posted July 28, 2014 11:49 AM            

Thing is,there is nothing intrinsically "wrong" with having challenging aspects to your Venus.

The challenging aspect usually elicits urgency(it has Mars-like energy) and one tends to want to "rush" in with guns blazing.

The conscious energy could come in in acknowledging the excitement and deliberately applying the brakes and slowing down.Look at everything more clearly

Venus-Neptune square suggests that your idea of affection, love and adoration is not clear, shrouded in mystery or fathomable. There is something "mystical" and "we must aspire to be like this" about it.

So,as such, you may attract/be attracted to guys who will mirror that. They will show you affection in strange,unclear,confusing and unfathomable ways.

I.e your crush may take you out to dinner late every Saturday and choose a very cosy and secluded part of the restaurant for you two to dine in.

During the week however, he is MIA and whenever you call him, his phone is on voice-mail.

When you ask him of this, he tells you that he is often out of the office and very busy. So he can't take calls.

But you are so swept into his charm and smooth ways of buttering you up:Even having recurring memories of that past Saturday and the consequent passion spent at an exclusive hotel, that you are willing to forget all. "He loves me", you say to yourself, "he is just very busy and I shouldn't nag".

But intuition, the part that you listen to when you are conscious, is asking all sorts of questions.

1 Why does he only take you out on Saturdays?
2.Why must the time of the excursion always be so late?
3.Why does he choose the most isolated part of the restaurant for you to dine in?
4.Why does he book a hotel and pay cash?
5.Why is his phone always off/on voice mail during the week?

When the relationship does end and you find out your lovers feet are made of clay, the answers come-flowing down with the mascara and tears when you are riding a taxi cab alone.

1 Why does he only take you out on Saturdays?
Because he is with his wife and family during the week.

2.Why must the time of the excursion always be so late?
So that no-one sees him and recognizes his face

3.Why does he choose the most isolated part of the restaurant for you to dine in? So that no-one sees him and recognizes his face

4.Why does he book a hotel and pay cash? Because he doesn't want to leave a trail that will expose him. He doesn't want to go to your place- someone might see him leave. He certainly can't take you to his place; he is married.

5.Why is his phone always off/on voice mail during the week? His wife checks his phone and makes it a point to follow up on the numbers that she doesn't recognize.

So you have been duped and taken for a ride. Your heart is broken.

What you can do, with Venus in challenging aspect with Neptune, is start to be more clear/definitive about what you want in love.

Slow down and take your time in knowing the person you are dating

Insist on transparency and be especially attentive to that inner voice:Neptune people are extremely intuitive. They just "know" when something is up.

This is one of many practical ways to curb that tricky Venus-Neptune square placement.