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Topic: VERY charming friendly manipulative user
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1582 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2014 08:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by florence: Actually my only reference is a girl I worked with who did exactly as described and I could not recall if she was sag or Scorpio so must have been on the cusp .. I think though she was Scorpio but she had a sag bounce to her. I would not be surprised if she had a Libra asc though.An Aries sun with sun opp Pluto told me he used charm in a manipulative way at work and one example of how it was really intricate and Machiavellian considering what he managed to do
Actually now that I think about it more I could see a Sag with a Libra asc coming across as those cheesy salesmen types, lol. I wish I were better at charming people or getting them to do what I want. I'm actually terrible at that. Ugh.
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bansheequeen Knowflake Posts: 1433 From: Beachville, USA Registered: Jan 2012
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posted October 31, 2014 10:24 AM
So I guess it would be libras with a scorpio influence. How are you supposed to win thier game? If I call them out, then I'll be the one outted bcause they are so sweet and charming and friendly. But I hate fakeness and I just hate people that behave like that so there's no way I'm going to play along. He also tries extra hard to win me over because I th ink he can't stand that a girl in this world isn't attracted to him.It's funny. I dated a libra sun and mars with scorp moon rising pluto and venus. He was so toxic. Would have been more toxic if I had feelings for him. Since I didn't feel as deeply for him he tried to ruin my life. And would try to physically hurt me. Terrible person. But I think it was really a narcissistic desire that made him want to win me over. Like ego validation. IP: Logged |
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 867 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 31, 2014 12:59 PM
Actually, air signs are the less interested in material 'achivements'. ----I read this thread yesterday, and I wasn't sure about taking part in stereotypical descriptions. To make it clear, placements do only take a small relevance about 'defining' one person's life, personality or behavior. * Houses, Aspects between houses and also House-Lords/Rulers are the most relevant things to look at in a natal. ------------ I have to say that personally, I agree with these 2 comments. quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Hmmm Mars in Scorpio with a full 5th House
quote: Originally posted by Odette: 1. Taurus or Cancer Moon afflicted... 2. Moon/Pluto or Venus/Pluto aspects
Both make sense for me, But I'd like to add a couple of things. It looks like we're missing the MC (as an angle) or just the 10th house. Moon/Pluto and Venus/Pluto certainly talks about some kind of fanatism, devotion and mesmerizing feelings. Sounds more like 'romance aspects' for me. ========================== So, to give a possible explanation of this kind of behavior... More complex examples would be: *Moon or Venus as Lords of 10th House and also placed in the 10th house. *Highly aspected by Pluto ------------- North Node in 10th/6th houses ------------- Adding to Ms Ami Anne's example: A packed 5th house in Scorpio with Mars included. With that Mars acting as Lord of 10th house. Similar influences would be: Lords of 10th (MC) placed in Romance (5th) or Partnerships (7th) Houses. Highly or moderately aspected. Oh and... I feel kind of curious about everyone picking Libra. (??????????) Libras tend to be the less successful in a Job-environment. - Statistically speaking, of course. Libra rules 7th Not 10th It's a 'love sign' but not a Material one. Considerable amounts of Earth &/or water would be needed to change that. That would be all, folks! Bye!
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1582 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2014 02:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by bansheequeen: So I guess it would be libras with a scorpio influence. How are you supposed to win thier game? If I call them out, then I'll be the one outted bcause they are so sweet and charming and friendly. But I hate fakeness and I just hate people that behave like that so there's no way I'm going to play along. He also tries extra hard to win me over because I th ink he can't stand that a girl in this world isn't attracted to him.It's funny. I dated a libra sun and mars with scorp moon rising pluto and venus. He was so toxic. Would have been more toxic if I had feelings for him. Since I didn't feel as deeply for him he tried to ruin my life. And would try to physically hurt me. Terrible person. But I think it was really a narcissistic desire that made him want to win me over. Like ego validation.
