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Topic: What in a Chart can make someone get along better w/ the opposite Sex than their own?
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hypatia238
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From: Miami
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posted October 09, 2014 11:49 AM
  
What in a Chart can make someone get along better w/ the opposite Sex than their own?IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted October 09, 2014 11:50 AM
Good aspects to the Sun and bad aspects to the Moon. I have this lol------------------
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sugarnfeist
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posted October 09, 2014 12:06 PM
Taurus sun. Unless they are homosexual. Just my experience. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
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posted October 09, 2014 12:17 PM
I have great aspects with the Sun but lots of difficult aspects with the Moon. As a matter of fact, my Moon squares or opposes every planet except for sextile Mars and trine Uranus. However, my Sun trines Jupiter and Saturn, and trine Pluto by signs.I'm guessing that if you're a female and you have difficult Venus aspects that you wouldn't do well with the opposite sex either. I have Venus Square Moon... very difficult for me to find someone I feel comfortable with that I would think is remotely good looking/pleasing to look at. I get along well with other females and I don't often encounter competitiveness. But with males, I rarely encounter guys that I could talk with beyond general greetings. The guys I tend to get along with are more confident types...esp. ones who are married and secure in their lives. The ones who are insecure and need a lot of ego boosting, those are ones I want to destroy. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 09, 2014 12:23 PM
I get along with both. Women a little more so.
I get along best with guys near my own age and women of any age.
My moon has two squares (mars/mercury)
Sextile sun
Trine Uranus My sun
Sextile moon as mentioned above
And square jupiter My "big three" are all masculine signs Chart ruler Venus... Idk. Good question.
Some though I think is just the way things are today. Seems like most people are that way. IP: Logged |
GeminiKarat
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From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 09, 2014 03:28 PM
That is a very good question. I like to be with men and tough women. I did not find a logical explanation in my chart yet.IP: Logged |
Solar_Leo_Queen
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From: Planet Earth
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 09, 2014 03:50 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Good aspects to the Sun and bad aspects to the Moon. I have this lol
Funny how you say that. I have the opposite. My Sun has many bad aspects (and a few good ones), but my Moon only has good aspects. I get along better with the opposite sex. IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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From: In my 1st house Uranus and Neptune
Registered: May 2011
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posted October 09, 2014 04:06 PM
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
I have great aspects with the Sun but lots of difficult aspects with the Moon. As a matter of fact, my Moon squares or opposes every planet except for sextile Mars and trine Uranus. However, my Sun trines Jupiter and Saturn, and trine Pluto by signs.I'm guessing that if you're a female and you have difficult Venus aspects that you wouldn't do well with the opposite sex either. I have Venus Square Moon... very difficult for me to find someone I feel comfortable with that I would think is remotely good looking/pleasing to look at. I get along well with other females and I don't often encounter competitiveness. But with males, I rarely encounter guys that I could talk with beyond general greetings. The guys I tend to get along with are more confident types...esp. ones who are married and secure in their lives. The ones who are insecure and need a lot of ego boosting, those are ones I want to destroy.
Not gonna lie I rolled my eyes to the back of my head and spit out blood when I read this post. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 370
From: Miami
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 09, 2014 04:17 PM
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
I have great aspects with the Sun but lots of difficult aspects with the Moon. As a matter of fact, my Moon squares or opposes every planet except for sextile Mars and trine Uranus. However, my Sun trines Jupiter and Saturn, and trine Pluto by signs.I'm guessing that if you're a female and you have difficult Venus aspects that you wouldn't do well with the opposite sex either. I have Venus Square Moon... very difficult for me to find someone I feel comfortable with that I would think is remotely good looking/pleasing to look at. I get along well with other females and I don't often encounter competitiveness. But with males, I rarely encounter guys that I could talk with beyond general greetings. The guys I tend to get along with are more confident types...esp. ones who are married and secure in their lives. The ones who are insecure and need a lot of ego boosting, those are ones I want to destroy.
Are you a male? or female? IP: Logged |
mareaire
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From: avalon
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 09, 2014 04:21 PM
i love hanging out with guys. just yesterday someone was talkng to my boyfriend about me, and they said, "she's like one of the guys"i have a lot of masculine placements...gemini and sag. sun, mars and asc conjunct. also have a cap moon which gives me a saturnine edge and i don't like to mull over emotions, which a lot of women like to talk about, all the time. i have women friends too of course. i just find an ease of hanging out and joking around with men. it tends to be more fun, where as girl time can be more serious. i also like athletic activities and guys tend to get down with that a bit more. (generalizing i know) IP: Logged |
Sagical
Knowflake Posts: 83
From: Glenbow, Canada
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 09, 2014 05:12 PM
I'm genderqueer and at times indentify as masculine and prefer friendships with the opposite gender. It could be my Sun opposite Uranus aspect. Hard to say.IP: Logged |
mareaire
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From: avalon
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posted October 09, 2014 05:26 PM
^ interesting. i have sun opposite uranus as well. i wouldn't say i'm genderqueer though. just have a lot of yang.IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted October 09, 2014 08:55 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Good aspects to the Sun and bad aspects to the Moon. I have this lol
Yeah! I think maybe it's not so much about the planets associated with the opposite sex, but the planets you have good aspects to. So I might get along better with guys if they're more Sun-ruled, but not if they're more moon ruled, regardless of gender. Or I might get along better with a Sun-girl than a Moon-guy. IP: Logged |
Geeky
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From: the Sun, vacation house on Mercury
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posted October 09, 2014 09:22 PM
Maybe the ruler of H11?------------------
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PisceanDream
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posted October 09, 2014 09:27 PM
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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
I like to be with men and tough women.
