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Topic: How do libras show their love ?
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theunknown
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posted October 17, 2014 12:42 AM
  
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I understand that but libras compliment others more often than say a capricorn. Or Taurus. *shrug*That's why they are very popular. It's a good thing. From my perspective however, I feel like once a libra man sees that I've liked him, he disappears. Then I act distant and he come back... It's like when r u gonna be sure?[/B][/QUOTE] say it witthh me now, compliments are complimentaryyy..!LOl and please where are you trying to go with those earth signs, they only want compliments, they don't know how to give them 
It could be a common factor of things. He hasn't known you long enough, He's figuring your not as compatible as he thought. There is not enough chemistry. He's busy. Either way, the end decision is up to you. It always is. Do you want to continue with him or not.
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Lol this makes me laugh out loud!!! I personally don't attract libra as much as I attract scorpio. Lol. Like the libras always have scorpio influence. I'm actually only thinking about one really bad experience back in the day but yeah, I know it's obvious. I just don't know how deep the water runs. I'm a cap venus so I don typically mistake others' a lack of interest as interest. It's the other way around; I need more proof that this is a serious thing haha.
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PixieJane
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posted October 17, 2014 01:42 AM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I've seen it many times. One woman at work (she's not there any more) was waaaaaaaaaaay popular with the guys. She was just so friendly, smiley, flirty. Even the women loved her for being such a sweat person. It was definitely misinterpreted by men.
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Another thing is Libra is a cardinal sign. They initiate. My experience with other libras on top of that is the same. They don't mess around if they like you. They will go right after it
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If you've shown feelings for them and they've disappeared..? Well then they didn't like you like that. They disappear because being the peacemaker, they don't want that uncomfortable confrontation to let you down. But if you chill out, they'll be their old selves again. You'll just have to keep in mind they they are not into you like that. But their behavior is HIGHLY misinterpreted.
QFT (Quoted For Truth). Granted, there's also the Libra player who'll reel in anyone they can but they're not serious (and will blame you for misunderstanding), which would be worse for all save those into short term flings anyway. IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted October 17, 2014 02:27 AM
How do libras show their love ? I don't think much about their casual smiles and compliments. That's just what they do, it's almost like their default mode. Ime, notice that in romantic relationships they can be vague at the beginning (during the stage of getting to know each other, flirting..etc...) especially if the other person doesn't shown keen interest or send mixed signals...etc... Given the "green light", most of the time they'll dive in quite fast. They'll flirt heavily, and I mean heavily. It becomes starkly different from just "casual flirting in social interactions". Then they'll suddenly pop up more frequently and want to do things/spend more time together (I guess being the relationship sign, they like doing things in twosome).
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Alishia@
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posted October 17, 2014 08:27 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
How do libras show their love ? I don't think much about their casual smiles and compliments. That's just what they do, it's almost like their default mode. Ime, notice that in romantic relationships they can be vague at the beginning (during the stage of getting to know each other, flirting..etc...) especially if the other person doesn't shown keen interest or send mixed signals...etc... Given the "green light", most of the time they'll dive in quite fast. They'll flirt heavily, and I mean heavily. It becomes starkly different from just "casual flirting in social interactions". Then they'll suddenly pop up more frequently and want to do things/spend more time together (I guess being the relationship sign, they like doing things in twosome).
Ok I can see that  lol though as a leo he is extra flirty but he is flirty to the max. But maybe it's hard to tell because he has Mars in virgo ? IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted October 17, 2014 09:09 AM
Well, if I may...
As a Libra Rising, Leo Sun, Gemini Moon, and Mars in Virgo.
For me, flirting is sometimes oblivious to me. I may not sense it completely, or more often, may not realize that I'm doing it! Or, may not realize the impact that it has. Not always, certainly I can be very intentional.
Also, when the green light came, then yes, I would dive right in. But sometimes, I just had fun working up to the green light, and would back off. Once in a while just honestly not knowing what I wanted - maybe the Gemini. It's unfortunate I know, and a little mean. But, being happily married, I guess that's one more "jerk" off the market.  IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted October 17, 2014 09:34 AM
Personally I don't see that as being a jerk at all (not the best thing to do, but still far from jerky behaviour). Especially if the two people are not "official" or if there is no promise. IP: Logged |
Alishia@
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posted October 18, 2014 08:45 AM
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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Personally I don't see that as being a jerk at all (not the best thing to do, but still far from jerky behaviour). Especially if the two people are not "official" or if there is no promise.
