posted July 12, 2014 02:32 AM            

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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
It's true, Moon-Mars aspect can be really sexy passionate and usually Moon wants to have kids with Mars. I laughed a lot with the example... washing the dishes... wants it NOW hahaha! As for Mars-Pluto aspects, they can get really out of hand, lust is so intense that after the ripping clothes period, comes the jealousy to death period, esp. In tight opposition and square.

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I have had Mars-Pluto conjunct with someone. I still avoid them because when we were in a relationship, they always wanted to "sex me up".

His Pluto was also square my Moon and so,at most times,I felt like a sex slave

Its funny though.I shared a Moon(mine) square Pluto(theirs) with another ex and we also had the Mars(mine)conjunct Pluto(theirs)going on. But we were just all over the place passionate.

But,then again,they had their Sun conjunct my Mars also. And despite it also squaring my Moon/Mercury,it didn't seem to matter.

Synastry is so dynamic that with each individual,it feels the same but different!!

posted July 12, 2014 02:38 AM            

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Originally posted by starrynight:
And if Mars belongs to the woman (in a hetero relationship) and Moon is the guy's? Still works?

By the way, what about Mars-Neptune conjunction? Some old books I've read say it's like the worst thing ever for a potential union, leading to beating each other up and so on.

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It works either way. But if the guy is uncomfortable being the one that is "seduced", it'll be problematic.

If he has sexual issues, he'll try to discourage you or be the wet blanket-just when you are turned on. He may even be rigid and inflexible i.e "Honey, not now. I am watching the game!"

Some men are just not comfortable having the move made on them at all.

But for the guy who doesn't care who "lights the fire",he'll definitely go along with it. But given that some guys like to be "on top", he may consciously "topple" you as the initiator and assume the lead role during intercourse.LOL

posted July 12, 2014 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
This made me giggle.. My fiance has his scorp mars opp my taurus moon and we've had the dishes scenario I think his virgo moon played a part in that, too.
but this aspect can be hard for the moon person.. I've felt occasionally that literally just what I was feeling atm was making him irritable.. Which I suppose can be normal to an extent, but it definitely doesn't feel good to be the moon person and be made to think your emotions are a source of irritation for your beloved instead of a trigger for their attention and care..

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Yes, unfortunately that is the downside with this aspect. As the Moon person, you are always the more "feeling" one and you can't help but get in their way sometimes.

It can happen that perhaps something has upset you and you are still in that mood and they come and expect you to just "get over it".

There is something somewhat selfish and "me ,me,me" about Mars too. I guess that is why it rules Aries(and Scorpio). Because there is a tendency to be irritated with anyone who gets in their way or annoys them with "obstacles"(in this case, emotional ones).

In the current relationship,I am the Mars person. My SO has their Venus conjunct it and Sun too.

I've noticed that,as the Mars here,I used to sulk and throw tantrums when I didn't get my way.But their Sun would always reason about "fairness" and "meeting them halfway".

It was difficult to find fault with that since I have Venus in the 7th house natally. So I am persuaded to go along with the needs of my SO.