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GoingDutch
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I get the sense you are this way because you have been wounded in area of sexual exchange in this life or past lives. thats why you are ok with never doing it again, because it repulses you unconsciously. the difference is you have saturn in scorpio, which is the lord of karma and saturn never does things lightly.

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Well maybe her chart is negatively aspected. Or maybe she is a younger soul who is choosing to explore her sexuality this way. IDK. People have free will to do what they want to do, regardless of astrology.

How is your Mars/Saturn aspected?

Saturn in scorpio is freaky but not in a good way. Lol. Saturn in scorpio is about sex and intimate things like this. Sex is a very intimate thing and when this intimacy starts manifesting in the absence of love, then we start to have a problem. Saturn in scorpio says, I want you to learn what sex really means, take a look at how you have treated sex in the past, and take responsibility for your choices. Saturn in scorpion must learn that sex isn't to be taken lightly.

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posted October 29, 2014 01:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Sorry, I am new to astrology, so I am still learning.

For those who have Saturn in Scorpio, can you describe how you are? Astro said, who born between 1982 to 1985 birth year will have Saturn in Scorpio, due to Scorpio was in Saturn those years.

My best friend who is October 1984 B-Day (whom I know since childhood), she is Scorpio Sun, Scorpio Moon, Scorpio Mercury, Scorpio Saturn, Scorpio Pluto. And she is VERY high sex drive, the aggressive type of women that have higher sex drive than her husband.

Then me March 1984 B-Day, is like 180 degree different, I have both Mars and Saturn Scorpio. But I am the type with zip, zero, none, nada sex drive. Sex and Love are NOT in my top priority list, I'm like asexual, maybe cuz my Aquarius Venus? If you told me to not have sex from now until the day I died, I be VERY HAPPY! lol, and I'm serious.

So what up with this? How can someone both have the same Saturn in Scorpio, but be completely different? Aren't Scorpio rule the sex and passion house?

If you know anyone have Scorpio in Saturn, can you share your experience with them?


I would say take a look at the houses and aspects with the planets. The aspects, houses, etc have such a huge impact. Sounds like your friend has some SERIOUS depth!

For you, a possible conjunction between your Mars & Saturn considering their placement within the same house. Now although planets may be within the same sign they may not fall in the same house, so can you post your house placements?

How close is your friend's Saturn to your friend's Mars? I have a friend with Mars in Scorpio and Saturn in Scorpio (we're both '85 babies). They are not forming a conjunction. A lot of her "lessons" and her Karma that she creates for herself is "sex related". However it's also related to money as well. Mars is early in Scorpio so it's falling in the 1st decan, in it's most natural expression of Scorpio energy. She is out of this world sex drive, and is very secretive about her sexual pursuits. She cheats on her husband a lot unfortunately.

Saturn may bring some restriction to Mars if it is in conjunction, or it might stifle Mars expression. Mars may make your Saturn feel uncomfortable, because where Mars really wants to express itself fully, Saturn is awkward about it. What house does this happen in? What is going on in your 8th house and with Pluto in your chart?

Venus in Aquarius is going to effect this too, to a certain degree. Maybe post your chart up too for more insight.

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posted October 29, 2014 01:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Also, in regards to houses....

Scorpio rules a particular KIND of sex. Scorpio rules the 8th House. The 8th House and Scorpio has to do with a soul merging deep connection kind of sex. Scorpio is about transformation of any kind. Transformation through death, transformation through sex, etc. It also rules other people's money and resources. It rules the reproductive system as well.

This is not your casual or sex for the fun of it kind of sex (more 5th House). Or sex for the pleasure of just getting in with the senses and pleasing the physical body (which would be kind of a 2nd House thing - senses, physical, pleasing the senses).

Now Mars was the initial ruler of Scorpio before Pluto was discovered, it is a "traditional" ruler. You can look at Mars to also understand the 8th house and Scorpio as well. Pluto, being a generational planet, is going to really make it's mark by what house it's located in and what planets it aspects.

So although Mars and Saturn are in Scorpio, they may not be in the 8th House. They will take on Scorpio energy & themes, but it may not be just about sex.

Now for Venus in Aquarius - that describes more of the asexual aspect in my opinion. To me, Mars and Saturn may speak to Mars wanting the sex but Saturn makes that expression difficult. Venus in Aquarius is going to be an airy, detached, expression in Venus. Connecting to others (Venus) and forming relationships kind of take on a bit of a "detached, freedom loving, independent" tone.

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posted October 29, 2014 01:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
My friend, the Scorpio girl. She have Conjunction Venus - Uranus, astrology said: Her love life is rich, with passing love affairs. She tires quickly and is scared of losing his liberty. If she marries, she will regret it. She is the eternal lover and, of course, is unfaithful if he has a serious relationship. He likes anything new. ===== Sound like her to me, she is freaky when it come to sex, she would try anything new to her husband.


