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Topic: Venus in Aquarius Men & Communication
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lvASTRO
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posted June 02, 2014 12:18 PM
  
Gabby, I'm sorry to hear things are going this way. I know you and I met our long-distance beaus at about the dime time. It's hard.  IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted June 02, 2014 12:57 PM
It's almost like some guys back us into a wall, and we oddly have to let go. Once you know exactly what you need, to keep your interest going you realize letting go is a must! Oh how hard it is to do so, when the love isn't really lost but that you need to part ways to hold your sanity in the equation.  I too need communication; you shut down, I shut out!
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Originally posted by msrandomorangee:
hahah you know i have always attracted aquarius moon and Venus. i have a leo rising may be that's why? anyway the guy i have been in love with doesn't like talking a lot. we broke up a few ties because i love talking and he does not. finally i understand this is just the way he is and i love him a lot to let go ;p
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charlie
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From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 02, 2014 01:26 PM
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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
The most impacting relationships I've had [good and bad], held an Aqua Moon or an Aqua Venus and even a combination of the two.
But when I focus on the two guys that hold that Aqua Venus, the very common denominator is the lack of word play. These guys speak/write with minimal dialogue and it drives me crazy. This is all that I am -Sun/Merc/Venus in 3H. While I can be understanding as an Aqua Sun with the subtle detachment factor at times, I still get a bit trippy on the lack of expression verbally from these guys. 
Hmmm... I have known plenty Aqua Moons and they DO NOT STOP blabbering!! MILES of txts and emails :-/ IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted June 02, 2014 01:45 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Gabby, I'm sorry to hear things are going this way. I know you and I met our long-distance beaus at about the dime time. It's hard.
It's ok....he asked me to visit him last Sunday, he was going to have about 12 hours off work and not on call....that is rare for him!
So I drove 5 hours to meet him, left at 3am just to get there right as he was getting off.
We had an amazing time together n I do believe if we were actually around each other we would not have as much stress, we get along perfectly.
The only issue is when we are not together he shuts down...and that upsets me.
When we met he couldn't leave, he was hours late getting back to work because he didn't want to go, we were cuddling n watching tv. His work kept calling and he told them I'm busy...I have not got to spend time with my girl in a month, leave me alone!
Then as soon as he left and got on the road he called and talked to me until he got to work, for about another hour...I text him a few hours later, no response. I hear nothing for 2 days, so I said nothing to him either.
Then Wednesday I sent a text that said, I don't want to do this, I'm sorry this isn't working for me. He text back immediately..."I don't understand...why??" That just made me more angry, I told him it was because I never heard from him and didn't feel that he cared and I ended it! He said, "i'm sorry, I do care a lot and I didn't mean to hurt you" .....I said, "I'm sorry to, but I don't want to feel like this anymore and it happens way to often so I'm done" we haven't talked since!
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lvASTRO
Knowflake Posts: 115
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted June 02, 2014 04:24 PM
I am very sorry to hear that, but glad you've taken a stand for your emotions and spoken out about the way his actions take a toll on you.We have a saying for our relationship. We life only five hours apart. We travel to see each other at least four times a month (two and two). Our love is easy. Our relationship is hard. And it all boils down to proximity. My job is unforgiving and unpredictable, and sometimes makes it impossible for me to take off and see him. That's a lot of our strife--we really just want to see each other. Hang in there, Gabby. <3 IP: Logged |
AlexDern
Knowflake Posts: 369
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Registered: Dec 2013
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posted June 02, 2014 04:28 PM
Joseph Gordon Levitt has venus in aquarius. He communicates quite well, effectively, broadly, uses many interesting and intelligent words, demonstrates passion and seems like an overall nice guy..IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
Knowflake Posts: 311
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 02, 2014 05:38 PM
I'm at a loss Charlie! Because he's probing guy; he'll msg me with random questions. When he feels inclined to learn about me and my latest happenings, he has no problem initiating the q's. But when I reverse q's he's extremely short. I can respond in a way where I would expect him to have an in-depth response - but it's a no-go. Seems as if he's longing for certain responses and when I don't give it to him, the conversation drops dead.
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Originally posted by charlie:
Hmmm... I have known plenty Aqua Moons and they DO NOT STOP blabbering!! MILES of txts and emails :-/
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BellaFenice
Knowflake Posts: 376
From: Phoenix, AZ, USA
Registered: Sep 2013
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posted June 02, 2014 05:44 PM
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Originally posted by Libracorn:
My bestfriend is a Sun/Venus/Mercury in Aquarius, and his communication through texting is horrible. For one, he takes up to 25-30 mins to reply (sometimes an hour). For two, like you said, he won't really type much. Here's an example of a conversation we could possibly have through texting: Libra Mercury (me): Yoooo!
Aquarius Mercury (him): Yooo
Libra Mercury (me): Was good
Aquarius Mercury (him): Chilling you?
Libra Mercury (me): Out with my mom, she's being a complete ******* right now!
*awaits text message for 20 mins*
Aquarius Mercury (him): Haha Damn
LOL- I am guilty as charged! I totally do that, but really it is often unintentional. Someone will text me and I will get distracted by something and make a mental note to respond but then I completely forget to respond. I remember hours later and it is like crap I forgot! As an Aqua Sun/Venus, I'm surprised there is a lack of word play going on. You honestly can't get me to stop talking and a lot of my Aqua friends are like that as well. I have Venus in 1st though, so aspect and house placement (and Mercury!) will definitely impact communication. IP: Logged |
Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted June 02, 2014 07:09 PM
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As an Aqua Sun/Venus, I'm surprised there is a lack of word play going on. You honestly can't get me to stop talking and a lot of my Aqua friends are like that as well.
I'm surprised as well! Maybe they have other aspects that account for this. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted June 02, 2014 07:11 PM
Someone mentioned Mercury placements. I agree - they are very important!But also take note of - Mercury in *synastry*! They might have a talkative Mercury... but if it is square your Saturn in synastry - they could still "watch what they say" around you... IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted June 02, 2014 07:45 PM
Eureka!!! Right in my face all along. While I am Aqua by Sun I am heavy in water/earth planets. Chart ruler is Pluto. With these guys I have the Sun/Venus double whammy - which is a great thing. However, my [Saturn in Scorpio] is within 3dg of their Venus in Aquarius. Why I briefly neglected to pay attention to Saturn, I do not know!  Imo the censoring of their love nature speaks volumes. I'm not sure how I effect them with my Scorpio intensity so to speak, but for obvious reasons it sounds like I might inadvertently throw them off kilter. Idk! quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
Someone mentioned Mercury placements. I agree - they are very important!But also take note of - Mercury in *synastry*! They might have a talkative Mercury... but if it is square your Saturn in synastry - they could still "watch what they say" around you...
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