posted June 11, 2014 05:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Your North Node is in Aquarius, ruled by Uranus in the sixth in Capricorn...

Imo the only way Aquarius-types maintain several friendships over a long period is by being able to 'put up with' and 'be dismissive off' any number of classic human foibles, flaws, defects and daily annoyances.
They also don't get very emotionally involved with others (i.e. with the personal problems of others). They are sympathetic/nice - but also detached.

The more perfectionist you are - and the more you expect people to meet your version of the way they *should* be... the less likely you are to maintain friendships.
As time goes on, absolutely everyone shows their true colours and their clay feet.
The only way to maintain friendships - is to keep a reasonable distance from the person - not get *extremely* close.. and not feel extremely bothered by their brand of 'issues'.

Something else Aquarius does well is - they can be optimistic (like Sagittarius) and focus on the bright side, the positive things about people...

I'm saying this to you - because having an Aquarius NN, these are personality traits that would be challenging for you - and that you need to learn more about in this life.
I'm in a similar boat, having NN in the 11th house.

With Leo SN and Aquarius NN, there would also be a shift from being the centre of attention (Leo) - to being able to work well in a group, towards a common goal (Aquarius).

Because the ruler of your NN - is in the 6th house of work (and in an earth sign).. I would say these issues would come up even more so with co-workers. You were saying on your other thread that you have problems dealing with them...
Often people are placed in challenging situations in life - when they have to learn to adapt by applying their North Node traits. I feel like this is what is happening with you.

My advice would be to adapt by learning to be much more emotionally detached from your co-workers... and nice in a less "involved" way...
You have a lot of water in your chart - and it's great that you can be extremely empathetic and kind with your friends and family. But in some settings, like work.. (and also when it comes to just networking or maintaining acquaintances) - it's really better to be more detached.

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Again…thank you so much for your reply, it's so brilliant and helpful for me!!

posted June 11, 2014 05:17 AM            

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Originally posted by amelia28:
Well you are shy, quiet, introverted but you need to be loved deeply. You have an empty 7th and 11th and as someone pointed out the ruler of your 11th has a lot of challenges....so friends don't easily flow towards you but...

Your 5th house and Venus kick ass and I feel this is the key to your solution . The 5th and Venus are your saving grace....you should have good luck attracting lovers and you can choose to become friends with your lovers...do the friends and lovers thing and then turn your lovers into friends or into relationships....

You can also find friendships among artists...are you artistic? Go to meetup.com and join an art group, I think you will more likely make friends when in this is artsy mode as it brings the best in you...you have grand cross square so you could go far as an artist if you put the work in and throw yourself in your art ....

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Haha this is so wonderful My current boyfriend feel like a very nice friend! I have been unable to make friends with my earlier boyfriends, but it's true, I got many admires, and it's a bit too easy to attract males attention:/

posted June 11, 2014 05:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Swift Freeze:

Edit - Oops your Mars is in Virgo, so you're definitely screwed =/

Just kidding, everything still applies.

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LOL haha, evil joke you made there!^^

posted June 12, 2014 01:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Astrohippiegirl:
I read on a vedic astrology website that if the houses next to the house where your natal moon sits then that means you will be a lonely person...not to be a debbie downer just something i came across today when searching for signs of poverty in an astrology chart.

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I think you worded this wrong. What about the houses next to the moon?

"not to be a debbie downer..."