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Topic: Signs that can't admit they're wrong...?
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appleberry Moderator Posts: 2833 From: Venusian Registered: Jun 2011
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posted August 21, 2014 04:16 PM
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Selenite Knowflake Posts: 978 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2014 04:19 PM
The scorpio moons that I know. One is a Virgo, one a Cap, and 3 are Libras. They just argue their side and will not let it go, even if they are obviously wrong and it creates so much tense energy that the other side just drops it and the scorpio moon goes on believing they were right. Lol. I love them though. I'm meant to be surrounded by them for a reason! IP: Logged |
yellowelevator Knowflake Posts: 437 From: Michigan/Neptune Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 21, 2014 05:23 PM
Hmmmm. A few people in my family are like that. And I can think of one person whom isn't really a friend anymore that seemed to have trouble admitting when he did something wrong, and usually made me feel like it was my fault in the end. He's a Virgo Sun with a Leo ASC and Venus and heavily Libran (Moon, Mercury, Mars, Jupiter).My mom can be like that, too. She's a Virgo Moon with an Aqua Sun, Mercury, and Venus and a Taurus Mars. Maybe it's all the fixed energy there. She isn't nearly as bad as some people I know/known though. Probably because we are so close that I tolerate it haha. My brother can be pretty stubborn at times and he has some Taurus placements. I will admit to doing this sometimes too, but I usually find I somehow can admit to it in the end in a way, and usually give a good a reason why lol. I don't think I'm incredibly horrible with it. I usually feel a sense of guilt easily about things. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 7490 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 21, 2014 05:40 PM
Actually, Aries can be quite stubborn that way as well. But so is Aquarius and Scorpio. I think Leo is the worse, my guess being that it's so tied up in ego even more than most people. If one is worse than Leo then it's Cancer, but this is usually only in regards to something that puts their family, nation, religion or whatever they feel strongly about in a bad light. I'm most cautious about getting into any sort of argument or debate with Leo or Cancer. Taurus has a rep for being especially stubborn but it may not be as apparent as they usually don't need to share their thoughts with the world. Even when they do they usually just state their thoughts and then shrug off any contrary statements rather than rebutting them. But all in all, nobody likes to admit they're wrong, even when they realize it. It would be more telling to look for a sign that could easily do that (Libra has the best rep for that, at least if you can make your case rationally rather than emotionally, but even that's overstated, IMO, it's more accurate to say Libra TRIES--and I've seen a few Libras who don't even try), and in my observation those who change their minds easily are always changing their minds (and frequently changing back to what they thought before). IP: Logged |
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posted August 21, 2014 06:24 PM
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Leorpio Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Cypress Registered: Mar 2014
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posted August 21, 2014 06:24 PM
Idk Aries are quiiiiiite stubborn lol. But then again so are Leos...and so are Scorpios....and Taurus.....and Aquarius.....and Capricorn.....and Cancer.....That's what comes to mind when I think stubborn.IP: Logged |
sword lily Knowflake Posts: 34 From: майна си райна ;] Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 21, 2014 06:31 PM
There's a certain kind of people who will view you as a weak spineless pushover for facing your faults, and not as a grown up, confident individual. And because of that they'll treat you like dirt. If I don't admit to being wrong, I'm probably dealing with the af0rementioned kind of person. But if I know I'm arguing with someone intelligent and mature, I will own up to my mistakes. I'm an Aries.Taurus is notorious for this, though. Pisces (!) can be stubborn too, I've noticed, but their motives at least make sense.
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sugarnfeist Knowflake Posts: 78 From: USA Registered: Jul 2013
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posted August 21, 2014 07:51 PM
Leo, Virgo, Cancer, Taurus, and Scorpio
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KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 6446 From: LURKING Registered: May 2011
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posted August 21, 2014 08:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by Selenite: The scorpio moons that I know. One is a Virgo, one a Cap, and 3 are Libras. They just argue their side and will not let it go, even if they are obviously wrong and it creates so much tense energy that the other side just drops it and the scorpio moon goes on believing they were right. Lol. I love them though. I'm meant to be surrounded by them for a reason!