I am exactly the same. What's Mars doing in your chart? Coincidentally, my Gem Moon is squared by Venus and it trines my Mars. I think that might be an indicator. IP: Logged |
next to neptune
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From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 09, 2014 10:20 PM
All my chart is very feminine, but I do have mars conjunction sun and opposite moon. Both sun and moon has bad aspect, but my venus only has good aspect. I think I get along equally "bad" with both sex lol, but I do tend to "like" males a bit more because they are more easy-going (well, most of the time!).
The problem is just that it's nearly impossible for me to have male-friends because they always get interested in me, or I get interested in them! I have a few close female friends and a nice boyfriend who also feels like my best friend but thats it. I don't get along with especially many in general lol Sun conjunction Mars and Opposite Moon (and loosely square uranus)
Moon opposite Mars and Sun and Square uranus Venus trine jupiter, sextile saturn, uranus and neptune. Conjunction pluto (and in scorpio, 5th house)
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lvASTRO
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From: Saturn
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 09, 2014 10:30 PM
A Venus-Uranus conjunction or opposition will make you magnetic to the opposite sex (regardless sexual orientation). They find your vibration irresistible, in a sense, and this will color their perception of you as very "agreeable."Moon in tenth makes you popular with men. Fourth with women. Eleventh with pretty much everyone. IP: Logged |
Supreme cT
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From: NJ
Registered: Jan 2014
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posted October 09, 2014 10:55 PM
I have venus in sag in 11th house and i get along very easily with the opposite sex i just know how to vibe with them and i like to talk and be around women as well IP: Logged |
ifaf
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posted October 10, 2014 01:12 AM
I think the most logical reason for me not "getting along" with women are my deep-seated trust issues from childhood experiences.
I have no problem with older women or women in a position of authority or whatever. I just can't make -friends- with them. It's always based on a work relationship for me. Then I can become closer with them.It's just easier for me to be casual friends with guys.
I'm pretty clueless when it comes to social cues though, and naive about gender differences and attraction. I've assumed guys were legitimately asking me to come over to their place to hang out when it turned out to be something else and it got awkward. I'm glad most of them get over it quickly and move on to an "easier target"... although it grosses me out quite a bit.
So yeah. I don't know if that could be reflected in my chart. ------------------
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GeminiKarat
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From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 10, 2014 01:27 PM
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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
I am exactly the same. What's Mars doing in your chart? Coincidentally, my Gem Moon is squared by Venus and it trines my Mars. I think that might be an indicator.
I do agree with the Mars.
My Mars is in Libra. This is not the best position for the Mars.
My Venus is in Libra. This is said to be a good position for the Venus.
Both would quincunx my Moon with an orb of 8°. This aspect is discussed as a combination of good and bad.
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GeminiKarat
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From: Austria
Registered: Jun 2014
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posted October 10, 2014 01:31 PM
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Originally posted by lvASTRO:
A Venus-Uranus conjunction or opposition will make you magnetic to the opposite sex (regardless sexual orientation). They find your vibration irresistible, in a sense, and this will color their perception of you as very "agreeable."Moon in tenth makes you popular with men. Fourth with women. Eleventh with pretty much everyone.
My Moon in the eleventh is always restircted by my straightforwardness. I am not very popular.
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lvASTRO
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From: Saturn
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted October 10, 2014 05:20 PM
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Originally posted by GeminiKarat:
My Moon in the eleventh is always restircted by my straightforwardness. I am not very popular.
Where is mercury? Aspects? Aspects to moon? IP: Logged |
Virgo28
Knowflake Posts: 306
From: Miami, FL
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 10, 2014 06:33 PM
If you have good moon/venus aspect you tend to get along great with female.If you have hard Sun/Mars aspect you don't get along with male. I have hard Mars/Saturn aspect and lets says that I don't have male friends. LOL They **** me off!!!  ------------------
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hypatia238
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From: Miami
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 10, 2014 08:49 PM
Sun opposes Moon
Sun squares Neptune
Sun conjuncts Horus though Exact!Moon opposes sun
moon opposes mercury
moon inconjuncts Venus (venus rules my 11th and 6th and falls in my 9th)
moon squares neptune
moon conjuncts nephthys exact
moon opposes nemesis by one orb
(nemesis semisextiles apophis) My venus and mars conjunct and have very nice aspects except: Venus conjuncts apophis exact and by one orb mars.
Nemesis semisextiles apophis IP: Logged |
Virgo28
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From: Miami, FL
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 10, 2014 09:03 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Sun opposes Moon
Sun squares Mars
Sun conjuncts Horus though Exact!Moon opposes sun
moon opposes mercury
moon inconjuncts Venus (venus rules my 11th and 6th and falls in my 9th)
moon squares neptune
moon conjuncts nephthys exact
moon opposes nemesis by one orb
(nemesis semisextiles apophis) My venus and mars conjunct and have very nice aspects except: Venus conjuncts apophis exact and by one orb mars.
Nemesis semisextiles apophis
That's quite a natal chart...!  You may have had some problems relating to your mom almost like give up your wants for her needs.
Also some disappointments with your home life. Is your Venus in Libra or Leo? Sun square mars is very hard, you must not like when a guy tells you what to do. Do you distrust men? ------------------
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