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Topic: How to be in a relationship with a 12th house moon?
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deptic
Knowflake Posts: 475
From: Earth, Raised on Pluto
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted July 07, 2014 12:37 AM
  
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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I have 12th house moon and a lot of what you said I agreed with, some I didn't quite so much. I've had mommy issues since I was a little girl, we always bickered at each other, had screaming battles, the whole nine yards. I don't even talk to my father, haven't in years now.I've always felt like some what of a black sheep in my family, both mom and dad's sides. Always kept everything to myself, and never opened up to any of them. I act a lot different from them so I never felt like I fit in. The only person who's understood me(besides my Scorpio best friend) completely is DeepFreeze. He's also 12th house heavy as I am and we get each other at soul type levels. All we have to do is look at each other, and we know if there's anything wrong. There are no limits with him, I've been able to completely be myself. I think the key to solving the problem is to make him feel completely comfortable. Tell him your deepest darkest secrets, that no one else knows. By doing so then he knows he can trust you and that you trust him by telling him those things. He will open up. It's all about trust and having security with us 12th housers, moons specifically. We are very dreamy and become even more so when in love. We give our whole selves and expect the same in return. If you aren't ready for FULL commitment then stop wasting your time. Be honest because you can't bull**** a bull****er.
+1 ... This!
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goatcat
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posted July 07, 2014 12:38 AM
Wait wait wait
I guess I have to give y'all the whole story. Me and this guy have been together 2+ years. I am nothing but trusting and I give my all day in and day out. I'm have a Scorpio moon trine Pisces Venus trine Cancer Mars so I am super receptive and understanding! I show nothing but love to this boy. His closed offness is draining because we just go in circles. He makes simple issues tough because he does not want to seem weak. Did I mention he's a Solar Aries???? IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted July 07, 2014 12:40 AM
But you're a Cap, right? Are you guys fighting? What's going on?EDIT I'm not at all trying to be rude or mean, but you have ALOT going on in your chart. That would be too much for me so I can't even imagine what that's like for you. Are you coming on too strong then? Not giving the guy enough room to breath? My little brother has the same placements and he's too much, even for himself LOL. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 07, 2014 01:13 AM
12H Moon is NOT for me! If I see another guy with that placement I'm running. Damn that  IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 07, 2014 01:14 AM
Oh my.. my guy is an Aries sun, too. The sad part is, his Moon would be square my Sun, so that totally makes it way harder for me to open up to him without fears.I believe you would have this same aspect, considering you're a Cap sun and he has Libra moon. If not, then based on the signs, you'd still feel the same effect subtly. In this case, he's probably scared that you might think he's too overly emotional and all. Also, Aries (his sun) and Scorpio (your moon) are inconjunct signs. His ego and your feelings will never meet at a crossroad. He probably feels you are way too intense with everything. IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 07, 2014 01:15 AM
Yep! I'm a Capricorn.
I'm not quite sure if I'm coming on too strong. All I know is that I shrink up when rejected! I hate being yelled at and stuff so I back up when voices are raisedIP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 07, 2014 01:26 AM
His ego will never meet with my feelings? That's disappointing to hear. It's true though, he never puts his pride aside for my feelings.IP: Logged |
Barbiegirl19
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posted July 07, 2014 01:30 AM
He probably doesn't know how with you though. Is his moon heavily afflicted?IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 07, 2014 01:38 AM
I'm not quite sure what makes a moon afflicted.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 3240
From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted July 07, 2014 02:26 AM
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Originally posted by goatcat:
His ego will never meet with my feelings? That's disappointing to hear. It's true though, he never puts his pride aside for my feelings.
Yes and your egos clash, too. Aries and Capricorn are square. IP: Logged |
Long - standing
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: Russia
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 07, 2014 02:28 AM
"Simply be honest,don't afraid to show your weak points, 12 th house moons are sympathåtic and always ready to help )" Yes,it a way to HIM, he will feel you,your emotions )IP: Logged |
goatcat
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posted July 07, 2014 02:31 AM
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Originally posted by Long - standing:
"Simply be honest,don't afraid to show your weak points, 12 th house moons are sympathåtic and always ready to help )" Yes,it a way to HIM, he will feel you,your emotions )
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Long - standing
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: Russia
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 07, 2014 02:36 AM
Strange but many 12 house moons have issues with moms, who knows may be you can substitute for her in smthIP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
Knowflake Posts: 3240
From: Planet Earth
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posted July 07, 2014 02:49 AM
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Originally posted by Long - standing:
"Simply be honest,don't afraid to show your weak points, 12 th house moons are sympathåtic and always ready to help )" Yes,it a way to HIM, he will feel you,your emotions )
But like how do you show your weak points to an Aries sun with a 12th house moon? Wouldn't that make them think you're pathetic or something? Because you're too emotional? Idk. That's just how I feel. IP: Logged |
Long - standing
Knowflake Posts: 94
From: Russia
Registered: Aug 2011
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posted July 07, 2014 02:58 AM
I am an Aries sun with 12 house moon ))Be honest (for aries its important , he is sensitive), tenderness and you may talk a little about your problems, then you will understand..and keep in mind he is possibly shy
Goatcat,my husband is a Scorpio sun and 12 house moon, but always say that its difficult with me,because of my changable emotions.IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted July 07, 2014 03:31 AM
Are you sure that it is just the moon house position that is causing all this?You have a Moon in Scorpio to their Moon in Libra. Scorpio craves emotional,close bonding whereas the Libra Moon wants to keep things more on the surface. What aspects does their Moon sign make with other planets? IP: Logged |
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