lmao my Scorpio Moon dad the same IP: Logged |
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posted August 21, 2014 08:21 PM
All the fixed signs.------------------ Mia x IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 6680 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted August 21, 2014 08:46 PM
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 7490 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted August 21, 2014 09:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: Libra
Interesting. All the astrology lore talks about how Libra has the hardest time making up their minds and Libra generally has an undeserved reputation for waffling and being spineless (as they seem unable to stick firm to a position simply because they try to consider other sides, at least most of the time), so I'm curious what makes you think they're especially stubborn. Did you know one Libra who didn't fit the stereotype and assume all Libras were the same? Or do you just find they're not as affected by histrionics as many other signs and therefore more "stubborn" (that is can't be manipulated as easily in that way) than all the other signs? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 2697 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 22, 2014 08:11 AM
I think that conceding that you are "wrong" is more a Mercury placement thing.Virgo is reason and logic.Gemini is about making connection and seeing similarities. Merc in Aries/Mercury aspect Mars/Mercury in 1st- Argumentative and wants to "win". Doesn't easily "concede". Merc in Taurus/2nd- Tends to hold on to set beliefs and rejects complex arguments.They won't admit they are "wrong" but will reconsider if the opposing argument is practical and reasonable. Merc in Gemini/Merc in 3rd- Loves debating but for fun.They don't care who is "right" because they move on to the next point regardless. Merc in Cancer/Mercury aspect Moon/Mercury in 4th- Personalizes debates and can be defensive. Here there is no reasoning,only emotional perspective. These people need a gentle "humanistic" persuasion than facts and figures. Merc in Leo/Mercury aspect Sun/Mercury in 5th- Likes to hear the sound of their own voice. Don't criticize them in public and they'll admit they are wrong in private. Merc in Virgo/Mercury in 6th- They admit they are wrong due to some small detail that they may have overlooked. Don't like to be "wrong" though. And become self-conscious admitting it. Merc in Libra/Mercury in 7th- Always backtrack and flip flop.They see both sides of the coin and can find it difficult "wholly" agreeing to one end. They are not "wrong",they just always want to consider the other point of view(no matter how "ludicrous") LOL Merc in Scorpio/Mercury in 8th/Mercury aspect Pluto- Has ABSOLUTE opinions and may not easily share them. Doesn't get into debates and won't say that they are "wrong". They are just waiting for the other shoe to drop and for them to be "right" Merc in Sagittarius/Mercury conjunct Jupiter/Mercury in 9th- Mr. "Know it all" doesn't like admitting they are wrong at all. Doesn't believe that they can ever be "wrong". Thinks they are the only ones who see things objectively. Mercury in Capricorn/Mercury conjunct Saturn/Mercury in 10th- Are weary of offering their opinion unless they are ABSOLUTELY sure. These people can admit that they are wrong but become severely annoyed at themselves for not checking the facts before voicing their opinion when they are. They don't like to have their reputation as "experts" doubted. Mercury in Aquarius/Mercury in 11th/Mercury aspect Uranus- Has such a unique perspective(sometimes zany) that they may believe the opposing argument too "closed minded". So they may say "Okay, I am wrong in as far as "mainstream" knowledge is concerned. But in the bigger scheme of things, you will see just how right I am." Mercury in Pisces/Mercury aspect Neptune/ Mercury in 12th- D Doubt themselves a lot.Here it isn't a question of admitting when they are wrong. They always believe they may be anyways and admit that freely by saying "maybe it's just me" or "I could be wrong of course". Here the real crux for these people is knowing when they are right. This they may "know" intuitively, but not be able to convince other people through verbal combat. They make terrible debaters because they seem to just "lose" the plot. The irony is of-course that it could be these very people who are more likely to be closer to seeing the "truth". They see the many similarities of opposing arguments to know that nobody is "right" absolutely. "So why argue?" they say to themselves. And which Mercury do you think I am...yep Mr "Know it all" Mercury in 9th
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2703 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 22, 2014 03:56 PM
The fixed signs. Could both be moon and sun, but the point is: Dominate fixed signs in the chart. IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1679 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted August 22, 2014 06:00 PM
Capricorn (too stubborn & arrogant, never screws up in his mind)Virgo (she's always right - can't possibly be wrong) Taurus (even when he knows he is wrong, too stubborn to admit it) ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 3614 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 23, 2014 02:19 AM
People accuse me of that too. I'm an Aries sun. And its like "just cause cause you've never seen me admit I'm wrong doesn't mean I don't." hahaI have a friend that won't. I think she finds it a sign of weakness. She does know though. She is not one to apologize she is one to be like non verbally lets move on and not bring it up again She is an Aries rising and Taurus sun. Sounds about right! IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 60 From: USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted January 15, 2016 09:22 PM