And my chart, (I have alot of square, I think this is why I have so low sex drives).
It said: One may struggle (square) to find a way of integrating the strong sexual feelings one has(Mars in Scorpio) with the concept of eternal friendship in relationships(Venus in Aquarius)
So the advent of stronger feelings(Mars in Scorpio) that would involve a certain level of sexual intimacy, are rejected(square).
Venus in Aquarius squaring Mars in Scorpio suggests that there is a discomfort in involving sexual feelings/affections in love. ===== Okay, I guess all these describe exactly why I'm so lazy when it come to sex.


Yes - right there!!

I would say it's probably less "lazy" and more that your interest lies elsewhere. Every Mars in Scorpio that I have interpreted has expressed STRONG sexual drives. However, having a square creates tension between what Scorpio's intentions are and what Aquarius's intentions are. Both are "fixed" signs, and they have the power to sustain.

Aquarius in Venus, yes you made a good connection there. They seek "friendships", but a deep level of connecting (like Scorpio) will more than likely not interest them. I would watch for transits that activate this "Square". Transits will give you an idea of where you are in the square.

Take a look at your Mars/Venus midpoint. This is where your Mars and Venus meet and those two energies blend. What house does that happen in? It's going to happen in another fixed sign, either Leo or Taurus. The Venus/Mars midpoint has been coined "the point of passion" (here is a LL thread on it:http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/220271.html) - You can find this on astro.com in the "pullen astrology" area, by selecting midpoint grid. That point will be the "apex" of an invisible "t-square". When planets transit that point, or if a planet falls in that point, you can receive more insight into where you are with that mars/venus square. Where the two planets may be both directing their energy on you, wanting to express themselves fully, a third planet hitting that point may bring more insight in a way. It may in fact ignite passions. Sounds like you are leaning into your Aquarius more, so I wonder what else is going on with mars in your chart.....

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I really think you should take a look at your Venus/Mars midpoint. If you meet someone with a planet that hits this midpoint, or opposes this midpoint, they are going to effect your Square.

So, if you meet a man whose Mars opposes/conjuncts that midpoint, I would dare say your Mars in Scorpio would wake up a bit and say "heyo I might have some passion here with this guy!"

Scorpio Mars is not able to express itself fully because of the Venus Aqua square, and I honestly wonder if you have Saturn making a conjunction with it too.

So your key words in regards to your friend. He is passionate and initiates things. I wonder where his mars is, or perhaps he has a lot of planets in cardinal signs (cardinal modality initiates).

See, with a square, you have mars in scorpio coming to you and so is Venus in Aquarius. Both planets are trying to express themselves to you but they are contradicting each other.

Can you post your chart here? I'd love to have a look!

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posted October 29, 2014 01:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12th_House_Gal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You are going to share a Saturn in Scorpio similarity with anyone in that age range, so I do not think it is to blame.

Now you also talked about emotional connection. Well take a look at your Moon too. Again, house placement says a lot. It's very difficult to just pick out a few aspects and interpret them without looking at the whole picture.

Which sign rules your 7th house? And where is the ruler of that sign in your chart?

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posted October 29, 2014 02:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini30     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your friend has Sun, Moon, Mercury, Saturn, and Pluto in Scorpio.

Yeah that explains her high sex drive.

Not sure if they aspect but still being in the same sign is powerful enough.

Sun conj Pluto, Moon conj pluto are very powerful sexual aspects. Meaning they give you an intense high sex drive.

I was born in 1985 and have Saturn in Scorpio. I don't think the Saturn in Scorpio gives me my insane sex drive. My sun is in Gemini but it's in the 8th house along with Mercury. And my moon in Scorpio conjuncts my scorpio pluto. That i believe gives me the strong sensuality.

There are other aspects that give me insane energy and that is also my mars opposing my Uranus and Neptune. I'll be turning 30 next year but i feel my sex drive is actually getting better and more intense.

And although i have had casual sex in the past, nothing is better than uniting with another woman with crazy passion in the bedroom.

By the way GoingDutch, i never believe a girl has a low/no sex drive. They just need to find a man to unleash the freak out of them

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posted October 29, 2014 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well what does your friend has in MARS?
You mention she has scorpio everywhere but did not mention what sign she has in MARS.

My husband has Mars in Scorpio and I have mars in LEO. I have a much higher sex drive than he does; I also have saturn in scorpio but saturn does not rule sex so I don't think that is relevant.

For sex drive check ruler of the 5th, my 5th is ruled by Mars which is in Leo. My husband's 5th is ruled by mercury and is intercepted; he is more intellectual.

The sun is the natural ruler of the 5th house and my mars rules my 5th.

I have met people with every scorpio placement and Sun in scorpio are the ones that tend to have high sex drive not so much moon, mercury, mars or pluto in scorpio. People with mars aspecting pluto by conjunction or square probably have very high sex drives.