Leo moon! They love that females flock all over them and get annoyed when they don't. The problem with winning at his own game is that you hate being fake. I'd bet flattering him would totally do it. But if you can't lie and tell him how great he is while feeling the opposite, it isn't going to work. IP: Logged |
LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1582 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2014 02:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by GemBird82: Actually, air signs are the less interested in material 'achivements'. ----I read this thread yesterday, and I wasn't sure about taking part in stereotypical descriptions. To make it clear, placements do only take a small relevance about 'defining' one person's life, personality or behavior. * Houses, Aspects between houses and also House-Lords/Rulers are the most relevant things to look at in a natal. ------------ I have to say that personally, I agree with these 2 comments. Both make sense for me, But I'd like to add a couple of things. It looks like we're missing the MC (as an angle) or just the 10th house. Moon/Pluto and Venus/Pluto certainly talks about some kind of fanatism, devotion and mesmerizing feelings. Sounds more like 'romance aspects' for me. ========================== So, to give a possible explanation of this kind of behavior... More complex examples would be: *Moon or Venus as Lords of 10th House and also placed in the 10th house. *Highly aspected by Pluto ------------- North Node in 10th/6th houses ------------- Adding to Ms Ami Anne's example: A packed 5th house in Scorpio with Mars included. With that Mars acting as Lord of 10th house. Similar influences would be: Lords of 10th (MC) placed in Romance (5th) or Partnerships (7th) Houses. Highly or moderately aspected. Oh and... I feel kind of curious about everyone picking Libra. (??????????) Libras tend to be the less successful in a Job-environment. - Statistically speaking, of course. Libra rules 7th Not 10th It's a 'love sign' but not a Material one. Considerable amounts of Earth &/or water would be needed to change that. That would be all, folks! Bye!
The only thing is she didn't mention he's particularly successful in his job/career specifically. Maybe he is. But she's talking about how he interacts with people. I think there is a subtle different.
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GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 867 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted October 31, 2014 02:36 PM
^ I was talking about that kind of interaction. If you read again, you'll notice that I was following explanations previously mentioned about... this 'peculiar case'.Which may be related to topics like: * Need for acceptance. * Need of recognition. * Association (partnership) with those who can 'Help you' to get an improvement in your career and goals. (Where in some cases the method used doesn't really matter). * Subsistence Economy. * Sometimes sucess above morals. * Appearance * (all this) In the work-environment, of course. ^ Everything related to the tangible World. Keyword: material hmm... Sorry if it wasn't clear enough. My fault. I have many weapons, but sometimes I lack the accuracy to fire.
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LucieLemonade Knowflake Posts: 1582 From: Registered: Sep 2013
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posted October 31, 2014 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by GemBird82:
hmm... Sorry if it wasn't clear enough. My fault. I have many weapons, but sometimes I lack the accuracy to fire.
Nah. It was probably me. There was a lot there!
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Leorpio Knowflake Posts: 695 From: Cypress Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 31, 2014 04:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by LucieLemonade: Leo moon! They love that females flock all over them and get annoyed when they don't. The problem with winning at his own game is that you hate being fake. I'd bet flattering him would totally do it. But if you can't lie and tell him how great he is while feeling the opposite, it isn't going to work.
It works both ways. My ex is a Leo moon and she looooves attention from guys. I know another girl with the same sun and moon as her and she also loves attention from guys lol.
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Nine Moderator Posts: 2473 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted October 31, 2014 10:24 PM
quote: Originally posted by Leorpio: It works both ways. My ex is a Leo moon and she looooves attention from guys. I know another girl with the same sun and moon as her and she also loves attention from guys lol.
Same goes for people born on the 1, 10, 19th, 28, or a #1 lifepath. They get more than annoyed, they can get physical when ignored. I speak from experience with more than a handful of these people - I know how to **** them off. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10582 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted October 31, 2014 11:27 PM
Who cares what anyone else in the office this ks of you for getting mad at someone YOU don't like. Maybe other people feel the same way but wonder the same thing, so they just go along with it.Someone I found untrustworthy was Aries Sun, Sag Moon. Two like that actually, and the latter with Venus in Pisces. Leo Moon may have ulterior motives but you'll generally see that more when its combined with a cardinal placement. Specifically Cancer or Libra. Geminis change their mind but they're not sweet...at least that's not what I've seen. IP: Logged |
MorpHnStorM Knowflake Posts: 374 From: Registered: Oct 2013
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posted November 01, 2014 02:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine: Same goes for people born on the 1, 10, 19th, 28, or a #1 lifepath. They get more than annoyed, they can get physical when ignored.
Actually, that kind of attention makes me uncomfortable; I am highly introverted and sensitive to energy...I don't like being the center of attention under any circumstance, and the only time I'll "get physical" is if someone is physically harassing/threatening me. IP: Logged |
Lonake Knowflake Posts: 9947 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 01, 2014 02:06 AM
Sounds like Venus connected to the outer planets.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 10582 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 01, 2014 03:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Lonake: Sounds like Venus connected to the outer planets.
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