online, has a lot to do with writing and tone....so I think it's the virgo influence...and that conjuction is also aspecting pluto which is not exactly known for being "fun and frivolous" LOL. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 1539
From: The Moon
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posted May 29, 2014 08:56 AM
quote:
Originally posted by lotus_flower:
It's the mercury venus conjunction! That is a really cute placement...but lets look at the sign! Virgo is practical, down to earth, a snippy at times and takes a while to come to decisions--there is some restraint there (or the appearance of it)mercury is how you talk, venus is how you express yourself socially.....in the 3rd house of communication no less.. Plus, online, has a lot to do with writing and tone....so I think it's the virgo influence...and that conjuction is also aspecting pluto which is not exactly known for being "fun and frivolous" LOL.
Hmm… my boyfriend is sometimes the same way and he has a virgo mercury conjunction his libra venus? His language is perfect and with no flaws… and he speaks like he is some romantic poet from the 1700 century…I enjoy making fun with him talking like an old man lol… but deep down I know he isn't like that, he is a libra sun trine his gemini mars, so of course he likes to play smart with words and have fun (also sun, mercury and venus in 5th house) but he does come off as someone "boring" with the way he speaks (mainly how he writes messages in words though) IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 7110
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 29, 2014 09:05 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Really? How do you see me then?:O
I see you somewhere between serious and not serious. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
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