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Topic: What in a Chart can make someone get along better w/ the opposite Sex than their own?
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Virgo28
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posted October 10, 2014 09:22 PM
  
What do you do for a living hypatia?IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 10, 2014 09:59 PM
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
That's quite a natal chart...!  You may have had some problems relating to your mom almost like give up your wants for her needs.
Also some disappointments with your home life. Is your venus in cap or aqua? Sun square mars is very hard, you must not like when a guy tells you what to do. Do you distrust men?
Virgo28....I have sun square neptune! I made a mistake and put sun square mars but I hate it when men order me around haha.
I have venus-mars in Leo. Yes I felt my mom wanted to breath for me and I stayed religious for longer than I wanted to just to please her and probably got in that path in the first place to please her. When I was little she used me like her personal assistant always asking me to help her with this and that on and on and I just started saying no. I rebelled though and we clashed a lot growing up; she tried medicating me bc I was "too intense and out of control I guess," but I was just standing up to her and not letting her mold me into her, breath for me and control me. My brother did not stand up to her and rebel and he is 40 still living at home and never moved out. She means well but is a bit neurotic IMO. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 10, 2014 10:11 PM
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
If you have good moon/venus aspect you tend to get along great with female.If you have hard Sun/Mars aspect you don't get along with male. I have hard Mars/Saturn aspect and lets says that I don't have male friends. LOL They **** me off!!! 
LOL....... Its easier to talk to guys and I feel like I fit in with guys more easily and quicker...there is more tension with females although I do get along with some very well but even in those cases there is probably an on and off tension. IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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posted October 10, 2014 10:15 PM
I'm Leo Mars. =)Having to deal with those hard Neptune aspects. You could be a fantastic family counselor. ------------------
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ReeseC
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From: Wherever the world takes me
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posted October 10, 2014 10:26 PM
I have moon trine venus and I am a girls girl, but I get along with men too though because I have Mars loosely quintile Sun(1°).However, I think my Gemini Sun comes off as more masculine because love hanging with men more; they just seem more relaxed about life. With my girl friends, I find myself wanting to detach after a while. IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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posted October 10, 2014 10:30 PM
I love Moon trine Venus...  I have the quintile.... You probably can't stand to be mad at someone or vice versa. ------------------
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hypatia238
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posted October 10, 2014 10:36 PM
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
I'm Leo Mars. =)Having to deal with those hard Neptune aspects. You could be a fantastic family counselor.
awwwwwwwwwwwwwww  Thanks. I do love the systemic approach to therapy; Family systems theory/branch of psychology. IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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posted October 10, 2014 10:39 PM
I work in IT, what field do you work in?------------------
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ReeseC
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posted October 10, 2014 10:49 PM
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
I love Moon trine Venus... I have the quintile.... You probably can't stand to be mad at someone or vice versa.
Omg, yes. I can sense if people are upset, especially with me, and I'm like" aww come here, bring it in...give me a hug..what can I do?....
 GIFSoup Puh Puh Puh please don't be mad at me. Lol Odd considering moon and venus form a grand trine with Uranus/neptune so I really shouldn't care, right? IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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posted October 10, 2014 10:53 PM
You're being a loving spiritual/humanitarian soul then   
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hypatia238
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posted October 11, 2014 12:00 AM
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
I work in IT, what field do you work in?
Get out! nice...Well I am taking my final class in statistics and I will be done with my masters. I am currently a targeted case manager who works with psychiatrists at an outpatient community mental health facility. I link my clients with resources, provide supportive counseling, and create treatment plans among other things. I have learn a lot working at this agency. I have gotten the opportunity to witness fascinating cases involving: severe paranoid schizophrenia, schizoaffective disorder, delusional disorders, impulse control disorders, bipolar I and II, major depression, psychosis, agoraphobia, PTSD, panic attacks, GAD, among other things. I have familiarized myself a lot with the DSM-5 manual and the codes used to identify different disorders and the different dimensions that come with it... IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 11, 2014 12:05 AM
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Originally posted by ReeseC:
Omg, yes. I can sense if people are upset, especially with me, and I'm like" aww come here, bring it in...give me a hug..what can I do?.... GIFSoup Puh Puh Puh please don't be mad at me. Lol Odd considering moon and venus form a grand trine with Uranus/neptune so I really shouldn't care, right?
Well neptune is the higher octave of venus and uranus can express itself in a humanitarian way so your moon and venus forming a grandtrine with neptune-uranus I think would make you a very loving person that loves unconditionally without much demands. I think it would facilitate feelings of unconditional love towards humanity; maybe you stop when someone has a flat tire to help... IP: Logged |
Sagical
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From: Glenbow, Canada
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 11, 2014 12:35 AM
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Originally posted by mareaire:
^ interesting. i have sun opposite uranus as well. i wouldn't say i'm genderqueer though. just have a lot of yang.
Throw in Black moon lillth square Ascendant that adds to the gender fluidness. Through Mars in the Sun Uranus opposition via a square aspect. Voila! IP: Logged |
ReeseC
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From: Wherever the world takes me
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posted October 11, 2014 12:41 AM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Well neptune is the higher octave of venus and uranus can express itself in a humanitarian way so your moon and venus forming a grandtrine with neptune-uranus I think would make you a very loving person that loves unconditionally without much demands. I think it would facilitate feelings of unconditional love towards humanity; maybe you stop when someone has a flat tire to help...
