posted October 29, 2014 08:05 PM            

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Do you start ignoring them?

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posted October 29, 2014 08:16 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
I attract sooooooo much Cap energy. I'm not a Capricorn Sun but I do know for sure, based on my experiences with 3 Cap Sun guys and a Cap Sun ex-friend, that they will not hesitate to ignore you if they dislike you or feel they can't handle you. They do it so ruthlessly too, ignoring you even when you beg for their attention. They can also be very evil and vindictive. They will not hesitate to throw a back-handed, quick and curt, derogatory remark at you and watch you squirm as you try to reason with them, without then giving you the chance to do so. That is a very awful trait of theirs. I am still hopelessly attracted to them and they are definitely one of my favorite signs (though I also simultaneously hate them as well at times).

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posted October 29, 2014 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
I attract sooooooo much Cap energy. I'm not a Capricorn Sun but I do know for sure, based on my experiences with 3 Cap Sun guys and a Cap Sun ex-friend, that they will not hesitate to ignore you if they dislike you or feel they can't handle you. They do it so ruthlessly too, ignoring you even when you beg for their attention. They can also be very evil and vindictive. They will not hesitate to throw a back-handed, quick and curt, derogatory remark at you and watch you squirm as you try to reason with them, without then giving you the chance to do so. That is a very awful trait of theirs. I am still hopelessly attracted to them and they are definitely one of my favorite signs (though I also simultaneously hate them as well at times).

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posted October 29, 2014 09:14 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by PisceanDream:
[b]I attract sooooooo much Cap energy. I'm not a Capricorn Sun but I do know for sure, based on my experiences with 3 Cap Sun guys and a Cap Sun ex-friend, that they will not hesitate to ignore you if they dislike you or feel they can't handle you. They do it so ruthlessly too, ignoring you even when you beg for their attention. They can also be very evil and vindictive. They will not hesitate to throw a back-handed, quick and curt, derogatory remark at you and watch you squirm as you try to reason with them, without then giving you the chance to do so. That is a very awful trait of theirs. I am still hopelessly attracted to them and they are definitely one of my favorite signs (though I also simultaneously hate them as well at times).

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I'm not scared of them. Annoyed actually! I don't think cap ppl typically dislike me since I have do much cap energy but I'm wondering about the "can't handle you" part[/B][/QUOTE]

As in, when they feel that they can't handle your feelings or when you can't handle their coldness and start to confront/retaliate against it. I wouldn't call it "not doing as they say" so much as I would call it not acting in a way they see fit. There is an element of control but not in the Plutonian sense. They don't want to control *you* they just want your emotional expression to be controlled. It's more of making sure the waters are still as opposed to directing where the waters go and at what rate they should flow.

posted October 29, 2014 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
Do you start ignoring them?

I attract too many caps and have been wondering...

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Wondering....when they will get the hint that you have a surplus of Caps around and wish they'd take a hike?

posted October 29, 2014 09:27 PM            

It depends on what the other person did. If I just dislike them (well this hardly ever happens, I don't *just* dislike people), then I'd stay out of the way. Idk why make things harder for myself.

If they actually did something (now this has to be serious, otherwise I'd just accept that it's a part of life), I'd keep a close watch.

posted October 29, 2014 09:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Wondering....when they will get the hint that you have a surplus of Caps around and wish they'd take a hike?

Seems the problem is that you don't like them. Why not just disengage on your own terms?

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Yeah I sorta wonder the same thing.

And well,

If someone ignores you, and the person is nothing significant, then just ignore them.

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they just want your emotional expression to be controlled.

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posted October 29, 2014 09:33 PM            

That's how I was when I was younger. I stopped being that way after my Saturn return.

For the most part I stopped disliking people. Wastes too much energy, focusing on the negative. If someone annoys me in real life, I circumvent them or if I can't, will tell them straight-on what the problem is, as nicely as I can.

posted October 29, 2014 09:34 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:

It depends on what the other person did. If I just dislike them (well this hardly ever happens, I don't *just* dislike people), then I'd stay out of the way. Idk why make things harder for myself.

If they actually did something (now this has to be serious, otherwise I'd just accept that it's a part of life), I'd keep a close watch.

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posted October 29, 2014 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Actually no. People can express their emotions as they wish, if for whatever reason I don't wish to be there when they do that then I'd go somewhere else.

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posted October 29, 2014 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Having been involved heavily with Caps, this is the experience I was confronted with. They are uncomfortable with strong and passionate displays of emotion, both negative and positive. Again, they do not desire to control you but they do desire that your emotional expression is cool and contained. Usually, this going somewhere else "if [they] do not wish to be there", in my extensive experience with Caps, has almost always been a result of a) not wanting to be surrounded by someone who shows signs of emotional sloppiness and intensity b)someone who pesters them about their coldness. I've cried oceans over Capricorns to not know what I'm talking about LOL.

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While I can deal with strong displays of emotions, it's true that I sure don't enjoy it (well sometimes I do). With my friends, it's natural for me to want to be there and offer comfort. As for other people, it depends. I know that walking away doesn't exactly inspire positivity. But I have to watch out for my mental state too, so yeah if it gets too much, I'll just walk.

posted October 29, 2014 09:56 PM            

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Originally posted by PisceanDream:
Having been involved heavily with Caps, this is the experience I was confronted with. They are uncomfortable with strong and passionate displays of emotion, both negative and positive. Again, they do not desire to control you but they do desire that your emotional expression is cool and contained.

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^^ Gosh I would have said the same thing about men in general.

Capricorn emotion is like a tsunami. Most Caps that I know talk about throwing things, breaking things, turning destructive when they are p*ssed off. You don't do that when you don't care. So, for the preservation of life on earth, Capricorn evolved with a freezer switch that we can turn on when we are about to go psycho.

You don't (usually) see the psycho, you just see someone who is weirdly calm and cool.

It's better that way...

posted October 29, 2014 10:07 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Faith: Yeah, while I'm not as nice as you (I'm waiting for my saturn return, hopefully I'd be more like you after it), I think there is a number of ways to deal with things like this. And so far, it seems like accepting/letting people do what they want is the most effective way.

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Aww!

Well as you've seen I can be a serious b*tch to this day...didn't mean to make myself sound better than I am...but it's rare that I dislike someone even if I make a sharp remark.

posted October 29, 2014 10:07 PM            

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throwing things, breaking things, turning destructive

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posted October 29, 2014 11:00 PM            

With people I know (excluding my best friends), I call them afterwards.

posted October 30, 2014 01:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Wondering....when they will get the hint that you have a surplus of Caps around and wish they'd take a hike?

Seems the problem is that you don't like them. Why not just disengage on your own terms?

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Im just asking because I'm curious. I've seen on some message board the differentiation between Aqua and Cap. So I'm asking to see if maybe be even *I do it too. So this is for self-awareness as well. I think the feminine signs are harder to read.

I am just starting to go back to more "fundamental" parts of astrology I guess. And I'm taking sun signs more seriously than I used to...

posted October 30, 2014 07:09 AM            

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Calm down Faith!

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LOL, why do you imagine I wasn't calm? Nevermind, I don't care.

Hope you figure out what you're curious about.

posted October 30, 2014 07:11 AM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:
Sometimes I do this, but always in the shed. Where no one has to suffer seeing me. Which is why I don't get why sometimes I'm expected to sit through others' crazy displays. I'd start to wonder "Do they not care about how all this makes me feel?"

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Exactly.

posted October 30, 2014 08:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
LOL, why do you imagine I wasn't calm? Nevermind, I don't care.

Hope you figure out what you're curious about.

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