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Topic: Wondering how you feel about this Mars 12th fact
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hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 09:56 PM
  
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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
I have mars in the twelfth too😊 kind of horrible, if I'm being honest.
I never really thought about it till you said something, but this does happen to me. I'll just sigh out of nowhere and I don't even realize I'm doing it and people start wondering what's wrong with me. I think people get more concerned about me than they should be based on my body language. Often I'm not having any particularly negative feelings when I do these things.
I realized it after I walked past my boss's room (he's a Cancer, THE WORST lol =P) and sighed, and he said hello to me. Like I sighed just to get his attention....smh. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 17, 2014 10:29 PM
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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Yes, very much so! 
It's great to read, cause it makes me able to maybe understand my boyfriends thinking more... but dont you feel trapped with time, if you're not really comming of the way you want/know what way you come of to others? I mean... if you feel angry inside, do you just hide it forever and ever? If other people can easily read 12th house Mars people's face, wouldn't they be able to spot if your angry and then maybe help you?
Hi I just saw this! The thing with Mars in the 12th house is it manifests so many different ways. It's not that a Mars in the 12th house won't get angry. They will definitely get angry! But their anger may come across more calm, cool, and collected and then later on after they've stewed on the topic that is when you might see their TRUE anger come out (the cursing, throwing things) etc. Having The Angry Planet in something foggy like the 12th delays the response. Another way it manifests for me is there is ALWAYS an obstacle to expressing my anger in it's purest form. For example, if I get angry at work I can't let it out because I'm at work and it's towards a customer. Or I got angry at my parents but we're supposed to respect our parents so I end up having to apologize, even if they were antagonizers etc. Anger between friends turns into a cold war more than a screaming match. It's AWFUL! Something else I also noticed is I tend to have a hard time believing my 'creations.' My apartment has left over antique furniture from my parents, it's not personalized at all. When I try to paint I can't because I can't think of anything. I don't know how to express myself. That doesn't mean we're not animated but rather our individuality and distinction is lost amongst the 12th house juju vibes. IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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From: Pluto with Barbiegirl19
Registered: Nov 2013
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posted October 18, 2014 06:33 AM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Hi I just saw this! The thing with Mars in the 12th house is it manifests so many different ways. It's not that a Mars in the 12th house won't get angry. They will definitely get angry! But their anger may come across more calm, cool, and collected and then later on after they've stewed on the topic that is when you might see their TRUE anger come out (the cursing, throwing things) etc. Having The Angry Planet in something foggy like the 12th delays the response. Another way it manifests for me is there is ALWAYS an obstacle to expressing my anger in it's purest form. For example, if I get angry at work I can't let it out because I'm at work and it's towards a customer. Or I got angry at my parents but we're supposed to respect our parents so I end up having to apologize, even if they were antagonizers etc. Anger between friends turns into a cold war more than a screaming match. It's AWFUL! Something else I also noticed is I tend to have a hard time believing my 'creations.' My apartment has left over antique furniture from my parents, it's not personalized at all. When I try to paint I can't because I can't think of anything. I don't know how to express myself. That doesn't mean we're not animated but rather our individuality and distinction is lost amongst the 12th house juju vibes.
Perfect!  IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted October 18, 2014 04:12 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Do you think we overcompensate for the energy of whatever planet we have in the 12th because since we don't acknowledge it ourselves we want others to think we have that quality?
Not for me. I definitely "pride" myself on avoiding conflict/not being conflictual. That can come across as being weak. And of course just because I try to avoid it doesn't mean it doesn't come up. When it does come up I don't know how to handle it. So, my moon explodes and I go a bit crazy.... which then makes people think that I AM conflictual, that I cause the problems by flipping out. Ugh. It's problematic for sure! IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted October 18, 2014 08:54 PM
I can count on one hand the number of times in my life that people have actually 'gotten' me or accurately read me. They always seem to think I'm sad when I'm just thinking or they think I'm a hell raiser for some reason. I have Moon in Aqua and that contributes to it as well. People actually think I'm really dumb until I prove otherwise. I was always thought of as a dolt in school but I scored waaayyy higher on tests, IQ, and SAT scores than the valedictorian and the officially recognized "smart" kids. I've learned to be pragmatic and use it to my advantage being Asc, mars and venus in cancer. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 18, 2014 09:13 PM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I can count on one hand the number of times in my life that people have actually 'gotten' me or accurately read me. They always seem to think I'm sad when I'm just thinking or they think I'm a hell raiser for some reason. I have Moon in Aqua and that contributes to it as well. People actually think I'm really dumb until I prove otherwise. I was always thought of as a dolt in school but I scored waaayyy higher on tests, IQ, and SAT scores than the valedictorian and the officially recognized "smart" kids. I've learned to be pragmatic and use it to my advantage being Asc, mars and venus in cancer.
What a good point! People think I'm ditzy too - I had two people, one stranger and one friend, both explain to me I needed to walk my dog every day if I got one and how having one would require constant attention, etc. even after I'd told them "I GREW UP WITH DOGS." I get "parented" all the time when I don't need it. It drives me nuts and I never associated that with Mars in the 12th 'til now. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade
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posted October 19, 2014 05:17 AM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
I can count on one hand the number of times in my life that people have actually 'gotten' me or accurately read me. They always seem to think I'm sad when I'm just thinking or they think I'm a hell raiser for some reason. I have Moon in Aqua and that contributes to it as well. People actually think I'm really dumb until I prove otherwise. I was always thought of as a dolt in school but I scored waaayyy higher on tests, IQ, and SAT scores than the valedictorian and the officially recognized "smart" kids. I've learned to be pragmatic and use it to my advantage being Asc, mars and venus in cancer.
Me too! People think I'm ditzy and are shocked that I'm really not (that ditzy  ). But being a Sag with Scorpio influence I think I play up the ditzy thing sometimes, I rely on the "fun", because I only want to get into serious discussion with people who I think are worth it. My brother is an Aqua and he is really super smart and comes across that way. Objectively, he is much smarter than me. But we had the same grades in school and I got my BA and MA before he did. When we graduated the same number (we were tied) EVERYONE was shocked! It doesn't really bother me. But I do see that it causes problem unnecessarily. Honestly, I HATE my Mars.  My Venus in 12th in Scorpio I love though. 
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