Fixed signs have a very hard time admitting they're wrong.IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4701 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 15, 2016 09:24 PM
I totally agree diamondbaby. ------------------ Don't look back, you're not going that way. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 5160 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 15, 2016 10:15 PM
I actually find that the more highly evolved Leos (particularly with Virgo placements) are far more willing to admit when they're wrong, especially compared to other fixed signs. Not always, but as I said, the ones with Virgo (critical, even of themselves) placements, or who are more highly evolved. Add some Cancer placements in there, and nope. I rarely see Cancer placements willing to concede that they're in the wrong. I agree with Scorpio Moons, also. I was just venting about a relative of mine who has a Scorpio Moon, and I swear that woman will twist words, argue semantics, and come up with the most ridiculous, absurd justifications for her behavior, all the while trying to turn it around on the person she's arguing with. It's actually worse than arguing with a child. Aquarius can be at least reluctant to admit when they're wrong, unless you can prove it to them. And then they tend to get a chip on their shoulder, but it's not too bad. Just mildly annoying. I can see how Pisces might not acknowledge that they're wrong if they don't believe that they are...but if a light bulb turns on in our brains, we (at least speaking for myself) will immediately acknowledge our behavior/actions, and seek to make things right. Mutable signs in general don't seem to have as much trouble. Fixed placements seem to have a great deal of trouble (Leo Mars, as example). These are just my experiences, though. I'm in a ranting sort of mood, so please don't take my personal experiences as an attempt to pigeonhole everyone with these placements.
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Orange Knowflake Posts: 3759 From: Georgia Registered: May 2009
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posted January 15, 2016 10:27 PM
Virgo SunsI havent lived to hear a Virgo Sun admitting for being wrong. It's against all logic. Please. We cant never. IP: Logged |
Violets Knowflake Posts: 5160 From: Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 15, 2016 10:34 PM
quote: Originally posted by Orange: Virgo SunsI havent lived to hear a Virgo Sun admitting for being wrong. It's against all logic. Please. We cant never.
I was pondering that as I was posting my last response, lol. As much as I do love Virgo Suns, I believe you could be correct there. Thinking about all the ones I know (which are quite a few), I don't know if I've ever heard one acknowledge being wrong! If they do acknowledge any faults that they have, they try to paint it as a basic human flaw (like everyone has that same flaw that they're admitting to). When my relatives do this, I'm sometimes like "Nope." They seem critical of themselves alright, but maybe not entirely willing to admit when they're legitimately in the wrong? Unless we're talking paperwork. Then they will rake themselves over the coals if they've made an error. But that's just me sort of thinking out loud, here. I could be entirely off. (And I don't want to offend my Virgo comrades.) IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 462 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted January 16, 2016 01:10 AM
What's this wrongness you speak of? To be fair, I think most Virgo Suns are perfectly capable of admitting when they're wrong. The thing is, they won't. I think that they think it ruins their credibility. Like, no one will think they're trustworthy or reliable or correct the other 99.999999% of the time. We have a hard time dealing with our faults, even though we know everyone has them. IP: Logged |
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 486 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015
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posted January 16, 2016 06:23 AM
Capricorn (I am one. I hate admitting when I'm wrong too. Mostly because too hard on myself).Scorpio placements (Sun signs seem to be fine admitting this) Taurus IP: Logged |
AmelieRose81 Knowflake Posts: 365 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted January 16, 2016 07:28 AM
Pisces. I've noticed they lie their way out of things rather than admit anything even when caught red handed. IP: Logged |
Adimi Knowflake Posts: 1003 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted January 16, 2016 07:30 AM
Taurus... Oh gosh Taurus... My karma. My experience has been though that once you give them some time out without touching the subject, they will think on it and come to terms with the fact that they did you wrong. But initially, they will deny it with all their strength (stubborness)... They just refuse to accept that they were on the wrong side for some reason. It can get very frustrating for me since I have a Mars/Saturn conjunction in Aquarius that squares my Scorpio Pluto... This obviously creates a T-square with Taurus placements. I don't seem to have this problem with Leos, though.Also, I didn't use to think Taurus could be like this, but there is a tendency do try to flip things on their side and make themselves the victim... As if YOU did they wrong or are you are the one acting badly for accusing them of things they didn't do (which they did). They do a bit of manipulating to their side too, but more in an innocent kind of way... Not in a malicious Scorpio way. But don't get me wrong... I love Taurus. They are some of the most significant people in my life. My Draconic Chart is full of Taurus too lol. But I've come to the realization that the people I love the most are also the ones that irritate me the most. eheh IP: Logged |