posted July 17, 2014 12:52 PM            

I have this placement and I feel as though it really gives me a sense of restraint and composure - like I really can never just let myself go (without getting into too much detail).

It is a very powerful drive though. My thoughts overwhelm me sometimes and I have a vivid imagination (could be my Gemini Sun coming into play), but those fantasies never truly translate into the actual act. More often than not if someone else initiates an "outside of the box" scenario I am more than willing to participate so no hesitations there.

I also find myself much more focused on pleasing my partner and going along with their wishes than worrying about my own needs.

posted July 17, 2014 12:59 PM            

Mars in Capricorn likes to be in control and project this. Control of her career, control of her tasks,control of her sexuality and ,mostly,control of herself.

She knows how to practice self-restraint but the really challenging part is "letting go"; spontaneity is not a strong trait.Everything seems very deliberate.

posted July 17, 2014 01:03 PM            

The man I am currently dating is Cancer Sun/Taurus Moon/Gemini Venus but Libra Mars...typically not a good match up with my Mars but my desire to please him and play out any scenario combined with my "raw" energy makes it muy caliente! I just wish I could learn to really let loose.

Mars is in my 4th house but I don't think it aspects Pluto or Saturn at all.

posted July 17, 2014 02:01 PM            

Mars sextile Moon
Mars sextile Jupiter
Mars opposite Mercury

It's actually a kite.

posted July 17, 2014 04:54 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
For the lazy ram above me

Mars sextile Moon
Mars sextile Jupiter
Mars opposite Mercury

It's actually a kite.

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Lol.The reason that I wanted to see your whole chart is that it is usually more than the Mars sign that makes one "stiff" or feel self-contained.

Your Mars is in Capricorn but is in the 4th house; this doesn't suggest a person who is contained at all,but one whom is brimming with emotions.

Your Sun and Mercury are,however,in the 10th house.And this suggests a great deal of restraint as 10th house is very "reputation" conscious.

What you say and do are really held against you and hold a lot of volume(because of the publicity of the 10th house position of mercury and Sun) so you practice restraint here.

Also, the 3rd house has Saturn therein; increasing the powers of concentration and restraint in how one communicates. You say what you need to say and don't really entertain gossip or hearsay.

The 3rd house is associate with "busyness" and so, Saturn there definitely slows things down and makes them more thorough.

There could be restraint even in your movement; your responses and the processing of information is with a critical bent that is thorough.

Uranus is squaring Jupiter suggests a highly imaginative mind.

Uranus in 3rd communicates "out of the box" concepts and is open to new things. Uranus in 3rd also likes to use phrases and words that are not popular/considered "archaic"i.e "Darling, thou shalt not conduct yourself thus" etc.

Jupiter is not well-placed in the 6th house and suggests a great deal of rambling about detail.

The result is that, whilst one may be communicating a brilliant concept, they go into so much details and want to cover EVERYTHING that the listener or reader may have their attention drift.

posted July 17, 2014 05:05 PM            

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The result is that, whilst one may be communicating a brilliant concept, they go into so much details and want to cover EVERYTHING that the listener of reader may have their attention drift.

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I can't believe how true that statement is LOL I do have a habit of over-explaining myself and I know I do it.

I do have a depth of emotion that sometimes overwhelms me. I make an effort to come across as composed and stoic though, especially in the workplace. I'm more the "calm under pressure" type even if I am seething inside.

Here is my full chart if this helps:

posted July 18, 2014 06:12 AM            

Let's have a look.

Saturn in 3rd suggest strong communication abilities and a critical eye for detail and thoroughness in delivering a message.

There could be restraint in movement, projection or the manner of speaking.Even short trips are evaluated and limited only to necessity.Fear of driving is also likely.

Ruler of the 1st house(Mercury) in the 10th house suggests an individual who wants purpose and direction in their life.

They want their direction of where they want to go,do,have and achieve to be clear and precise.

Sun-Neptune opposition- Very impressionable and easily influenced. Gives a very imaginative disposition. Very private.

Neptune widely conjuncts IC- must be given space and freedom to do what they want. Very creative but also private. Cannot be conformed. Needs time alone.

Its interesting how the Sun is placed in such a public place like the 10th house as it suggests a conflict.

On one hand you are so impressionable (Neptune),but on the other hand,you really want to give out the impression of being "under control" and very "capable"(10th house)

One way in which these two can merge is with a career direction that allows you to express your fluid nature and taps into your innate creativity.

Again,I believe that this, together with Saturn in 3rd, is where the "restraint" is borne from.

Moon in 3rd feels "at home" in a busy environment that has lots of people and a busy schedule.

The partner is likely to be a "busy body" and the relationship can have many things happening all at once.Rarely boring

7th house Pisces-Neptune(ruler of Pisces) in 4th.

Partnerships feel very personal.Being intrinsically bonded to partner is important.Needs to feel that they "belong" with partner.

Mercury in 10th devotes a lot of attention on Managing the direction of one's career.

Here,there is much emphasis on administrative thoroughness and tending to detail.

There is a likelihood of working close with superiors or being favored by superiors because of your mental acumen etc.

I wonder if you work in an administrative field?

Mercury(10th) opposes Mars(4th)- You can rush through the details to get to the crux.

You often have to practice restraint in not jumping to conclusions and it is seldom an easy thing to do because your passionate nature(Mars in 4th) may get in the way and clouds objectivity(Mercury in 10th).

