posted November 03, 2014 08:59 AM            

I really think it's a tricky placement this one, but I dont think it makes people a cheater at all! In the contrary I think it's more about having a unique relationship compared to those in the persons surroundings...
I think they need to feel that the relationship is out of the ordinary in some way, and that they are not bored.
It really does put a pressure on our shoulders, cause how can we know what they want?

posted November 03, 2014 09:41 AM              

I see it as energies and each has many faces of expression that the native can choose to use for expressing that energy.

posted November 04, 2014 03:12 AM            

And then I was with a partner, a woman, and a counselor failed to do anything to help us and then I saw a psychic fair was in town. Normally those aren't the best places to go looking for psychics as it's more of a carnival with the actors and entertainers outperforming the real deal but in this case it was lucky...one was left alone and I also liked that she wasn't being all Barnum. I asked her to do our synastry and help us connect better and she was so detailed and impressive that even my skeptical girlfriend thawed to her. And she wasn't trying to stoke our egos or saying the same trite things the fake psychics and diviners did, she shared some harsh truths at times that we recognized as true already. She even said that our charts was such that we should consider only being a fling rather than trying to make it permanent. As it turned out she was absolutely right.

That got me into astrology again so I took it up off and on for years. I experimented with friends and even the skeptics were impressed, though the skeptics would offer possible explanations for it. One chart was so incredibly conflicted that generated conflicting energies (one would make her want to be very outgoing while another made her very introverted, for example) that I was at a loss. Had I not known her I couldn't have done anything with it, but having known her a bit I was able to figure out how these played out and what impressed her was my describing what it was like to EXPERIENCE these things subjectively from her point of view...she asked me more questions after and was no longer skeptical.

But as I say, off and on...about 14 years now. I can scarcely believe it was that long ago. A lot has happened in my life, it's been a wild ride and I've changed a lot (Scorpio Jupiter seems to make me change whether I want to or not) so I guess it does make it seem like it wasn't that long...forgive me if I'm getting a bit wistful, but I've been thinking of the past a lot lately and it's after midnight for me.

posted November 04, 2014 08:56 AM            

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posted November 04, 2014 10:38 AM            

I know that both of you live in rough neighborhood and survive unpleasant childhood. Psychologically speaking, there are tendency to repeat pattern like cheating, abuse, etc, but I know personally fine people who rise from that rough childhood/neighborhood. You don't need to be so hard on yourself

posted November 04, 2014 02:52 PM            

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i got this reading from someone
...with his Uranus in his 7th house, "his significant relationship will be non-manogamous... if you are looking for a monagamous relationship, he is not the one."

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I would never make such a statement, even if I had done the chart myself and validated it as accurately containing Uranus in the 7th.

I agree with Ami - this is a factor that indicates more looseness or ups-n-downs in relationship. It can means someone who travels and is on the road due to their work, like a traveling musician or salesman, etc.

I have also learned from my synastry/relationship consults that it is not my role to say 'not the one' -- no matter how harmful the relationship might be. I can describe the potential dynamic if the relationship goes forward, but 'not the one' is to put myself in the position of God or ruler of the person's life. I am not there to set limits for them, but to inform. I know it is a boost to the astrologer's ego to feel that authority from their knowledge, but I believe it is misplaced.

Equating Uranus in 7th house as 'non-monogamous' is cookbook astrology you need better than that if you consult with an astrologer -- especially if you've paid them. And this may be one of those 'pay for what you get' situations. No pay, no worth.

I'm not a fan of 3rd party birth chart interpretations of private persons whose lives are not on display and in public record. There is no integrity factor built in to the consult. If it is not your chart, you are not in a position to say, "No, I'm not like that." The astrologer is also not in the positions to ask directly to verify something that appears to be true.

Some 'astrologers' don't bother to take the time to validate a person's chart before making pronouncements upon them or their life. Astrology in this way is too often used for 'quick-n-easy knowledge.' So often it falls short of truthfulness and wisdom.

What is more helpful to you is to learn YOUR chart and what it says about YOUR tendencies in relationship. Astrology is not used effectively when you engage in circuitous approaches of trying to see into someone else that you are not yet in relationship with or have not established trust with. Unless you first do that, any old astrologer's opinion can f#@k with your mind.

Don't do that to yourself.

Astrology is a useless tool if it is used for such wild speculations.

REMINDER: birth charts show a *starting* place with many potentials, some of which many individuals never develop because of various reasons, their personal growth, choices, commitments, etc.

So unless an astrologer knows how to synthesize these factors into a subtle psychology and first describe the simple underlying energetics, they are going to be wrong about the character of many people, mislead third parties about others and generally add anxiety and misunderstanding into the mixture, rather than create clarity.

posted November 05, 2014 12:38 AM            

Whether or not he accept his step dad is his decision. Other might think it's immature, but maybe it's a big deal for him, one that he have to deal on his own.

posted May 24, 2020 08:19 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Lol sorry my husband has Uranus conjunct Mars tight on the DC opposing his chiron and squaring his venus and he is the most faithful guy I have ever met.

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posted July 26, 2020 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Lol sorry my husband has Uranus conjunct Mars tight on the DC opposing his chiron and squaring his venus and he is the most faithful guy I have ever met.

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posted July 26, 2020 10:18 PM            

As long as people are honest and open about what their needs are, I don't consider them to be "cheaters."

I had a good friend with Uranus in the 7H. He is polyamorous, which is vastly different than "cheating."