Yeah with my friend there really is no purpose ....he's gay so he would flirt with guys all the time just for fun !! He flirts with me but I usually completely ignore him or play along (Mars in libra) till I get bored :/ but he told me he really did have a crush on me when we were younger 0.o never realized that
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fenia
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posted October 18, 2014 01:34 PM
i show my affection easily...
I speak a lot, I make compliments,(less touching, if i don't feel very very comfortable) and i mean it, i just can't hide what i'm thinking of this person.. I'm all big words
And I do flirt with anyone for fun, especially if someone is flirty, playful and wants to engange in that, and better if we both know it is nothing serious, just fun :d------------------
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ash20
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posted October 19, 2014 10:20 PM
They act very romantic. Then they cheat on you, leave you for someone else and then come running back to you when that doesn't work out! Lol just kidding..IP: Logged |
unforgiven_soul
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posted October 20, 2014 12:12 PM
Libras are very social and playful, so they get misunderstood many times. I'm in love with a Libra-Sagittarius rising right now and we flirt, but I can't predict what will happen. He's messed up right now breaking up, so he appears and then he backs off. But generally every sing and person has a different way to show he likes you and express. So the point is if someone wants to be with you he will go after you, forget all the rest.IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 20, 2014 03:30 PM
Dxpnet has this thread http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/libra/libra-man-is-playing-mind-games-4178092.asp I also think libra men and women are different in their expressions IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted October 20, 2014 03:47 PM
^^ my Libra brother-in-law with aqua moon has been faithfully married to my sister for 20 years this next May. Synastry and so on...
It matters. She's a cap with Libra moon IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 20, 2014 04:06 PM
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
^^ my Libra brother-in-law with aqua moon has been faithfully married to my sister for 20 years this next May. Synastry and so on...
It matters. She's a cap with Libra moon
I was joking... Dxpnet is pretty shallow...
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DeepFreeze
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posted October 20, 2014 04:11 PM
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Alishia@
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posted October 20, 2014 04:59 PM
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Originally posted by unforgiven_soul:
Libras are very social and playful, so they get misunderstood many times. I'm in love with a Libra-Sagittarius rising right now and we flirt, but I can't predict what will happen. He's messed up right now breaking up, so he appears and then he backs off. But generally every sing and person has a different way to show he likes you and express. So the point is if someone wants to be with you he will go after you, forget all the rest.
He has self esteem problems so I can understand why he didn't go full out. I wish he would have said something though. He too me being oblivious that in didnt like him. I get flirted with a lot so maybe I did completely ignore the signs IP: Logged |
GoingDutch
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posted October 21, 2014 10:36 PM
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BILL10
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posted October 21, 2014 10:52 PM
Libra's aren't very showy when it comes to their love. All of them are not the same, but in general they are not overtly affectionate.
They love people they can look up to; someone that can teach them new things.
They like learning things and having long conversations, so anyone that can show them a different perspective on things would pique their interest. And so, one way to tell if they love you is when they start to show off your intellect to their friends.
Libra's tend to be a little gossipy, but if they love you and respect you, they will never say one bad word about you to others. IP: Logged |
Alishia@
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posted October 22, 2014 05:52 AM
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Originally posted by BILL10:
Libra's aren't very showy when it comes to their love. All of them are not the same, but in general they are not overtly affectionate.
They love people they can look up to; someone that can teach them new things.
They like learning things and having long conversations, so anyone that can show them a different perspective on things would pique their interest. And so, one way to tell if they love you is when they start to show off your intellect to their friends.
Libra's tend to be a little gossipy, but if they love you and respect you, they will never say one bad word about you to others.
Lol awww so true. We actually were thinking about that yesterday he has never really got mad at me. He always says I suprise him lol never had a boring conversation with me 😸IP: Logged |
GoingDutch
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posted October 22, 2014 08:53 AM
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