posted October 16, 2014 02:52 PM              

I can't help sharing with my love how incredible loving him makes me feel. I tell him every chance I can, the more random the better.

posted October 16, 2014 06:16 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
my question though, is that it seems to me that Libra might compliment someone but isn't necessarily in love with the person...

I feel like complimenting is how they flirt and charm you but not necessarily the indicator of love. And I'm not even sure about the eyes...

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posted October 16, 2014 06:20 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
my question though, is that it seems to me that Libra might compliment someone but isn't necessarily in love with the person...

I feel like complimenting is how they flirt and charm you but not necessarily the indicator of love. And I'm not even sure about the eyes...

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posted October 16, 2014 06:42 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
[B]compliment someone but isn't necessarily in love with the person...

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If they [b]love[b] you, Im sure it would be made clear. Relationships and romance are Libras domain.

The men will always initiate and the women expect the man to initiate. Of course, from the ones I know.

posted October 16, 2014 07:53 PM            

I've found it depressing how often "experts" are promoted for their expertise or can get away with writing article after article that basically says, "If s/he acknowledges your existence and isn't cruel or runs away then s/he is into you." Because that implies the ONLY reason people are nice is because they want something from you (money, sex, whatever), and that such must be true for most people (and yet people who believe that say I'm the one who's too cynical!). And it makes it hard for me to me to blame several men who thought I was leading them on simply because I wasn't cruel to them from the start as that's what they keep being told.

That said, I suppose if the vast majority of people are obsessed with sex (and I think they are no matter how much they sermonize on it being "about love" and all that) then there would be a grain of truth to it...that is, if a person isn't turned off and (hopefully) not related or already spoken for then at some level (perhaps unconscious) they're CONSTANTLY searching for a hookup (even if they want to add in a bunch of Harlequin romance stuff to it) so that if they're friendly then at some level at least they're considering it. Still, I wish the so-called "experts" could tell the difference between "s/he wants you" and "you got a shot." My guess is it's aimed at people who desperately want the one they have a crush on to be interested and so "experts" saying that gives them hope.

posted October 16, 2014 07:54 PM            

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Originally posted by violet7887:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by theunknown:
[B]compliment someone but isn't necessarily in love with the person...

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You do not have to be in love with someone to compliment them. Believe it or not, some people are aCtually friendly and pleasant I find it hilarious when people who are not very good communicators or friendly themselves come out with things like "oh you are Libra ASC, THAT means you love to fliiirrt" LOLL.

If they [b]love[b] you, Im sure it would be made clear. Relationships and romance are Libras domain.

The men will always initiate and the women expect the man to initiate. Of course, from the ones I know.

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I understand that but libras compliment others more often than say a capricorn. Or Taurus. *shrug*

posted October 16, 2014 08:07 PM              

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I understand that but libras compliment others more often than say a capricorn. Or Taurus. *shrug*

That's why they are very popular. It's a good thing. From my perspective however, I feel like once a libra man sees that I've liked him, he disappears. Then I act distant and he come back... It's like when r u gonna be sure?

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Libras compliment because Libras like people. Many people like people and compliment because they are decent. There's not always a meaning behind a person being nice, many people are just nice.

But you have to understand it's not his(Libra man's) fault that you misinterpreted his kindness for something else. If a Libra man, a Libra in general likes a person we're about as blunt as a Sag letting the person know how we feel. If you're not getting that right away then it's because you've misinterpreted things. To make it less awkward and not hurt your feelings they run off, which isn't cool I'd let you know right away but some Libra men are like this.

posted October 16, 2014 08:18 PM              

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
Libras compliment because Libras like people. Many people like people and compliment because they are decent. There's not always a meaning behind a person being nice, many people are just nice.

But you have to understand it's not his fault that you misinterpreted his kindness for something else. If a Libra man, a Libra in general likes a person we're about as blunt as a Sag letting the person know how we feel. If you're not getting that right away then it's because you've misinterpreted things.

It happens way too often and is why Libras catch so much flake.

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True true!

