posted August 06, 2014 02:48 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
Lol! HappyLoewe. Holding the knife like a pen and "That's real talk"... I hate that guy already! I'm not sure what placements would cause the high pitched voice and laugh in a guy, maybe Venus conjunct Mercury.

I know one guy with his Saturn right on my Sun, and everything he does annoys me to no end. He too has this really high pitched laugh, it sounds just like a hyena, and even when something is funny, hearing that laugh ruins the moment for me. He also moans when he eats, which is disturbing to everyone around him. He always says "I'm just enjoying my meal!". Yeah, we can all tell because you sound like you're about to have an orgasm. Every time I would cook a meal(he was my former brother in law, that practically lived with my ex and I) he acted like a food critic, and ALWAYS said "you used too much cinnamon". WTF??? He clearly has no idea what cinnamon tastes like, because it was never a meal that had cinnamon in it, which is a very distinctive flavor that I only use that for desserts. Like it would kill him to just say "Thank you for the the meal(3-4 times a week). Meanwhile, he's 30 and does not know how to make macaroni and cheese, even though the instructions are on the box! He should just be thankful for a home cooked meal, instead of being so nit picky. He also disagreed with everything I said, even if was factual information that could be proven. I swear it was like he tried to annoy me on purpose.

Okay, rant over! I could go on all day about everything he did that annoyed me! I'm sure it's the exact Sun/Saturn conjunction in our synastry that caused this.

In general I'm completely turned off by any guy that wears tight T-shirts, especially if they have skulls or crosses bedazzled with rhinestones. Also guys that say "Bro" all the time, or even worse "Bra"!!! Guys with fake tans, and cocky guys that think they are God's gift to women. I can become downright hostile in their presence! The women that are turned on by these qualities are even worse! Basically anyone that looks like they could be on Jersey Shore, that's my worst nightmare!!!!!

I'm usually very open minded to everyone and their differences, but this "type" just drives me nuts. At least I can easily spot their kind, and know to avoid them at all costs.

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Haha ! I know, just irritating stuff.

Your ex brother-in-law sounds like a nightmare. How did you put up with all that BS?

Yes, I am turned off by the tight t-shirt/Jersey Shore scenario too. I prefer a man to be well dressed and look polished and powerful.

I am also really turned off by Tattoos, however good they may be in their design.

Extreme plastic surgery - I have come across several women who have huge chests and it just grosses me out. The sewing the top lip to the bottom of the nose thing also makes me freak out.

People who don't care good care of their shoes - worn heels, holes in soles, smelly shoes, dirty shoes, lack of polish, and while I am on the subject, socks with sandals.

posted August 06, 2014 03:38 AM            

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Originally posted by starrynight:
I wonder what sign his Mercury is in.
Maybe it is afflicted? Giving him a voice that doesn't fit him.

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posted August 06, 2014 06:28 AM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
Haha ! I know, just irritating stuff.

Your ex brother-in-law sounds like a nightmare. How did you put up with all that BS?

Yes, I am turned off by the tight t-shirt/Jersey Shore scenario too. I prefer a man to be well dressed and look polished and powerful.

I am also really turned off by Tattoos, however good they may be in their design.

Extreme plastic surgery - I have come across several women who have huge chests and it just grosses me out. The sewing the top lip to the bottom of the nose thing also makes me freak out.

People who don't care good care of their shoes - worn heels, holes in soles, smelly shoes, dirty shoes, lack of polish, and while I am on the subject, socks with sandals.

I also abhor nose-picking. Urgh just threw up a bit in mouth when even typing that.

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Oh, the brother in law was a walk in the park compared to my mother in law!!! I won't even get started on her!

I saw Saturn going both ways with me and him, because we were always finding fault in every little thing the other person said or did.

Of all the things on your list, socks with sandals is the biggest dealbreaker for me ! I swear I hear the theme music from Psycho when I see that! It's just wrong!!!

posted August 06, 2014 02:30 PM            

On a lighter note, meaning I wouldn't hate such a person, but they are definitely not my type.

Cowardice. I know some nice kind people are not brave, but it just turns me off. Especially if it is about some small things like getting into cold water or telling a jerk who bothers you to leave you alone.

Boorish men, too. I don't want a mommy's boy but I like a man who knows how to behave. Social awkwardness of any type is not endearing to me.

Guys who are all about their mind and disconnected from their bodies. Living inside their brain all the time.

Overly serious guys with no sense of humor.
You know the type, totally adult since early youth.

Taciturn, quiet, unemotional guys. Nothing inherently bad about it, but I always feel like I'm supposed to entertain them or something.

Shallow. And I don't mean wearing jewelry or primping (I actually like the way jewelry looks on guys). I mean spiritually. Hello Mars conj Neptune.

Super practical guys who are totally lacking any romantic streak. No, I don't want a new sink as a birthday gift, jeez. I'd take a guy who is into Disney movies over a guy like that. xD (yes I've read the comments)

Overweight and just the plump Teddy Bear type in general. Simply because I like an athletic but skinny type, and this is a complete opposite.

Bad personal hygiene only worries me if it's totally horrible. Like rotting teeth, days old sweat, that kind of thing.
Messy is fine.

Guys who always look bored and cynical.

Nervous habits like chewing on fingernails.

Shy and antisocial. I like a sweet guy, but he has to be outgoing.

