posted August 31, 2014 03:02 AM            

I think when someone has their Sun, Moon, Venus, or Mars aspecting this degree from pretty much any sign, then it aspects all of those planets. So they can become obsessive and delusional, and think that the feelings are mutual. My Mars is also conjunct Neptune by 3 degrees, and my Venus is Quintile both of these planets. My Scorpio Sun is on my Venus/Mars midpoint. Venus, Saturn and Jupiter are in the 8th house too, all within 5 degrees.

It's not just people my age though, because all of my 8th house planets fall in Libra, which anyone born in the 70's and 80's has either Uranus or Pluto in Libra or Scorpio. So they are likely to have outer planets touching my Libra stellium or one of my 3 Scorpio planets. Most of the guys have been close to my age though.

My ex used to always accuse me of being too friendly(HA!) and giving guys the wrong idea, and that is not the case at all. I can be very charming, but I will turn as cold as ice if someone is taking that the wrong way. I wouldn't go out of my way to viciously tear people apart, but I have no problem telling people I'm not interested in them. I've told guys I'll poke their eyes out when they look at me in a lustful way. I find it super creepy! I think maybe being SO matter of fact with people made some guys think I was playing hard to get. I have had guys that were just completely convinced that we were meant to be, and I didn't even like them as a friend. I think it's definitely outer planets to personal planets causing that.

posted August 31, 2014 04:09 AM            

Her birthday was one day after mine, but she was a year older. We had a lot in common...same first name, hair and eye color, height, size in clothing and shoes. We shared wardrobes, so we both loved it. Both of our Moms were Leos with the same name too. Strange that my 2 astro twins born the same day/year also had Moms with the same name.....Linda! (Cue Twilight Zone theme)

I don't know her birthtime, but even with a noon chart she definitely has a Gemini Moon opposite Neptune, and trine Pluto. Noon chart makes it near exact, so it can't be off by more than a 6 degree orb in either direction. Her Mars in Leo aspects these same points too. Mars sextile Pluto by 3 degrees(like my Sagittarius Mars), and trine Neptune by just under 5 degrees.

Her Sagittarius Venus doesn't aspect these points, but it's 1 degree from my MC! Ha, with our exact conjunct Suns too, no wonder I felt overshadowed by her. Astrology never ceases to amaze me!

posted August 31, 2014 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
My ex used to always accuse me of being too friendly(HA!) and giving guys the wrong idea, and that is not the case at all. I can be very charming, but I will turn as cold as ice if someone is taking that the wrong way. I wouldn't go out of my way to viciously tear people apart, but I have no problem telling people I'm not interested in them. I've told guys I'll poke their eyes out when they look at me in a lustful way.

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OMG we have the same problem! This guy I'm seeing right now has accused me of being "too flirty" even when I don't see it that way. It really frustrates me though because even if I don't see it that way, he somehow has a point. I do give guys the wrong idea and most of the time, I don't even know I'm doing it. Dudes just misread my signals all the time.