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Topic: Aspects/Placements in a woman's chart that makes men drawn to her personality
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Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
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posted August 27, 2014 09:03 PM
  
What aspects or placements could cause such a thing?------------------
Gemini Rising
Sun in Leo (2nd house)
Moon in Cancer (1st house)
Mercury in Virgo (3rd house conj.)
Venus in Virgo (3rd house)
Mars in Libra (5th house) "You were born a lion. Don't die
a sheep." ~ Leos ♌️ IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: The Moon
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posted August 28, 2014 02:07 AM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
What aspects or placements could cause such a thing?
The usual mars/venus thing. But really, this aspect makes a woman desirable for most men. And if men has it, its the other way around^^ IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted August 28, 2014 02:10 AM
I have Venus sextile Mars, but I think what really does it is Pluto in the 5th with the 5th being ruled by Libra. Like moi.  IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted August 28, 2014 02:25 AM
Woman's Venus- Man's Neptune tight aspects. I have noticed this in classrooms. A single girl adored by many guys.
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Aries Eagle
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posted August 28, 2014 06:29 AM
I would say fire suns and moons.IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted August 28, 2014 06:35 AM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
Woman's Venus- Man's Neptune tight aspects. I have noticed this in classrooms. A single girl adored by many guys.
Although I haven't noticed this with me personally (I have Neptune in Capricorn, so that would be Venus in Capricorn, but I'm personally not attracted to Venus in Capricorn. But you did say "tight aspects", so we're aren't only talking about conjunctions, nor it necessarily being in the same sign because it can be conjunct Neptune in either Aquarius or Sagittarius - depending on the degree of your Capricorn Neptune), but it makes sense astrologically, as Neptune is our dreamy idealism, and Venus is the expression of our aesthetics, tastes, charm, flirting style and feminine side. Venus is kinda like the more expressive and sensual version of Neptune, while Neptune is Venus's more ideal and ethereal version. This is why Venus's higher octave is Neptune - because it takes those qualities and shapes them into an extreme version of themselves. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted August 28, 2014 06:43 AM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
Woman's Venus- Man's Neptune tight aspects. I have noticed this in classrooms. A single girl adored by many guys.
But neptune is generational... IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted August 28, 2014 06:47 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
But neptune is generational...
This still doesn't take away the affects of Neptune and what it represents in a chart. People tend to think that just because the planet is generational, it has less of an affect. No, they all have the same amount of affect. IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted August 28, 2014 06:53 AM
That's weird.. I don't have Venus/Mars aspects but dudes that I'm friends with usually fall for me after a few hangouts. It's crazy and scary. It happens all the time. I'm a fire sign, though.IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted August 28, 2014 08:47 AM
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Originally posted by Mercurian Intellect:
This still doesn't take away the affects of Neptune and what it represents in a chart.People tend to think that just because the planet is generational, it has less of an affect. No, they all have the same amount of affect.
I have venus-mars conjunct uranus and neptune
I have it conjunct most ppl in my generation. I do consider myself as attractive but I definitely attract certain types. I don't think everyone would adore me. That's a stretch IP: Logged |
Mercurian Intellect
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posted August 28, 2014 08:54 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
I have venus-mars conjunct uranus and neptune
I have it conjunct most ppl in my generation.I do consider myself as attractive but I definitely attract certain types. I don't think everyone would adore me. That's a stretch
You're right, I don't think it will either. It doesn't always play out the same way in everyone. Astrology is just one of the factors in the person's psyche/personality. Not only that, but there are also other things in a chart which can override or even alter (to some extent) a certain placement. All I'm saying is, just because a planet is generational, doesn't mean it's weaker or less significant. It has all the same significance. IP: Logged |
geminigal2805
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posted August 28, 2014 09:48 AM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
But neptune is generational...
I dont mean just this aspect alone. U know just combine this with some other aspects... i know i was adored by my classmates(most of them). My classmates neptune aspects my venus. And their pluto opposes my venus. Also their NN sits nicely on my Asc &NN.
I guess neptune must be at some important house or maybe it is the sign placement of neptune for that entire class. Also our generational pluto makes us a bit on the obsessive type when it comes to relationships.
Ps:I know quoting myself as an example is very pompous of me. I tried to avoid it, err anyways i could be wrong with my insight.
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arcturiann
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posted August 29, 2014 04:20 AM
gemini placements? gemini being about the intellect and looking for/attracting conversational partners rather than attracting through sensuality or appearanceIP: Logged |
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From: The Moon
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posted August 29, 2014 04:05 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
but I think what really does it is Pluto in the 5th with the 5th being ruled by Libra. Like moi.