A guy who says "let's just have a home cooked meal and cuddle in front of a TV" at like our third date. Oh noes.
Each time I keep remembering Brad Pitt saying this about his failed marriage, that they were young rich celebs and still they spent their evenings on a couch with a joint looking for an interesting movie to watch instead of living an interesting life. Okay joint is optional. xD

Nagging overly critical guys.

Guys who are ashamed of their own body. Guys who have stiff and awkward movements. Just a shallow turn off. I like a guy who can dance, who can be seductive and sexy. In short, I'm turned on by cheerful body confidence, so the opposite is a turn off.

posted August 06, 2014 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
Bad breath
Bad personal hygiene
Nagging(I dont mind clingy but nagging arrghhh)
Free loaders
People who never stand up for their rights n rights of their children.
Not giving importance to the person who is with you
Sleazy stuff

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Yeah, I can go with the bad breath, bad hygiene and freeloaders bit. I work with a girl who breath is an absolute killer all the time. There is never a break from it but I feel so bad for her.

People that wear clean clothes on a dirty body. Why ppl, y?

posted August 06, 2014 04:01 PM            

However, the ugliest thing to me is no follow through. Telling me you will do something and then not doing it... GRRRRRRR. Makes me want to file divorce papers sometimes.

I know that sounds a little petty, but I've been let down so much in life that I am losing my patience for BS.

posted August 06, 2014 04:02 PM            

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Originally posted by HappyLoewe:
My friend introduced me to this guy that she likes. He is good looking, well dressed, nice manners, good job, intelligent, educated, funny, playful, etc. BUT he has a high-pitched laugh and I CANNOT bear it. It drives me insane. It's really high and girly but he is very masculine and muscular to look at.

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Sounds soooooo much like my bestie and I love his girlie laugh. Every time I hear it, I giggle.

posted August 06, 2014 04:23 PM            

I think that's it For me it is a matter of course that a man mustn't be stinky and does not run over puppies

posted August 06, 2014 04:25 PM            

People who are bullies, mean, ugly inside. People who are just so ugly inside that their physical beauty is no longer beautiful.

posted August 06, 2014 05:20 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
What annoys me? Petty people, making big things out of something small, not seeing the bigger picture, not tolerable of differences be it religion, social class, sense of fashion ect. People being unnessacarily negative about other people, people who complain about things that doesnt matter (although I sometimes do this ) People who create drama for 0 reason. People hating on other people.

People who are bullies, mean, ugly inside. People who are just so ugly inside that their physical beauty is no longer beautiful.

Aqua Venus
Libra asc
Sag sun

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posted August 06, 2014 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
What annoys me? Petty people, making big things out of something small, not seeing the bigger picture, not tolerable of differences be it religion, social class, sense of fashion ect. People being unnessacarily negative about other people, people who complain about things that doesnt matter (although I sometimes do this ) People who create drama for 0 reason. People hating on other people.

People who are bullies, mean, ugly inside. People who are just so ugly inside that their physical beauty is no longer beautiful.

Aqua Venus
Libra asc
Sag sun

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posted August 08, 2014 04:17 AM            

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Originally posted by Voix_de_la_Mer:
Pretty much everything I have found disagreeable in anyone else
has been a reflection of something I am in conflict with within myself.

And usually as a result of unresolved issues from my primary relationships.

OR, a lack of understanding RE said "turn-off".

To take "bad hygiene" as an example,
it is difficult to remain adverse to someone who has an odour as a result of deep emotional suffering.
The urge is not to reject person+odour,
but to engage with person+suffering.
To promote healing.

All adversity and repulsion is an opportunity for one or both parties to heal something.
Those who are aware of the "issue" have the responsibility IMO.

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Wow. I can really relate to this. I have this obsessive need sometimes to understand why I am repulsed by someone and figure out how I can integrate them into holiness in my mind, which I think is a result of cognitive dissonance of wanting to experience holiness, divinity, purity, and the need to accept all creatures and paths of life without rejecting the things that are not considered pleasant.
What do you think this concept relates to in your natal chart?

Things that I consider turn offs... Guys who cant take a joke, guys who are defensive. I've been able to overlook a lot in terms of appearance, possessions, and mental health of a partner (ive dated many types of people...) in favor of emotional/spiritual compatibility, but that sh*t just will not make me hot.

posted August 08, 2014 06:29 AM            

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Originally posted by arcturiann:
Wow. I can really relate to this. I have this obsessive need sometimes to understand why I am repulsed by someone and figure out how I can integrate them into holiness in my mind, which I think is a result of cognitive dissonance of wanting to experience holiness, divinity, purity, and the need to accept all creatures and paths of life without rejecting the things that are not considered pleasant.
What do you think this concept relates to in your natal chart?

Things that I consider turn offs... Guys who cant take a joke, guys who are defensive. I've been able to overlook a lot in terms of appearance, possessions, and mental health of a partner (ive dated many types of people...) in favor of emotional/spiritual compatibility, but that sh*t just will not make me hot.

When I see a guy treating a "less attractive" woman like she's less than any other woman, like you know, you can tell when someone kind of brushes people to the side like some afterthought or like they don't want them there.. I remember being that person in life, and to see a guy treat someone like they are lowly for something superficial (appearance, clothing choice, lifestyle, etc) is a huuuuge turn off.

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Probably something to do with Pluto.

posted August 08, 2014 06:40 AM            

On the topic, I can very much relate about the voice. I had an admirer, who was very rich, quite handsome and extremely athletic. He had the voice of a snake, too sleezy.I literally could not overcome this.