posted November 01, 2014 02:36 AM            

If he a cheater or not ? It is totally not depend on his chart but it 's largely depend on how he 's raised , how he value the love relationship, what kind of his current friends that he hang out with .We both growing up in a traditional monogamous family , so we DON'T have multiple partner. My current relationship which maybe about to break last almost 8th year with full fidelity . My brother is now around 30 years old , he had only 3 gf. in his life . He married the first gf . from high school , who off and on to his life , they break-up then make -up and so on .. She is Aqua Ac and capricorn-aqua trait .

When someone has uranus in his 7th , it doesn't always that he will cheat . There 're so many meaning to interprete with the uranion energy i.e .
- atleast , his spous should has uranion trait.
- his love life will have "off and on " quality ie. the spous may not live together or they will keep coming back and forth , or a hot and cold relationship.
- he may fall 'n to some one who is totally different form him , ie. foreighner , activist .
- he may have multiple partner which doesn't mean it definitly is .
- his friend and society is so important than anythings , because aqua ruled 11th , and you should be fit in his society too.
- he may have an unconventional thought about marriage.

And so on...
I think it's largely depend on individual , the planet doesn't have to manifest all of those quality .

What is your natal placement anyway?
Are you aqua trait ?

posted November 01, 2014 03:56 AM              

Moving on...

posted November 01, 2014 01:19 PM            

Have you asked him?

I have a friend with Uranus in the 7th and moon opposite sun, merc and venus and a Taurus asc. He doesn't cheat when he decides he wants to commit to someone.

Sure he has had a looooot of girlfriends in his life. But when he's been committed, he's been committed. And it's not always him who has ended the relationship.

posted November 01, 2014 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I think you are jumping the gun here assuming that he will (or will not cheat) and/or that he wants any sort of polygamous relationship.

Have you asked him?

I have a friend with Uranus in the 7th and moon opposite sun, merc and venus and a Taurus asc. He doesn't cheat when he decides he wants to commit to someone.

Sure he has had a looooot of girlfriends in his life. But when he's been committed, he's been committed. And it's not always him who has ended the relationship.

Plus the chart has Saturn in the 7th. They tend to be committed.

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posted November 01, 2014 11:28 PM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:

ok this is a deal breaker right there. cheats on the side? and bring STD home to me? smh, DEAL BREAKER!
Who need commitment from a man when he cheating around behind your back?

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I am not saying that this will be the case with him as you would notice if you read the rest I wrote; its just one way that it could go but that is why you have to get to KNOW HIM; astrology is very dynamic and multidimensional.

If his focus is having kids and spending time with his kids and or working on hobbies, creating art or managing his own business the energy won't go to having affairs on the side.

Get to know him and follow your instincts. I knew my husband was not the cheating type relatively quickly just by getting to know him and following my instincts and he has supposedly markers for it astrologically. He is intellectual and his focus are his hobbies that he works towards turning into a business.

posted November 01, 2014 11:47 PM            

And I know a Gemini ASC, they're supposed to keep their youthful appearances, yet she doesn't. 'Course given how stressful her life has been perhaps she'd look even older without it.

Some remark on how the faded photographs of my granny (Aries sun, Gemini ASC) as a hippie look almost like me (Libra on the Scorpio cusp sun, Leo ASC)...her hair is lighter and she has fewer freckles but same smile, same eyes, one mentioned they could believe I went back in time to become my own grandmother. That said, we've changed since then. Granny smokes and is exposed to environmental extremes more than I am and eats differently. I'm more mindful, get a bit more protection, and I exercise regularly without smoking. I'd say we started out with similar potential (one given by genetics and further shaped by environment, not astrology) but our potential has manifested in different forms.

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I have Pisces Sun, Gemini Moon, Cancer Rising, Aquarius Venus.

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posted November 02, 2014 01:28 AM            

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posted November 02, 2014 02:18 AM            

And when considering placements, remember they all exert an influence...sometimes it's like how when you mix hot water with cold you get lukewarm, these placements put in different energy that modify each other...plus, there are other forces outside of astrology that can shape how that energy manifests. And it's possible to swim against the tides pulling at you with effort (unless it's a really strong riptide).