Venus square Pluto- you are drawn to challenges and things that are emotionally involving. You attract others because you seem/come across as "brave".

5th house ruler(Uranus) in 3rd house- Attracted to intellectual types or those that are able to express themselves well with words.

Ruler of 5th (Uranus) in 3rd also suggests that you attract others to you because of your brilliant intellect and your unique way with words and expressing yourself.

You could also be creative and talented with writing.

Jupiter square Uranus- Values change all the time. Money may fluctuate all the time. Constant changes in what one owns are also possible.One may give things(sporadically) away.

Jupiter square Uranus in 3rd is,as I said, a challenging placement that has one explain too much or go into too much technical detail that the novelty of the original subject is lost or exhausted.

You mentioned that you "follow" your partner or give way to them? With Sun-Neptune conjunct and Neptune widely conjunct the IC, you are more yearning for you and your partner to speak as "one" and for there to be little difference between you.

This could be the case of not wanting any conflict because you fear a break-up or giving in when the alternative(struggle)is more taxing.

You must be careful of that Mars in 4th though, as it does suggest that when you let things "slide" for a long time-to keep the peace- there will be passive aggressive ways in which you let your discontent be known.

Mars in 4th is connected to your sexuality and so, emotional disruptions an really affect your desire for your mate and cause you to hold back and even be "cold" to their approaches.

Its important that an effort be made to sort out any emotional issues that may be lurking before you truly let go, relax and begin to give sexually(which innately you really want to do).

posted July 18, 2014 10:07 AM            

I actually do work in an administrative type role at the moment. I can see the career progression beyond this role into more of a management type role and so on, whether with this company or another but that is all part of my "plan" and my long-term vision I have always had a very "fated" view of my life and feel like everything has fallen into place for me exactly how it was supposed to and will continue to.

My personal relationships are EXTREMELY important to me. I almost feel like I NEED that companionship or I just wouldn't be complete. Subsequently I have spent most of my adult life in back-to-back long-term relationships, and I always end up feeling like I am the one making accommodations for the sake of the relationship and "letting things slide" to keep the peace. I also am rather selfless in relationships and have not yet found that same intensity matched - in that my partners never really give back to me what I give to them. Ultimately I do have an ideal "vision" of what I am looking for which is why I did not settle down with any of them - I come to a breaking point. I am actually in a bit of predicament right now in my current relationship. I feel as though he could be someone I could end up with as he has challenged me like no other before - mentally and emotionally. He has really forced me to take a step back and look at how I approach my life in different ways. It's definitely not an "easy" relationship but it feels like the most rewarding thus far. I just don't know if HE is willing to put the effort in necessary. There I go again...

posted July 18, 2014 10:33 AM            

Mercury and Sun in 10th with Saturn in 3rd suggested to me that you were not going to remain in subordinate positions for long.

10th house people want to work for themselves or independently /if not on the same levels as superiors and execs.

I really don't do synastry or composite readings.Sometimes I think its best if the party concerned recognizes the patterns and aspects their partner's planets make to their own and evaluate them on a personal level.

Natal chart interpretation is what I do because the party may recognize patterns that they were blind in seeing within the interpretation.This fosters personal growth and introspect evaluation.

I can't tell you that you and your partner will work. That is up to you to decide.

But what I can tell you, is what I see from their chart. It is up to you whether you can accept/agree with that or not.

If you post his chart,I can have a look.But I have to warn you that being with someone you love is supposed to be EASY.

If you have doubts about them, a chart analysis will only edge the knife deeper.

posted July 18, 2014 10:49 AM            

When I say "easy" I just mean in the sense that you are on auto-pilot almost. I was in a relationship that was VERY easy. We were best friends. It was so easy though that after a few years it felt like we had lost that drive, that "spunk" and that fuel to build something together - to work towards something - if that makes sense. He never challenged me. This relationship challenges me.

posted July 18, 2014 11:08 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
What does that mean to have the kite?

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I've heard from many Linda Goodman astrologers that if your chart has a kite, you will have fortune in terms of wealth

posted July 18, 2014 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
I've heard from many Linda Goodman astrologers that if your chart has a kite, you will have fortune in terms of wealth

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posted July 18, 2014 11:17 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Really? Well, not quite there yet...but here's hoping! LOL

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I am totally jealous!

KRS astrology I think also agrees that kites (or multiple squares i think)make tons of money
KRS suggests that those with kites long time ago would have been wealthy in terms of honour and reputation but in our generation,
they would be wealthy in terms of materials and possessions.
He does suggest that they wouldn't necessarily considered honourable though
but still honour and reptuation should be easy to get, once bank account is fat

posted July 18, 2014 11:26 AM            

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if cappy says its kite
it must be a kite

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posted July 18, 2014 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
[QUOTE]if cappy says its kite
it must be a kite

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I'm glad you can recognize your authority

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posted July 18, 2014 11:31 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Understandable and I respect that fully. I myself keep reading conflicting things - "squares are bad" or "squares are necessary friction," "trines are too easy" or "trines are what you want." I can imagine a synastry chart reading is very subjective based on that person's own views.

When I say "easy" I just mean in the sense that you are on auto-pilot almost. I was in a relationship that was VERY easy. We were best friends. It was so easy though that after a few years it felt like we had lost that drive, that "spunk" and that fuel to build something together - to work towards something - if that makes sense. He never challenged me. This relationship challenges me.

I am curious to know your thoughts though Here is his chart (beware - it is grim!):

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