I've seen it many times. One woman at work (she's not there any more) was waaaaaaaaaaay popular with the guys. She was just so friendly, smiley, flirty. Even the women loved her for being such a sweat person. It was definitely misinterpreted by men.
But she basically Facebook stalked me and wrote me a message. Before that, I really paid very little attention to her.

Barbie was very straightforward right away, in an old thread. She cut right to the chase.

Another thing is Libra is a cardinal sign. They initiate. My experience with other libras on top of that is the same. They don't mess around if they like you. They will go right after it.

How do you know that they LOVE you?

Well for one they will tell you. Again, Libra gets this rep for being passive, nah... they're not. They are a cardinal sign afterall - initiators. On top of this, they will COMPLETELY bend over backwards for you and tolerate a LOT of BS - for a period of time anyway.

If you've shown feelings for them and they've disappeared..? Well then they didn't like you like that. They disappear because being the peacemaker, they don't want that uncomfortable confrontation to let you down. But if you chill out, they'll be their old selves again. You'll just have to keep in mind they they are not into you like that.

posted October 16, 2014 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
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I can say that doesn't match me. It may be my Sag stellium, but the idea of merging to live in someone else's skin forever is not a pleasant thought for me, either to do it or have it done to me.

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posted October 16, 2014 08:32 PM              

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Originally posted by starmoon:
this sounds bizarre and frightening and a bit psycho. definitely not something a libra would do, lol. at least not one without some dark influences, eek

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Hahaha thanks for calling me bizzarre, frightening and a bit psycho. That's a first. I did say that it was the Scorpio after all

posted October 16, 2014 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
You'll know immediately. The eyes give us away.
We don't hold back when in love.

I can't help sharing with my love how incredible loving him makes me feel. I tell him every chance I can, the more random the better.

The word love itself doesn't seem enough for what I feel. I want to be one body, one mind, one whole being together with my husband. If I could swim and live in his skin forever I would without a second thought.

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I have felt like that before and I attribute it to my moon in pisces ruling my 8th.

The part about wanting to express your love often and perhaps shout it to the whole world I attribute it to my venus-mars in Leo trining neptune.

posted October 16, 2014 08:47 PM              

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
I have felt like that before and I attribute it to my moon in pisces ruling my 8th.

The part about wanting to express your love often and perhaps shout it to the whole world I attribute it to my venus-mars in Leo trining neptune.

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I don't necessarily care for shouting it to the world, more so to him.

posted October 16, 2014 08:59 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:

Another thing is Libra is a cardinal sign. They initiate. My experience with other libras on top of that is the same. They don't mess around if they like you. They will go right after it.

How do you know that they LOVE you?

Well for one they will tell you. Again, Libra gets this rep for being passive, nah... they're not. They are a cardinal sign afterall - initiators. On top of this, they will COMPLETELY bend over backwards for you and tolerate a LOT of BS - for a period of time anyway.

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Yes, agreed. And I find Libras are very decisive, indecision is a made up astro thing. They are not just decisive but very matter of fact with exceptional judgement skills. They ones I know are more like " Hey, I like you and I will do overly romantic things to show you what you can have, now get with the program or BUH-bye."

posted October 16, 2014 09:05 PM            

That's why they are very popular. It's a good thing. From my perspective however, I feel like once a libra man sees that I've liked him, he disappears. Then I act distant and he come back... It's like when r u gonna be sure?[/B][/QUOTE]

say it witthh me now, compliments are complimentaryyy..!LOl and please where are you trying to go with those earth signs, they only want compliments, they don't know how to give them

It could be a common factor of things. He hasn't known you long enough, He's figuring your not as compatible as he thought. There is not enough chemistry. He's busy. Either way, the end decision is up to you. It always is. Do you want to continue with him or not.

posted October 16, 2014 09:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
I don't necessarily care for shouting it to the world, more so to him.

My sun, moon and mercury are in Libra but they are in the 12th so I'm coming to the conclusion that's it's the Pisces and my Scorpio Venus that made me express my feelings so darkly and oddly.

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I loved it....I don't think is odd. I think it rocks!

Oh yeah! that makes sense all the 12th house action and venus in scorpio~ !!!