I have this too And I can be a really charming girl (when I'm single) (and I almost never am) IP: Logged |
yellowelevator
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From: Michigan, Neptune, and sometimes Pluto
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted August 29, 2014 04:12 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I have this too And I can be a really charming girl (when I'm single) (and I almost never am)
Oh my, I have this three! Hahah. I also have Venus square Mars, and I find that this happens to me easily too with men. It's always hard to differentiate whether it's a physical attraction or personality, or both, though. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted August 29, 2014 05:42 PM
To find people that will more likely fall for you, search for the age groups with Pluto and/or Neptune tightly aspecting your Venus, generationally the ones with outer planets making steamy aspects to your personal planets.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted August 29, 2014 06:25 PM
I have Venus conjunct Neptune and got asked out a lot more than I think my looks warranted when I was single. Mostly by men whose Neptune was conjunct my Venus (more or less.) I am not a fan of that synastry. Sure it's fun to attract people, but according to what the readings say, and in my experience, Venus usually gets rejected in the end-- not worth the hassle. IP: Logged |
Comatoes
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posted August 29, 2014 06:28 PM
Could it just be related to being male? I find many males not all tend to fall for outer image and body language quickly. Men tend to be more honed into body language than women, that is why I think men have a tendency to stare more than women when it comes to something that interest them. They have a need to access if something will be "productive" for them, they would like to minimize rejection as much as possible, so they usually have the girl they like already "cataloged". Men are much more perceptive than they let on...they just look for different things.If you have an attractive aura, men will be interested, enough said. No astrology needed in this case, but synastry can't be ruled out. IP: Logged |
Nicole401
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From: CA, USA
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posted August 29, 2014 07:14 PM
By personality, I am assuming you mean actual personality which cannot be "known" without spending time together etc.My best guess would be the ASC? Certain aspects to the ASC? Say Venus/ASC or Neptune/ASC, preferably conjunct. I think the ASC mostly represents the way we act, not necessarily the way we look. I once read the MC can actually be attributed to the way we actually look (think of celebrities and the way they represent the way they look). The ASC is the actual meeting of a person. How they speak, what they say, how they carry themselves. A Venus/Neptune/(Jupiter maybe?) I would assume would say fairly nice things and compliment others (maybe not the Neptune) thus being credited as having a 'nice' personality - which may not necessarily be true as a whole (inner Saturn/Pluto aspects in the chart) I disagree with Mars/Venus aspects as that would generally suggest more of a sexual attraction rather than an emotional one based on personality. Also, I agree with Mercurian Intellect, mainly Neptune - like catfish - people falling in love online (with their personalities). IP: Logged |
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From: The Moon
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posted August 29, 2014 07:18 PM
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Originally posted by yellowelevator:
Oh my, I have this three! Hahah. I also have Venus square Mars, and I find that this happens to me easily too with men. It's always hard to differentiate whether it's a physical attraction or personality, or both, though.
True that. Venus-Jupiter is also a hint. I have the trine and I've had many many short flings, and some semi-long relationships… (but I'm only 24) But I don't think I have ever been 100% single lol
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Supreme cT
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posted August 29, 2014 08:39 PM
I think venus/jupiter aspects, my ex has venus in scorpio exactly conjunct jupiter in scorpio people LOVE her lmao its crazy she has over 3k followers on instagram and people are just always attracted to her i notice a decent amount of sex symbol celebrities have venus conjunct jupiter, my one good friend has venus conjunct jupiter and she has a huge personality and knows so much about everything so i can see that being very attractive IP: Logged |
BellaFenice
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From: Pseudo-Leo with a 1st House Stellium
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posted August 29, 2014 10:46 PM
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Originally posted by geminigal2805:
I dont mean just this aspect alone. U know just combine this with some other aspects... i know i was adored by my classmates(most of them). My classmates neptune aspects my venus. And their pluto opposes my venus. Also their NN sits nicely on my Asc &NN.
I guess neptune must be at some important house or maybe it is the sign placement of neptune for that entire class. Also our generational pluto makes us a bit on the obsessive type when it comes to relationships.
Ps:I know quoting myself as an example is very pompous of me. I tried to avoid it, err anyways i could be wrong with my insight.
LOL, as a Venus in 1st person, I  this message  I get what you are saying: I teach and my students are always engaged and interested in what I have to say. It is very hard to me to lose their attentionm which isn't a bad thing. I think mine is related to my 1st house stellium. Also: Venus-Jupiter, Venus-Mars, Venus-Neptune, Venus-Uranus in chart IP: Logged |
Comatoes
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posted August 29, 2014 10:56 PM
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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
That's weird.. I don't have Venus/Mars aspects but dudes that I'm friends with usually fall for me after a few hangouts. It's crazy and scary. It happens all the time. I'm a fire sign, though.
What is your ascendant and Venus aspects? I noticed you have Moon in Cancer in 1st, this can make you very magnetic, the Moon gives mass appeal, and with such a strong Moon I would think that this is the first thing that men can feel about you...the Moon can be very addictive and create strong feelings out of the blue.
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tgem
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posted August 30, 2014 08:30 AM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
I have this too And I can be a really charming girl (when I'm single) (and I almost never am)
Yep.. I got this too. Would have to agree. I also have natal venus sextile mars and venus opposite neptune IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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posted August 30, 2014 10:16 AM
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Originally posted by Comatoes:
What is your ascendant and Venus aspects? I noticed you have Moon in Cancer in 1st, this can make you very magnetic, the Moon gives mass appeal, and with such a strong Moon I would think that this is the first thing that men can feel about you...the Moon can be very addictive and create strong feelings out of the blue.
I am a Gemini rising with Venus in Virgo. My Venus is conjunct my Mercury and both are sextile my Moon. They're in the 3rd house. Also, Pluto in the 6th (Sagittarius) is square both my Mercury and Venus. Guys don't usually fall for me instantly, although there have been instances when it happened. Most of my guy friends, when they ask me to hang out alone, they just instantly fall for me. It's really scary. And I feel bad because most of the time, I just reject them. I haven't really been in a real relationship, but I've had like a ton of guys after me. quote:
Originally posted by arcturiann:
gemini placements? gemini being about the intellect and looking for/attracting conversational partners rather than attracting through sensuality or appearance
Yes, I am a Gemini rising with a domicile Mercury by sign and house placement. quote:
Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I have Venus sextile Mars, but I think what really does it is Pluto in the 5th with the 5th being ruled by Libra. Like moi.
My Venus and Mars don't aspect each other, but my 5th house is in Libra. I have Mars in that house.
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