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Topic: Pisces men. Can you fully trust them ever?
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bansheequeen
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posted October 01, 2014 03:08 AM
 
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next to neptune
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posted October 01, 2014 03:28 AM
I don't think you should worry at all! It's only the sun sign your building this on, and there could be so many other factors you know!  IP: Logged |
arcturiann
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posted October 01, 2014 03:32 AM
What if it was the other way around and his wife was the one who was not loyal? His actions seem like they could be a reaction to being hurt, many people who have been cheated on will retaliate by trying to make the other person jealous, getting angry and badmouthing them, etc.
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posted October 01, 2014 03:34 AM
There are both good and bad sides to any sign, and people are more than their sun sign especially. Try not to second guess your man just because your coworker has the same sun sign! That's not fair.I am also with a Pisces man and he's great; all I could ask for. Not only Pisces Sun but also Mercury and Venus all conjunct. I don't worry about his trustworthiness at all. His chart overall does not suggest an untrustworthy person. IP: Logged |
bopbop
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posted October 01, 2014 03:35 AM
You don't know the coworker's situation very well, either. It could have been his wife that asked for the divorce.
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HappyLoewe
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posted October 01, 2014 04:10 AM
Yes, of course. Being a Pisces sun does not make a person untrustworthy. All suns can be untrustworthy. You don't know the entire story regarding the man and his wife and I doubt the divorce is triggered by him being a Pisces sun and her being a Scorpio sun. If your bf is good to you, devoted and you're in love, enjoy it for what it is and don't worry about this guy at work too much as he can do that for himself. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted October 01, 2014 05:42 AM
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Can you really fully trust these men in a relationship
It's definitely difficult to trust Pisces men to be faithful... Transpersonal signs are considerably less interested in romantic relationships. They can be devoted to their aspirations (Sagittarius), their goals (Capricorn), their ideas (Aquarius), their spiritual connection with the 'whole' (Pisces).
But they are seldom as completely devoted to another person - as a social or personal sign could be.
Pisces is the most likely sign to see love as universal.. something to be shared with everyone. They also have no boundaries and they can end up being promiscuous for this reason.
It's important to take into account his whole chart though.. The Sun isn't everything. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted October 01, 2014 06:57 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
It's definitely difficult to trust Pisces men to be faithful... Transpersonal signs are considerably less interested in romantic relationships. They can be devoted to their aspirations (Sagittarius), their goals (Capricorn), their ideas (Aquarius), their spiritual connection with the 'whole' (Pisces).
But they are seldom as completely devoted to another person - as a social or personal sign could be.
Pisces is the most likely sign to see love as universal.. something to be shared with everyone. They also have no boundaries and they can end up being promiscuous for this reason.
It's important to take into account his whole chart though.. The Sun isn't everything.
I hear the whole whole "not devoted to romantic relationships" stuff. It resonates with me somewhat.I am a Sagittarius Sun. But is it possible that water placements would "change" the game a bit? I know of an Aquarius Sun person with Venus in Pisces. Man, he is a DREAMER  All I know about Pisces energy is that it seldom rational; often permitting one to live in a world of make believe and fantasy. This is especially when their Moon/Mars/Venus is also in Pisces. Perhaps his heart was broken-as earlier mentioned- by the Scorpio? Water-Water relationships can be like the sea;calm one minute and then the storms happen! These can be devastating. I'd have to look at the Moon and Mars positions too.This superficial nature that is suggested is uncharacteristic-especially for the Pisces. Usually when a relationship is going through a hard time,they(Pisces)are the last to let go- believing that martyrdom is necessary to salvage the damage that is there. IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne
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posted October 01, 2014 08:28 AM
I have Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars all in Pisces but I am definitely trustworthy but I can understand why we're thought of as not trustworthy to those who view loyalty in a "clannish" sort of way. I'm generally kind and open to a certain degree, but there is a part of me that's only reserved for people whom I truly, truly trust and that is a small group of people. For a Pisces, if you want to win our trust and loyalty just so that you can rest easy, you have to connect with us on a mental level. That is always key for me other than that, you have nothing at all.IP: Logged |
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posted October 01, 2014 08:34 AM
agree w/the post that said you need to look beyond the sun sign and not just base your concern on "he is a pisces." that being said, my own experience w/them has been poor - i have, in fact, found the men to be liars quite often. but, all signs lie :-) pisces do it quite differently, more covert i suppose and not as blatantly as perhaps other signs. but everyone is capable of affairs and lies, not just one sign.IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted October 01, 2014 08:45 AM
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Faith
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posted October 01, 2014 09:15 AM
^ Yeah I know this thread is about men, but for what it's worth, my Pisces best friend was so in love with her ex that, not only would she never have cheated on him, but she couldn't even date anyone else for a few years after they broke up. It made her physically ill to think of being with anyone besides her ex.  IP: Logged |
Vajra
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posted October 01, 2014 09:29 AM
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Faith
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posted October 01, 2014 02:51 PM
^^  Wow! Yes, I'm really happy she's finally moving on. IP: Logged |
ifaf
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posted October 01, 2014 08:50 PM
I think you should just tell him -calmly- about your concerns. Just ask him how he feels about that kind of behavior.
