posted July 18, 2014 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
@Venusincap89: If you're from the same city in Ontario that I am, I wouldn't be surprised...he's been around!!!! lol

Edit: Here I'll make it easy for you...if the reference "juice" makes any sense to you (has to do with his name somehow) then it is

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posted July 18, 2014 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
@Venusincap89: Not that I know of lol he's also over 30

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posted July 18, 2014 12:07 PM            

We each are looking for something specific and will "fine tune" our attraction as to reflect our internal ideas of what we believe LOVE is.I get it.

posted July 18, 2014 12:43 PM            

He is very charming and is a bit of a smooth talker so women are very intrigued by him, but I think he lacks real self-confidence. He refers to himself as a "late bloomer." I have seen this side of him because we are intimate, and it has taken some time and patience on my part to break down those walls - and they're not even completely down.

Deep down I know he is capable of great love but he lives in his head. He has said repeatedly that he wants to get married and have a family but I think he is scared of the responsibility and "finality" of it - like he is scared to make the wrong choice. Aren't we all though?

I also know he has markers of being unfaithful ALL over his chart but I have not yet had any valid concerns. His typical Cancer "side-stepping" in the beginning came across as shady to me because I am (obviously) an open book but I have come to accept this as part of his personality.

posted July 18, 2014 04:17 PM            

Sun square Jupiter-Gambler,takes chances, likes freedom and being able to self-control.Can be careless, irresponsible and overly-optimistic.

IC-Conjunct Venus makes one romantic, idealistic,creative and likes sensuality. The person likes to feel sexy and desirable(who doesn't?) But the conjunct to the IC makes this very NECESSARY.

Moon in 2nd suggests his relationships. It makes sense that he goes for "mature", "older" women etc.

Moon in 2nd prefers stable relationships and likes the comfort of predictability that long-term partnerships and marriage offers.

The fullness of the 7th house, however, suggests that marriage, long-term partnership is an area of preoccupation and doesn't always go smoothly.

It is no surprise to me that he does not have a good long-term relationship record. Because this packed 7th house may be a house of partnerships,but it doesn't guarantee that when it is packed, it will be successful.

People who have a stellium of planets in houses are struggling with issues pertaining to that stellium. The bigger the stellium, the more emotional charge there is in that house- making success very rare- because you have every planet having a voice/idea of what the focus on that house "should" be.

In this case,Saturn wants stability, Mars wants freedom, Pluto wants intimacy and Jupiter wants intellectual expansion.

All of these voices are vying for the microphone in the 7th house.

Venus-Neptune square. Attracts others by being mystical, enigmatic, creative and mysterious. He may be shy in social settings also and wears social "masks" to hide that

The 5th house ruler is the Moon and it sits in the 2nd house- he also attracts/attracted to people who are stable, down to earth and mature.

The Sun in the 5th house is playful, fun and enjoys romance and the pursuit of romantic partners.

That Saturn in 7th house,though,makes for challenges in relationships. But they have the potential to endure.

posted July 22, 2014 03:49 PM            

He has Pluto and Mars in 7th- a lot of energy is invested in relating to the "other". And he actually wants relationships to transform him in some intrinsic way(Pluto).

I have Pluto and Mars in 6th and am always solving problems and hoping that the "solving" of these problems will totally transform me in an intrinsic way.

Your two Moons in Scorpio and Taurus respectively,are opposites. This is a basis of attraction/repulsion-depending on the two parties concerned.

Your Moon forms a nice grand trine with Mercury and Jupiter in Cancer and Pisces respectively; this makes you an intuitive communicator and a person who is good at expressing how you feel.

The beautiful grand trine in water makes you a very feeling person.A very sensitive person.

I have the grand trine in air and I always want to read about alternative points of views.

He is a bit more abstract-minded than you- preferring to discuss things strictly from an intellectual point of view and staying "safely" on the surface; this is suggested by his Venus trine Mars in Gemini and Libra respectively. As well as the Saturn and Pluto wide conjunct in Libra.

But I do like the conjunction of Mercury to his True node in watery Cancer- it suggests that you are not completely mis-understood by him and that he will always make a conscientious effort to communicate and express himself with empathy(Cancer).

The clash of Mars in Libra with the water placements suggests that he is always considering both sides; intellectually objective whilst being emotionally sensitized.

posted July 23, 2014 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Mars in cap gives a powerful sex drive. All the people i know who have this placement are insatiable.

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True - with the right lover, that is.

posted July 23, 2014 10:41 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
There is sometimes a misconception that we may be 'boring'. Good Lord that couldn't be further from the truth. The thing is...we like layers in a partner, depth of character...dependability. If you cannot offer these things first & foremost, we display ZERO interest and appear unmoved. You are boring us so therefore you assume that we are boring.

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This is so true. There is very little I won't do for and with someone that manages to catch and hold my interest, otherwise I can come across as very cold. I appreciate originality and enthusiasm/urgency in a man's approach to intimacy and in turn I respond equally, if not more. There is a lot of depth that runs beneath the surface with this placement I feel. It's not an overt, false or flashy sexuality but rather a steady, powerful and quiet one. There is a reason Mars is exalted in Capricorn!

posted July 23, 2014 11:16 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
This is so true. There is very little I won't do for and with someone that manages to catch and hold my interest, otherwise I can come across as very cold. I appreciate originality and enthusiasm/urgency in a man's approach to intimacy and in turn I respond equally, if not more. There is a lot of depth that runs beneath the surface with this placement I feel. It's not an overt, false or flashy sexuality but rather a steady, powerful and quiet one. There is a reason Mars is exalted in Capricorn!

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Absolutely! I enjoy how "grounded" having Cap Mars makes me. Shoot, my Aries Sun brings enough "flash" to the table anyway. Lol.

posted July 23, 2014 11:19 PM            

What kind of men do you find yourself most attracted to? What traits are the key to unlocking your "pot of gold", so to speak? Lol.

posted July 24, 2014 10:05 AM            

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
*General question to all Mars-Cap LADIES...

What kind of men do you find yourself most attracted to? What traits are the key to unlocking your "pot of gold", so to speak? Lol.

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For me, I'd say the typical characteristics of a woman projecting her Mars in Capricorn desires are true. I am attracted to successful and seemingly "powerful" men. Not necessarily CEO's, and definitely not someone much older than me, but someone who has a well-paying job with ambition and drive to move forward and improve himself. Career-oriented I guess sums it up (though there has to be a balance between work and personal life). I'm not one for the artistic types - musicians and the like.

When it comes to intimacy, these traits sort of spill over into that. Someone is who not afraid to take charge and be assertive and the experience feels "raw" and primal.

posted July 25, 2014 11:11 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:

When it comes to intimacy, these traits sort of spill over into that. Someone is who not afraid to take charge and be assertive and the experience feels "raw" and primal.

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Yesss!