posted August 04, 2014 09:20 AM            

His voice is a bit weak though as though he is not used to speaking. It lacks strength and punch. In fact he doesn't say much but he has an awful lot of presence and he seems to always be sitting or standing the centre of his friends. He seems to magnetize people to him. He uses the expression "that's real talk, right now" alot. OMG !

posted August 04, 2014 09:43 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Low testosterone levels...? -> weak Mars?
I ain't sure there's a correlation tbh.

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posted August 04, 2014 10:29 AM            

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Lol @ charlie.
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Oh yeah a DOB (and TOB preferably) would be pretty awesome.

I know a guy who's quite effeminate and has a pretty high-pitched voice. Interestingly he's an Aries Sun/Merc with a Scorpio ASC and a Scorpio Moon. Andddd Mars in Aqua sq. Pluto! Talk about weird.

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posted August 05, 2014 05:23 PM            

I can't stand close-minded, brainwashed people. I will probably ignore you and shut you out, meanwhile trying not to punch your dumb face after ever dumb thing you say....It's ok, I'll get over it

posted August 05, 2014 07:58 PM            

And usually as a result of unresolved issues from my primary relationships.

OR, a lack of understanding RE said "turn-off".

To take "bad hygiene" as an example,
it is difficult to remain adverse to someone who has an odour as a result of deep emotional suffering.
The urge is not to reject person+odour,
but to engage with person+suffering.
To promote healing.

posted August 05, 2014 08:17 PM            

I don't feel it's my responsibility to help them. Especially if it's someone that I don't really know. Even my best friend. He doesn't take care of his teeth. I've told him and he's had teeth that have broken in half. I've warned him about the inevitable infection but he simply shrugs his shoulders. He doesn't care, stating that, "it's not painful".

If I'm trapped, as in I work with the person and it's really bad. I'll speak up. I did that once when I worked in retail even. I mean customers don't want to smell B.O. 5 minutes after the guy left the area. It was nasty.
I'm talking about people who clearly are not interested in making the effort.
Like, those "People of Walmart" things that you see. They just don't care and I guarantee you if you said something they'd probably be throwing their candybars at you.

posted August 05, 2014 10:03 PM            

i have a hard time with men who are very skinny or small in stature.

I don't like a man who is skin and bones or short.

If I feel like if it came down to it, I could beat you up (which i would never do but if i felt i * could * do that ......

then .....No.

If you take a long time getting ready, primping, or wear jewelry, go tanning are a pretty boy in any way - also a no-no.

If you don't like getting your hands dirty, changing a flat tire or oil in a car, things of that nature, I'm afraid that is no-go as well.

posted August 05, 2014 10:08 PM            

sappy, sicky lovey-doveyness. Someone who is into fairytales, Disney, romantic movies and things of that nature. Gross.

extremely religious or in anyway close-minded.

posted August 05, 2014 11:18 PM            

Closeminded/black and white types of views are also super unattractive to me. People that follow every single trend and don't ever seem to follow their own opinions or individuality and are basically walking robots.

I'm also turned off by bad hygiene, and I do have Venus in Virgo. I don't really enjoy being around and picking up after others' messes, or people that NEVER try and look decent or somewhat polished. You don't have to look like you're attending a ball, but it'd be nice to see people not wear tank tops and pajama bottoms all the time out in public lol.

posted August 05, 2014 11:20 PM            

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My friend introduced me to this guy that she likes. He is good looking, well dressed, nice manners, good job, intelligent, educated, funny, playful, etc. BUT he has a high-pitched laugh and I CANNOT bear it. It drives me insane. It's really high and girly but he is very masculine and muscular to look at. He also holds his knife like a pen and I CANNOT bear that either.

His voice is a bit weak though as though he is not used to speaking. It lacks strength and punch. In fact he doesn't say much but he has an awful lot of presence and he seems to always be sitting or standing the centre of his friends. He seems to magnetize people to him. He uses the expression "that's real talk, right now" alot. OMG !

What aspects would give a weak voice and a high-pitched laugh in a man?