Ok, everyone stop spying on me lol. I am the person who gives rides to people at the bus stop because they look so sad sitting there alone. Stuff like that. I actually get in trouble with everyone because they are like, stop being so damn friendly. Touchy feely. In my head though, nobody is a stranger so I'm like, when I meet people, "I love you already, until you give me a reason not to". IP: Logged |
mamawolf
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From: the universe
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posted October 11, 2014 01:38 AM
I'm more likely to feel instantly comfortable with expressing my weirdness around males but all my best friends have been female. It can be a bit harder to relate to them but when it happens, I hold them dear to my heart I get along the greatest with chill and or funny girls. Can't say I personally know many extreme feminine types.Sun in 9th
Sun Square Mars
Sun Trine Jupiter Moon in 10th
Moon Sextile Venus
Moon Sextile Mars
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Sextile Uranus
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madgoulding
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From: new york, ny
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posted October 11, 2014 09:34 AM
This thread got me thinking and I really don't know. My Mars and sun are very strong in my chart conjunctions venus, uranus and Neptune. I feel more relaxed and at home around girls and I know what to do or say when I'm with them. With guys, they're very easy to talk to, there's no pressure to be someone I'm not. We can talk about anything. I'm not trying to brag but I've had more than enough guys tell me they thought I was "cool" or that they wish "every girl was like me". But that's only because I don't judge them when they tell me their 'extreme' stories. I don't lecture them like their mom or their girlfriends, I just try to understand where they're coming from. So I'd like to say I get along with both. The type of men I don't get along with are those dudes who have the mentality of a 14 year old girl. They're all about girl drama and throwing "shade" and Beyoncé. The type of girls that I don't get along with are those "I'm a guy's girl, but I only hang out with guy because I like the attention and whenever I'm with females I only want to ruin them" type of chicks. Even though I only have squares and oppostions to my moon, it's exalted in Taurus and in my 7th house. The real struggle with my moon is that it's squares me venus. I've heard this aspects creates trouble with the mom, it's true for me. My mother can never accept me for who I am, she always tells me I'm wearing, doing, acting something wrong. IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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posted October 11, 2014 09:38 AM
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Virgo28
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posted October 11, 2014 09:54 AM
That's a great career for you!!!Keep it up!!! 0=) ------------------
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hypatia238
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posted October 11, 2014 12:17 PM
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Originally posted by ReeseC:
Ok, everyone stop spying on me lol. I am the person who gives rides to people at the bus stop because they look so sad sitting there alone. Stuff like that. I actually get in trouble with everyone because they are like, stop being so damn friendly. Touchy feely. In my head though, nobody is a stranger so I'm like, when I meet people, "I love you already, until you give me a reason not to".
That is a beautiful gift you have there, I really admire people like that, it's rare.An angel walking on earth. I wonder what asteroid angel is doing in your chart, not that further confirmation is needed but let me know if is doing something interesting.
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hypatia238
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posted October 11, 2014 12:21 PM
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Originally posted by Virgo28:
That's a great career for you!!!Keep it up!!! 0=)
I posted my chart at astrology for beginners for you, as per request. IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 11, 2014 02:26 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
Where is mercury? Aspects? Aspects to moon?
Mercury in Scorpio, final house depositor of my chart (Placidus) and chart ruler.
Mercury Semi-Sextile Neptune/Pluto (2°), Opposition Moon(2°), Trigon JupiterRx (4°)
I know that I talk to people. May I ask where the connection to the opposite sex is? Men tend to tell me their secrets and not the other way. 
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ifaf
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posted October 11, 2014 03:07 PM
Could moon sq venus have something to do with it?
Or make it more uncomfortable to deal with sensitive/emotional types?
When a girl tells me something that I think should be responded to with sympathy (ie "my boyfriend just dumped me") I get very uncomfortable and sometimes feel manipulated.. Like I'm 'supposed' to show emotion when I don't want to.------------------
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PixieJane
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posted October 11, 2014 07:59 PM
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Originally posted by ifaf:
Could moon sq venus have something to do with it?
Or make it more uncomfortable to deal with sensitive/emotional types?
When a girl tells me something that I think should be responded to with sympathy (ie "my boyfriend just dumped me") I get very uncomfortable and sometimes feel manipulated.. Like I'm 'supposed' to show emotion when I don't want to.
That could. I usually don't mind in real life because I can pick up a lot of cues from tone of voice along with facial expressions, body language, etc, and I tend to have other context to accurately understand the sitch and how I'm expected to respond (and if someone is being straightforward or playing mind games with me). But on the net I'm blind and deaf to all those cues and it can be really frustrating when I get say an email from a correspondent (typically an author) I've never met in real life and they can hint at something wrong but I don't know if I'm supposed to respect their space (if they wanted me to know more they'd tell me, so I shouldn't coddle them like a child) or if they're fishing for a response (that is, if I respect their space are they going to think I don't care?). I expect if I had to wonder things like that all the time with women in real life then I'd naturally gravitate toward men where sharing feelings is typically less of a concern. (As it is I actually do hang more with guys, though most of my really close friendships are with women.) IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
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posted October 12, 2014 08:16 AM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Not gonna lie I rolled my eyes to the back of my head and spit out blood when I read this post.
I don't know what you mean by this.
Hypatia, I'm a female.
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DeepFreeze
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posted October 13, 2014 09:46 AM
I think it's simply a cultural thing.
It seems like 90% of people are more open with the opposite sex.
There can't be THAT much similarity among people, astrologically. IP: Logged |
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