Also remember that scorpio is extreme and they can either be big on self control and be abstinence for a long time or go to the other extreme but I would check her mars placement and aspects to explain the high sex drive.

BTW does your own mars aspect chiron??

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Maybe you are secretly gay. One of my friends has this: venus in aquarius square Mars and Saturn and she is gay.

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posted October 29, 2014 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Please help figure out why I am so Asexual, and just can't handle intimacy. If all else fail, I just get myself half drugged, half awake, and that should do it, LOL! Not a joke. I can't even give him one kiss, that is just plaint out torturing the dude, and he still around, and just won't give him the chase, smh
I know relationship is not based on sex, but if I can't even get passed the kissing, it just NOT a healthy relationship. How to stop this Aquarius Venus Square Scorpio Mars 0.08 -191 that I have?


Here is My chart: My B-Day March 1984
Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Pisces 19.53 Ascendant Cancer 12.10
Moon Gemini 13.40 II Leo 8.26
Mercury Pisces 21.19 III Virgo 7.23
Venus Aquarius 24.45 IV Libra 9.17
Mars Scorpio 24.37 V Scorpio 11.57
Jupiter Capricorn 9.14 VI Sagittarius 12.54
Saturn Scorpio 16.12 R VII Capricorn 12.10
Uranus Sagittarius 13.32 VIII Aquarius 8.26
Neptune Capricorn 1.17 IX Pisces 7.23
Pluto Scorpio 1.47 R Midheaven Aries 9.17
Lilith Pisces 9.58 XI Taurus 11.57
Asc node Gemini 10.29 XII Gemini 12.54


Planet Aspect Planet Orb/Value
Sun Conjunction Mercury 1.26 432
Sun Trine Mars 4.44 98
Sun Trine Saturn 3.41 76
Sun Trine Ascendant 7.43 4
Moon Opposition Uranus 0.08 -236
Mercury Trine Mars 3.18 86
Mercury Trine Saturn 5.07 30
Venus Square Mars 0.08 -191
Venus Trine Pluto 7.02 15
Mars Conjunction Saturn 8.25 29
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 7.57 29
Jupiter Opposition Ascendant 2.56 -34
Jupiter Square Midheaven 0.03 -25
Saturn Trine Ascendant 4.02 20
Uranus Trine Midheaven 4.15 14
Neptune Sextile Pluto 0.30 79
912 -486 426


Well mars which rules your 5th conjuncts SATURN. How old are you? Perhaps this side of you will bloom slowly with time.

In the mean time do what feels right to you when the right time comes with the right guy perhaps you will be able to express yourself more in this sense but don't force it.

Can you post your chart?

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posted October 29, 2014 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
No! I have LOW SEX drive, NONE to be exact. You look my Aquarius venus is Squaring out my Mars. I can't even get passed a passionate kiss.
The older I get, the more I see clearly how the Venus square Mars effect me big time.

I wish I can be like my friend, eventhough she have higher sex drive than her husband, but I'm sure her husband is more HAPPY than be with a wife with No sex drive.


the mars conjunct SATURN squaring Venus I think is why.

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Sorry I am new to astrology, but how to find that? I post my chart up already, but I don't see the 'chiron' thing.

I now my Scorpio friend have high sex drive. I'm just trying to explain why I have zero sex drive, now I'm the freaky one, not her, LOL.


LOL
hahaha

I completely understand that you are trying to figure out why astrologically this is the case. It always feels good to at least pin point the reasons behind things.

Scroll to the bottom under extended chart selections at astro.com and the highlight chiron on the additional objects section box.

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Sorry I am new to astrology, but how to find that? I post my chart up already, but I don't see the 'chiron' thing.

I now my Scorpio friend have high sex drive. I'm just trying to explain why I have zero sex drive, now I'm the freaky one, not her, LOL.


You did not post your chart, you listed your aspects..posting the chart is posting the actual wheel.

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
Chart as in the "PICTURE"?
Okay, I go try, I never post picture here before.

Mars conjunct SATURN squaring Venus. === How to fix this? Or can it ever be fix at all? lol
I'm sure I was never sexually abuse, I have a long term relationship before, but ended. Then come a guy who I am sexually attracted to, but I can't seem to give him the intimacy.


Well perhaps with that guy that you feel sexually attracted to with time you will get to that point..with saturn restricting the expression of your mars which on top squares venus it will take time and work...

Perhaps you should start by been intimate with yourself only for a while and wait until you feel comfortable with your body fully. How old are you?

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:

What is the fun of intimacy, if you have to be like half drugged, half awake to get the sex going. Trust me, it not hard for an Asian girl to be passive and submissive. But I want some enjoyment out of sex, not just like 'let's get it over with' attitude, you know what I mean?


Take your time discovering on your own by been intimate with yourself what you like, how you like to be touched etc...

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