I've never met a pisces who was good at lying. He'll either reassure you and tell you right away that there's nothing to worry about -or act however he normally does when he's sincere- or he'll try to avoid the question / look like a 5 year old who got caught stealing a cookie.
That's only based on my personal experience obviously.
I could never get mad at a lying pisces, and lying is usually the biggest deal-breaker for me. They were genuinely only lying to save me some pain. Quite innocent really.And don't obsess over it! Talk about it right away or you might make yourself sick over the future while you could be enjoying the present
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bopbop
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posted October 02, 2014 01:49 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
^ Yeah I know this thread is about men, but for what it's worth, my Pisces best friend was so in love with her ex that, not only would she never have cheated on him, but she couldn't even date anyone else for a few years after they broke up. It made her physically ill to think of being with anyone besides her ex.
Yes, this is my experience of strong Pisces: Loyalty to the point of martyring themselves. The OP's description of her coworker actually makes me think more of a Libra influence. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 03, 2014 01:24 PM
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bansheequeen
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posted October 03, 2014 01:25 PM
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mareaire
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posted October 03, 2014 02:24 PM
one of the most trustworthy people i know is a pisces man. 'twill depend on much more than sun sign. IP: Logged |
ifaf
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posted October 03, 2014 02:56 PM
The ones I got involved with admitted they couldn't know if they'd change their mind about "us" someday. They knew their feelings could change and situations could evolve, and one admitted he really couldn't say that he wouldn't just get up and leave one day out of the blue. I know he didn't want to, but knew it could happen. I just had to let go and enjoy what we had while we had it, really.
Of course I'm terrible at that and was even worse with uncertainty back then, lol.
At the same time, I don't trust someone who says "I'll always be there/always love you" either. They can't predict the future so that's an outright lie too.
In that case, pisces was more honest. He was simply more aware of all the possibilities, good or bad, than a guy who claims he's ready to be with you forever lol.IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted October 03, 2014 05:37 PM
I'm a Scorpio. I dated a Pisces man once. He shattered my self-esteem and dated me under false pretenses. I haven't been interested in dating since. One day, he just stopped replying to my texts. He dodged the birthday text I sent him a week after our last date. To this day, I don't understand what I did to deserve such disrespect. He could have just told me it wasn't going to work, I would have understood. No, he used the coward's way out and made me feel lie cr*p. He told me he had never clicked with a girl so well and a week later he basically told me I'm "dumb" and couldn't hold a conversation with me. Our last date was the worst. He's a terrible liar as he's quite transparent. These people don't know what they want. He didn't want me, and as a Scorpio woman, rejection hurts deeply. I had never met a man who made me feel so inadequate and rejected in my entire life. I had serious self-esteem issues before meeting him and he just emphasized them when he rejected me the way he did. I guess I just wasn't good enough but that's how life is. I had been eyeing this man for a year before we started dating only to get my self-esteem shattered. I'm not quite sure if they're totally trustworthy as they feel the need to lie for no reason but some of them are very loyal. My dad is a Pisces and he's the most loyal and fair person I know. I'm not interested in dating anymore because of him. I will never ever let another person have such power over me (the power to shatter my ego into pieces and instill serious confidence issues in me). IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 03, 2014 06:25 PM
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Odette
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posted October 03, 2014 06:28 PM
MineAgain - quote:
He told me he had never clicked with a girl so well and a week later he basically told me I'm "dumb" and couldn't hold a conversation with me.
It doesn't mean "you weren't good enough". Pisceans can live in their own heads. God only knows what issues he has. Try not to take it personally.. because his behaviour is obviously irrational (whether it's because he is jerky, mentally sick or drug afflicted). I'm positive that his behaviour would be habitual. It would have nothing to do with you.
If he comes back again giving you a story and apologising - whatever you do, don't take him back.
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bansheequeen
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posted October 03, 2014 06:31 PM
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posted October 03, 2014 06:36 PM
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He sounds very sociopathic.
^ Yeah... I was going to say he does sound like someone with a personality disorder because of the sudden shift from saying you're so compatible - to saying he never liked you at all. It's possible that he is mentally ill. Out of curiosity what is his Moon sign? IP: Logged |
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