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Topic: Let's talk about Sagittarians
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NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 1129 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 14, 2014 11:53 AM
Why do people always talk about us? IP: Logged |
MiaPluto Knowflake Posts: 268 From: Montreal, Quebec, Canada Registered: Aug 2014
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posted August 14, 2014 09:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: OMG I will keep this thread going for days! Sag, sag, sag. I live to marry one, seriously. My only request is they not have a Cancer or Capricorn moon, maybe a Taurus one like me? They have to have an earth moon though. I can't imagine being with a Sag that has an AIR or FIRE moon of all things. I digress.. There's one Sag woman that makes me uncomfortable because I feel like she's judgy and likes to show off her material things (when I could care less. I like to be happy for other people, but it's alllll in how you say it.) I know about four Sag ASC, Aries suns. Three of them are pretty loyal people as long as you're not obsessed with them and you go with the flow of wherever the friendship takes you. One thing I don't like (just personally, and it's not really against them) is how they assume things about me...and those things are true sometimes... but they still assume it and assume they're right, automatically. I hate that! My Taurus moon chafes here because I'm very careful. I don't make assumptions. All of them (except for one who had a Taurus Venus) are pretty outspoken when something bothers them, no guessing, which is SO refreshing. You can just deal with it between the two of you and move on after a little bit. There's no long, drawn out games and because my Mars is in the 12th house (albeit conjunct my ASC) I need that. I'm just bad at being assertive unless I'm getting bitchy and snotty. I know about four Sag moons and they behave more like Scorpios to me, I'm unsure why because only one of them had a Moon / Pluto thing. They tend to like to "get back" at you if they feel slighted and they can do it well! Again, this is just how I feel and my experiences. But I think it's safe to say Sag-anything can get under your skin if they really wanted or felt they needed to. I like how Sags seem GENUINELY interested in other people and observant of them. I met so many more budding psychologists who were Sagittarians than I ever did Scorpios (the supposed, textbook-stamped of the zodiac). I like how they view things, most of the time, and how they arrive at such conclusions at such a lightening speed! OH! And even though everyone (myself included) is like "Ah, they're gone too fast!" I do think when they are present in your life, their feelings for you are all real, but many people take time and are so used to a certain chronological order that it might not sink in with them 'til it's too late and the Sag has already moved onto their next chapter. << Be interesting to see your signs and how you relate to that.
I know one sagittarius with taurus moon. He's a celebrity. His name is jamie campbell bower. I'm obsessed with him. I think I found your soulmate. You'll fall in love with him. You're welcome. x ------------------ Mia x IP: Logged |
bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 473 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 14, 2014 09:22 PM
I love and hate them too lol. They're so unfunny, and we have such interesting conversations, and they open up pretty easily. Almost bluntly. A sag told me he was raped when he was a kid, out of nowhere, and he wasn't trying to get closer to me, he just said it, then moved on without blinking lol. That's the kind of stuff I mean about opening up without really caring.And omg you really can never bring them down. Reject a sag, and he'll just ignore it and try again. Seriously, it's the most annoying thing to get a sag off your back. You can reject them with the fires of a thousand suns burning in your hurtful words but they'll bound right back from it and try again. Optimism is nice but not when it's this situation. Also they're too judge mental. My sag ex was the most judge mental person ever. And my sag friends are always trying to feel superior to me in weird ways. IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 462 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2014 09:34 PM
Diplomacy. I have a stellium in Libra. Manfriend's Moon in Sagittarius has FINALLY learned some in the last 20 years. Loaded questions are usually some sort of fishing expedition for reassurance. I've outgrown most of my insecurities in the last 20 years; so, I am less annoying. He can be, like most Saggi influenced people, a huge gossiper. I am guilty of it too.However, I hav made some very clear boundaries he must observe when it comes to discussing our relationship with others. He sort of figured it out when he discussed a fight we had early in our relationship with our mutual female friends. They gave him a verbal slap in the back of the head & called him stupid & clueless. I think he learned a lesson. :-)------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged |
lvASTRO Knowflake Posts: 221 From: Las Vegas, NV Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 14, 2014 09:42 PM
I love Saggis as friends. They are funny, charismatic, goofs... Love it. They usually trine my Moon/Venus/Jupiter... Late sag tribes my sun. We get warm and fuzzy, amicably.Romantically... I agree with the wave/buoy analogy. My ex-husband was Sun Sag, heavy Sag placements/aspects... Packed 9th. Was too financially carefree, didn't take things seriously that should've been. Moon in Cancer (OMG... Emotionally unstable, almost?) with ambition, but no endurance. Had a new job every 6 months. Drove my Saturn/Cap stellium BONKERS! I felt like I was the Piscean rock (because all my Cap/Saturn) and I was tethered to a kite with a rocket pack strapped to its back. 0_0 I like to be responsible on my end, but also have fun and be somewhat carefree, knowing my partner is financially capable and responsible. Nope. I had to be the worrier. The fixer. The rock. ALWAYS. I became bitter in the end... Him: You need to make $200 dollars tonight so we can pay my car payment. Me: Um... Why are you telling me this now? You just went grocery shopping and spent $250 at WholeFoods. Him: We needed groceries. Me: We don't NEED $250 in groceries. You should've just bought a few things and then we'd have the car payment. A week later I'd throw out a ton of rotten food because he'd eat out/not use the food he bought, and it was my responsibility to make the money that night we were short. NOPE. Done. I am so glad I got out. I have money for all my bills almost two months in advance now. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 4984 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2014 09:53 PM
quote: Originally posted by fireopal09: Diplomacy. I have a stellium in Libra. Manfriend's Moon in Sagittarius has FINALLY learned some in the last 20 years. Loaded questions are usually some sort of fishing expedition for reassurance
I have a stellium in libra and I don't understand why a lie--you know it's a lie, even define it as a question in which it's best to lie--would be reassuring. I'd think it would just be one more source of anxiety (like what else he's lying about, particularly on how he REALLY feels). Honesty could also be helpful in like finding what clothes look better (as in the example given earlier). Granted, I've learned some people want to be lied to and don't want honesty no matter how much they say otherwise, but I don't understand the appeal. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 4984 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 14, 2014 10:00 PM
OTOH, I've loved how Joss Whedon comes up with feel good lies in his shows, a bittersweet exchange I loved was this, between Giles and Buffy from Buffy the Vampire Slayer (Lie to Me): quote: "Does it ever get easy?""You mean life?" "Yeah, does it get easy?" "What do you want me to say?" "Lie to me." "Yes. It's terribly simple. The good guys are always stalwart and true. The bad guys are easily distinguished by their pointy horns or black hats, and, uh, we always defeat them and save the day. No one ever dies and... everybody lives happily ever after." "Liar."
Btw, Buffy I think Buffy is a Sag, in both the good and bad way. IP: Logged |
fireopal09 Knowflake Posts: 462 From: Dallas,TX, Us Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 15, 2014 02:21 AM
Diplomacy does not necessarily mean lying. I guess I should have used the word "tact". I am not very tactful when it comes to delivering horrible news. I am very much a straight shooter & too blunt. I have had to inform close people of death of a loved one which consists of me saying "I'm sorry" and then breaking the news. I don't mess around in breaking that sort of news.------------------ Claire "When going gets weird, the weird turn pro." -HST IP: Logged | |