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Topic: When will Neptune stop it's transit in my solar seventh house?
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ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 06, 2014 08:11 AM
Hello everybody. Let me start of by saying that I have had the most disappointing and hopless love life anyone can ever have. I'm a 24 year old ok looking normal guy who has liked and tried to date hundreds of girls but for whatever reason the vast majority of them have said "no", and the very small number that have said "yes"...They let me know they were only interested in me as a friend on the first date.The point is women ALWAYS have an excuse not to date me. Do you know what It's like to have fallen for hundreds of girls and each and every one of them has a reason to reject me? I wrote more about this in here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/210332.html And I've heard all kinds of advice, from psychologists, books, friends, fashionists, even spiritist mediums...I have taken all of their advice...and nothing...things continue to be the same... It feels like a curse that will never end.... Anyways to make the long story short, I was reading the Leo forecast of 2014 on Cafe Astrology and something caught my attention... It said "Like in past years, Neptune is on your solar seventh house" wich meant fog in my relationships or potentilal relationships and partners or potential partners could be evasive. I decided to read more information on this transit and I almost cried when I read the descriptions. They described my life with such accuracy. From myself getting crushes on girls that are not right for me to thinking I may have found the "one" only to be later gratly dissappointed by evasion... I said to myself "I found the answer to my problems!" But another thing that caught my attention is that this transit lasts 13 or 14 years...So will I have to wait like more than a decade to finally have a girl like me back or be in a relationship? More importantly my question is... How long has Neptune been in my solar seventh house and when will it leave!? IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 5415 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 06, 2014 08:40 AM
Tell me how you managed to fall for hundreds of girls.IP: Logged |
orocairion Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted October 06, 2014 11:22 AM
Don't wear fedorasAlso, I'm gonna guess it has little to do with Neptune and more to do with girls being able to "smell" some desperation... IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 5415 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 06, 2014 12:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by orocairion:
Also, I'm gonna guess it has little to do with Neptune and more to do with girls being able to "smell" some desperation...
Exactly. IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 06, 2014 08:59 PM
quote: Originally posted by orocairion: Don't wear fedorasAlso, I'm gonna guess it has little to do with Neptune and more to do with girls being able to "smell" some desperation...
Actually no. I am very careful in presenting myself in the least desperate way. Can anyone actually help me answer the question about how long the neptune transit will last? I can't find an answer anywhere.
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lifefullofwords Knowflake Posts: 224 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 06, 2014 09:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by ProudestLeo: Actually no. I am very careful in presenting myself in the least desperate way.Can anyone actually help me answer the question about how long the neptune transit will last? I can't find an answer anywhere.
That question can't be answered without your birth date, place, and time. Also, I think you may be underestimating a woman's ability to tell when a guy is desperate. Oh, and Neptune in the 7th can't be entirely to blame - my mom has that placement natally and she never had a problem getting boyfriends back when she was single. IP: Logged |
orocairion Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted October 06, 2014 10:51 PM
quote: Originally posted by ProudestLeo: Actually no. I am very careful in presenting myself in the least desperate way.Can anyone actually help me answer the question about how long the neptune transit will last? I can't find an answer anywhere.
Like Lifefullofwords said, you might be underestimating women. Even if your actions don't seem desperate to you, they might still reek of desperation for a woman. After all, they can spot so many things us males can't spot even if it hit us right in the face. IP: Logged |
babybull82 Knowflake Posts: 390 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 08, 2014 01:50 AM
Not to say the guy doesn't need to tone it down a bit, but neptune has been transiting my 7th & it hasn't been very pleasant for me either. BUT I've also started using it to my advantage & have been playing the evasive card as well. It seems to work in the sense that I don't get to attached & not as disappointed when the inevitable crumbling of the relationship or situation happens. IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 08, 2014 02:02 AM
Still, no one has been able to answer my real question here...How long has this transit been on me and how long will it last? Any help is appreciated, thanks in advance. IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 08, 2014 02:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by lifefullofwords: That question can't be answered without your birth date, place, and time. Oh, and Neptune in the 7th can't be entirely to blame - my mom has that placement natally and she never had a problem getting boyfriends back when she was single.
