posted August 26, 2014 05:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
You can absolutely place paranoia in neon lights for Scorpio/Plutonian persons, yes! But "fear" is a stretch IMO. Would love to hear others' experiences/opinions. I own the paranoia honestly!

[b]Before I meet anyone new, I must have as much 411 about them as possible. When ppl plant me into a situation lacking specific details of the environment and the people within it, I seethe immediately. My BF for exp. His ex made it her business to remain in the loop with his extended family/friends. When I met one particular female friend of his for the first time, she was smiling and pleasant; I could tell she took to me very well. A few days later "obsessively" looking over his social media page, I drew the conclusion that this particular female is VERY close to my BF's ex. I was super ****** off! In MY book "forewarned is forearmed" at ALL times. I wouldn't have been a grinning and unassuming idiot to this female, had I known. The mishandle of control had me angry, but NOT fearful/scared. What quickly happens, is I get into "seize that power via manipulation" mode. Nothing malicious at all. Strategy occurs if I'm that much concerned with it. [/B]

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Yeah, I laugh at my own paranoia sometimes, but if something feels off to me 99% of the time I'm right. No offense, but no one needs to give me any heads up on the situation before I meet a new person. I'd actually prefer that they don't, that way I know my judgement isn't being influenced by preconceived notions. Also, researching someone's social media beforehand so you know about them is cheating. You are using information that is readily available to anyone, not your own intuitive powers.