posted August 18, 2014 09:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
My ex had a Taurus moon and unfortunately started exhibiting the shadow side of the moon within a month into our relationship.

If he found you to be physically attractive, he would be very nice and charming. However, if he found you to be unattractive, then he would be unbelievably rude and treat you like crap. I find this attitude to be disgusting. There are plenty of people I find to be physically unattractive, but I don't consider that to be an excuse to disrespect them. Unless someone acts like an a**hole, then I will treat them with respect and kindness.

I also realized that only his feelings mattered to him. What HE wanted and what HE needed was all that mattered. When I broke up with him, it didn't matter that I no longer wanted to be in a relationship with him. He still wanted to be in a relationship, so he stalked me long after the breakup.

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What was his sun sign? Any other significant placements in his chart?

posted August 18, 2014 09:56 AM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Mars and venus in virgo exactly on her IC, but I thought planets on the IC were more internally prominant than externally

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The AC/1st house is an angle, the IC/4th house is an angle, the DC/7th house is an angle, the MC/10th house is an angle.

Trust me,when the planets are placed there, they show up.

I have Saturn and Venus on the 7th house cusp. People see both of these-even if I don't see them.

posted August 18, 2014 10:34 AM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
What was his sun sign? Any other significant placements in his chart?

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posted August 18, 2014 12:10 PM            

I think Moon in Taurus is usually very generous and not at all stingy with their resources or time. I have one friend with this position and the very few times that I've borrowed money from her, she's always insisted on not being paid back, which is pretty rare. She was just happy to give and to help. But, with Taurus being so practical, I think they're, at the end of the day, very aware that they need enough money in the bank to be that generous. They always make sure they're taken care of first. Where as Water Moons are more likely, on the other hand, to do things for people that will leave them penniless. And that's a horrifying word to a Taurus Moon.

posted August 18, 2014 12:17 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Hmmm, I think the OP was trying to say that Taurus Moon people are more focused on pleasing themselves and taking care of themselves first than others (which is what another poster said, more or less). I think this is true, as Venus is all about pleasure, after all.

I think Moon in Taurus is usually very generous and not at all stingy with their resources or time. I have one friend with this position and the very few times that I've borrowed money from her, she's always insisted on not being paid back, which is pretty rare. She was just happy to give and to help. But, with Taurus being so practical, I think they're, at the end of the day, very aware that they need enough money in the bank to be that generous. They always make sure they're taken care of first. Where as Water Moons are more likely, on the other hand, to do things for people that will leave them penniless. And that's a horrifying word to a Taurus Moon.

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posted August 18, 2014 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by the89freespirit:
Hmmm, I think the OP was trying to say that Taurus Moon people are more focused on pleasing themselves and taking care of themselves first than others (which is what another poster said, more or less). I think this is true, as Venus is all about pleasure, after all.

I think Moon in Taurus is usually very generous and not at all stingy with their resources or time. I have one friend with this position and the very few times that I've borrowed money from her, she's always insisted on not being paid back, which is pretty rare. She was just happy to give and to help. But, with Taurus being so practical, I think they're, at the end of the day, very aware that they need enough money in the bank to be that generous. They always make sure they're taken care of first. Where as Water Moons are more likely, on the other hand, to do things for people that will leave them penniless. And that's a horrifying word to a Taurus Moon.

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100% agree with this. They are very concerned about their financial state and may come across as "stingy" to some but it is more like they are just careful with their money. Security is their #1 priority. I can attest to this as this seems to be my partner's mentality with his Taurus Moon. He is not one to spend his money willy-nilly on a whim (unless he's being spontaneous - hardly ever) but instead looks for value and practicality in the things he buys. He would much rather us buy some nice meat and cheese and go home to eat lunch than go to McDonald's, for example. I think they get a bad rap because they are not overly "generous" but frankly I would rather be with someone who I know is going to pay the bills every month than someone who is secretly running themselves into debt.

I contrast this with my water moon because I will do whatever I can for others - financially and otherwise - but within reason.

posted August 18, 2014 12:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:

He was a Leo Sun with venus conjunct mars in Virgo in the 11th house. He had Uranus in Scorpio in the first house. Pluto in Libra in the 12th. Venus square neptune.

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Hmm well some Leos are very image-conscious meaning outward appearances (their own included) are very important to them, and Virgos are known for their sometimes critical /nit-picky nature so this might have something to do with it.

posted August 18, 2014 01:29 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Yes, I know moon is exalted in Taurus, but I've noticed that folks with this moon placement can come off a bit childish/selfish when it comes to their emotions. Like theirs are the ones that matter above anyone else's.

Anyone have this experience?
And before anybody gets offended, I'm throwing myself under the bus with this one, too. 10h taurus moon.

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posted August 18, 2014 01:49 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
I just don't see how what you are describing could be connected to moon in taurus. The truth is most people don't care about those outside of their emotional sphere. People are often even openly hostile to those outside their "circle", it's just a fact of life. Just look at the way I have been treated on this forum at times.

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posted August 18, 2014 04:50 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
I think you are taking this personally and are unable to see the truth behind it because it offends anyone to be called childish or selfish... As for how you've ben treated on this forum, I've witnessed it.. But I also think part of people's reaction toward you has a lot more to do with your stubbornness to hold on to what you perceive as fact/hard truth rather than being open to other interpretations of said truth. Blind stubbornness will alienate anyone. Im not trying to attack you in any way, please understand that...

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