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wheresthemoon Knowflake Posts: 125 From: Texas Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 05, 2014 12:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: How do you do that?! How do you heal that way if you don't face the emotions?? That reminds me of my Sag sun friend, and more than anything I just want to be a shoulder he can lean on but seeing as how he has a Capricorn moon I don't know how to make that happen aside from letting him know.
I think sagittarius moon is pretty resilient. We do face those emotions in our own way...usually by feeling really crappy for a certain period of time and doing what we can to avoid those emotions until we heal. Maybe it seems avoidant to other moon signs, but it's how we deal. If we can avoid the pain until it becomes dull and eventually subsides, we're good=) That's a simplistic way to explain it, but basically we just need to feel happy and we'll do what we can to feel happy even on a superficial level until it becomes real. It's best not to force a sagittarius sun or moon to deal with negative feelings when confronting them would be detrimental to their immediate happiness. Of course it depends on the person, but usually they will deal with those feelings in their own way. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8441 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 05, 2014 01:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by wheresthemoon: I think sagittarius moon is pretty resilient. We do face those emotions in our own way...usually by feeling really crappy for a certain period of time and doing what we can to avoid those emotions until we heal. Maybe it seems avoidant to other moon signs, but it's how we deal. If we can avoid the pain until it becomes dull and eventually subsides, we're good=) That's a simplistic way to explain it, but basically we just need to feel happy and we'll do what we can to feel happy even on a superficial level until it becomes real. It's best not to force a sagittarius sun or moon to deal with negative feelings when confronting them would be detrimental to their immediate happiness. Of course it depends on the person, but usually they will deal with those feelings in their own way.
Sigh. Okay then... it's so hard to want to help really bad and know the other person won't accept it! Do Sags take note of that in people? I mean I don't know if that's Sag specific or people specific, really. Then again is astrology actually specific and factual or a theory... IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon Knowflake Posts: 125 From: Texas Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 05, 2014 01:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Sigh. Okay then... it's so hard to want to help really bad and know the other person won't accept it! Do Sags take note of that in people? I mean I don't know if that's Sag specific or people specific, really. Then again is astrology actually specific and factual or a theory...
You mean do we take note of attempts to help? I mean, I do. And I don't resent it. But that's just me. There are lots of aspects involved in each chart that could make someone dislike an attempt to help.
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hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8441 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 05, 2014 04:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by wheresthemoon: You mean do we take note of attempts to help? I mean, I do. And I don't resent it. But that's just me. There are lots of aspects involved in each chart that could make someone dislike an attempt to help.
SUPER WEIRD...he just posted "Those with physical scars hide it with clothing, those with emotional scars hide it with a laugh or a smile." on his blog.... Jesus, it's 1984 all over again. O_O IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1039 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 05, 2014 04:56 PM
quote: Originally posted by wheresthemoon: I think sagittarius moon is pretty resilient. We do face those emotions in our own way...usually by feeling really crappy for a certain period of time and doing what we can to avoid those emotions until we heal. Maybe it seems avoidant to other moon signs, but it's how we deal. If we can avoid the pain until it becomes dull and eventually subsides, we're good=)
I have a Sag moon & I agree 100%. I have been called avoidant and cold, but my thing is that if I can't immediately fix something, there is no need to wallow in sorrow or dwell on the drama. I just keep moving. ------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.” IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8441 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 05, 2014 04:58 PM
But don't you have feelings you have to work through even so? Like as a heavy Taurus moon I just don't get how someone "puts it away" like that.IP: Logged |
Geeky Knowflake Posts: 1039 From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted October 05, 2014 05:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by DeepFreeze: Squares I believe are where we struggle. Energies working against each other or a cause of friction, inner turmoil sometimes
I agree with this. I have many squares and I feel like a complicated creature. If I add the asteroids listed on astro.com, I believe I have a total of 19 squares & 5 t-squares. :/ Take a peek: Here's the list: Sun Square Moon Sun Square Neptune Sun Square Pallas Sun Square Vesta Moon Square Mercury Moon Square Saturn Mercury Square Fortune Venus Square Jupiter Venus Square Juno Venus Square East Point Mars Square Jupiter Mars Square Juno Saturn Square Neptune Saturn Square Pallas Saturn Square Fortune Uranus Square East Point Pluto Square Ceres Pluto Square Juno Pluto Square Vertex T-Square from Mer: 29Leo32'11" to Moo: 8Sag03'21" and For: 0Gem37'57" T-Square from Ven: 2Sco01'03" to Jup: 0Leo46'54" and Jun: 23Cap30'09" T-Square from Mar: 23Lib05'24" to Jup: 0Leo46'54" and Jun: 23Cap30'09" T-Square from Sat: 5Vir36'10" to Moo: 8Sag03'21" and For: 0Gem37'57" T-Square from Sat: 5Vir36'10" to Pal: 10Sag27'54" and For: 0Gem37'57"
------------------ “Most people would rather be sheep than stand on their own with antlers on.”
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DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3043 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 05, 2014 05:47 PM
OuchSun moon and mercury squares. Those hurt. Neptune is no joke either... Quite confusing. I have Sun square jupiter Moon square Mars Moon square mercury Venus square Neptune IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 8441 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 05, 2014 05:59 PM
^^ With Venus square Neptune did you tend to see the good in people who treated you like $hit? Or pick ones that everyone else thought you were too good for, that kind of thing?IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon Knowflake Posts: 125 From: Texas Registered: Aug 2014
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posted October 05, 2014 06:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: SUPER WEIRD...he just posted "Those with physical scars hide it with clothing, those with emotional scars hide it with a laugh or a smile." on his blog.... Jesus, it's 1984 all over again. O_O
Wow, that's trippy! IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3043 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 05, 2014 06:19 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: ^^ With Venus square Neptune did you tend to see the good in people who treated you like $hit? Or pick ones that everyone else thought you were too good for, that kind of thing?
It was more like... Being in love before ever even talking to them. Or living in a relationship that only exists in your mind. It makes a person completely able to bend over backwards for the person. It's completely like some Hollywood movie romance UNTIL reality eventually hits. It can also create an obsession that is what we all think to be Pluto. I wouldn't ever be able to ignore someone treating me like crap. But little annoyances and such are absent for the Neptune/Venus person. Or even if they are married for example (my Venus is in 12 so maybe that's it) I would believe that somehow it would happen. Any of that stuff. But if they were mean or something that wouldn't get overlooked. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze Knowflake Posts: 3043 From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19 Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 05, 2014 06:33 PM
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