I was born in August 22nd, 1990 at 11:52 AM in San Juan, Puerto Rico. IP: Logged |
orocairion Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: May 2013
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posted October 08, 2014 10:59 AM
quote: Originally posted by ProudestLeo: I was born in August 22nd, 1990 at 11:52 AM in San Juan, Puerto Rico.
Well, there are some "bad" news. According to Astro.com, Neptune isn't in your 7th house, but in the 4th. So, it seem you need to look elsewhere for your issues...
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 5415 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted October 08, 2014 11:47 AM
Do you chase the same kind of women all the time ?Did you date the ones who said “yes” ? How good is your game on a scale of 1 to 10 ? Maybe you need to hone your skills. IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 08, 2014 01:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by orocairion: Well, there are some "bad" news. According to Astro.com, Neptune isn't in your 7th house, but in the 4th. So, it seem you need to look elsewhere for your issues...
Really!? Then why does the cafe astrology 2014 forecast for leos born from august 13th to the 23rd say "neptune continues to transit their seventh house"? I dont get it... And what does neptune in the 4th house mean? IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 08, 2014 01:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by anonymidarkness: Do you chase the same kind of women all the time ?Did you date the ones who said “yes” ? How good is your game on a scale of 1 to 10 ? Maybe you need to hone your skills.
I've liked different kinds of women...Nice and not so nice women...Older and younger women, stable and unstable, it's usually not the kind of women that I goo after but rather the circumstances that ALWAYS play against me... To give you a few examples... Recently I started falling for a woman who was great and we had a great friendship and connection, but guess what... She has 3 jobs and lives at a 2 hour drive from where I live, so its nearly impossible to spend time. This other time I fell for a girl In my college class and everyone could tell she liked me and I liked her but gues what? She went back with her old boyfriend... And more recently, I asked out a woman that works with me on a restaurant but she told me that she "loved my courage, but due to problems at home she does not feel like dating anyone" See? There is ALWAYS a circumstance of bad luck against me, and it is more dissapointing and draining than you think because I never triumph... IP: Logged |
Moon is Lunatic Knowflake Posts: 824 From: Moon Registered: Jun 2013
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posted October 08, 2014 01:30 PM
quote: Originally posted by ProudestLeo: Really!? Then why does the cafe astrology 2014 forecast for leos born from august 13th to the 23rd say "neptune continues to transit their seventh house"? I dont get it...
Maybe they meant Leo Asc or you're mixing it up with something. *shrug* It doesn't make any sense otherwise, you can't know what planet is transiting in a house without knowing the Asc. IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 09, 2014 02:18 AM
quote: Originally posted by Moon is Lunatic: Maybe they meant Leo Asc or you're mixing it up with something. *shrug* It doesn't make any sense otherwise, you can't know what planet is transiting in a house without knowing the Asc.
So I should read the forecast for Scorpio instead? IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted October 29, 2014 11:53 PM
By the way when does Neptune move out of my 4th house? How long has it been there?IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9742 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 30, 2014 12:11 AM
Neptune was in your solar 7th house when it was in Aquarius. Now it's firmly in Pisces. But Leo forecasts will be generalized to ALL of the Leo's in the universe. Impossible. You've never had Neptune transit your natal 7th (the one that matters) and likely never will. Makes sense? The evasive partner deal, you have Pisces on your 5th cusp of dating and Venus inconj Neptune. Even if you think you're seeing yourself in a romantic sense accurately, you're not. Sorry. Venus rules your 7th, so this inconj is a strong influence on relationships. I think your approach with Virgo MoonMerc/Taurus Mars is very low key. Like almost without a pulse. You may look invisible in some way, even with that Leo Sun in the 10th. Then the Scorp Asc with Pluto in the 12th, maybe you prefer it that way. Ideally you'd be with someone who understood the kind of work you do, why can't you meet someone through work? You need someone who is sympathetic to your career and respects your practical contributions, your work ethic. You also need someone to indulge sensually with, in a big way. IP: Logged |
ProudestLeo Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Puerto Rico Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 03, 2014 01:24 AM
So in other words i should stop reading cafe astrology's horoscopes?IP: Logged |