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I don't know about placements but I do know a guy who is very much like this (his voice isn't weak but his laugh is girlish and he's actually been mistaken for a woman on the phone), and he most certainly did not suffer low testosterone levels.

posted August 05, 2014 11:22 PM            

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You don't have to look like you're attending a ball, but it'd be nice to see people not wear tank tops and pajama bottoms all the time out in public lol.

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posted August 05, 2014 11:47 PM            

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Precisely!

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posted August 05, 2014 11:56 PM            

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I know!
I mean if they are too lazy to at least put an outfit of SOME kind together and do SOMETHING with their hair. Maybe it's too judgmental on my part but I just think, "okay, so what's going on UNDER the clothes that no one actually sees?"
I can't say because it's not PG-13 but.... *shudders*

posted August 06, 2014 12:07 AM            

You pretty much read my mind!

sappy, sicky lovey-doveyness. Someone who is into fairytales, Disney, romantic movies and things of that nature. Gross

Lolol ^ especially that!!!

posted August 06, 2014 12:16 AM            

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I know!
I mean if they are too lazy to at least put an outfit of SOME kind together and do SOMETHING with their hair. Maybe it's too judgmental on my part but I just think, "okay, so what's going on UNDER the clothes that no one actually sees?"
I can't say because it's not PG-13 but.... *shudders*

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It's not judgmental at all, at least not in my book! Hahah. I'm totally thinking the same exact thing. It's like alright....uh you got somethin' to hide under there that you don't want people to see? I'd almost rather know what's hiding than stare at the same wardrobe every time.

posted August 06, 2014 01:12 AM            

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more turnoffs:

sappy, sicky lovey-doveyness. Someone who is into fairytales, Disney, romantic movies and things of that nature. Gross.

extremely religious or in anyway close-minded.

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Maybe it's Saturn transiting over my Venus, but...agreed. 100%! Nothing more obnoxious than someone who is obsessed with fantasy in an 'innocent' way like Disney and rom-coms with ridiculously happy endings. I try to avoid women like this as often as possible. There's a difference between being artistic and dreamy vs. being mushy and sappy. I don't do over the top romantic gestures...nothing turns me cold faster than someone really 'frou frou' and in love with fantasy, like having a white wedding and living like a princess. NEXT! (LOL...anybody remember that crappy show besides me? )

I also can't stand religious zealots, since they tend to be oppressive and discriminatory people. Other turn-offs that come to mind:

posted August 06, 2014 01:59 AM            

I know one guy with his Saturn right on my Sun, and everything he does annoys me to no end. He too has this really high pitched laugh, it sounds just like a hyena, and even when something is funny, hearing that laugh ruins the moment for me. He also moans when he eats, which is disturbing to everyone around him. He always says "I'm just enjoying my meal!". Yeah, we can all tell because you sound like you're about to have an orgasm. Every time I would cook a meal(he was my former brother in law, that practically lived with my ex and I) he acted like a food critic, and ALWAYS said "you used too much cinnamon". WTF??? He clearly has no idea what cinnamon tastes like, because it was never a meal that had cinnamon in it, which is a very distinctive flavor that I only use that for desserts. Like it would kill him to just say "Thank you for the the meal(3-4 times a week). Meanwhile, he's 30 and does not know how to make macaroni and cheese, even though the instructions are on the box! He should just be thankful for a home cooked meal, instead of being so nit picky. He also disagreed with everything I said, even if was factual information that could be proven. I swear it was like he tried to annoy me on purpose.

Okay, rant over! I could go on all day about everything he did that annoyed me! I'm sure it's the exact Sun/Saturn conjunction in our synastry that caused this.

In general I'm completely turned off by any guy that wears tight T-shirts, especially if they have skulls or crosses bedazzled with rhinestones. Also guys that say "Bro" all the time, or even worse "Bra"!!! Guys with fake tans, and cocky guys that think they are God's gift to women. I can become downright hostile in their presence! The women that are turned on by these qualities are even worse! Basically anyone that looks like they could be on Jersey Shore, that's my worst nightmare!!!!!