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Topic: Aqua mars and venus men
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted November 13, 2014 07:25 PM
  
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Originally posted by Nine:
^^That's why you have so many issues in your love life. [QUOTE]Maybe most people are thinking the Aqua person is cold when in reality they're just not that into them? But it might be different with someone wth moon or venus is aqua.
Nah, they're cold. I know this because when I pull away having been frost-bitten, they warm up, seek me out, make themself available. I am Venus in Taurus, so perhaps that's the source of "our" problems. This ^^ Venus in Aquarius person I'm dealing with is closest with a Sun in Aquarius & another person with Moon in Aquarius. These are the folk they get on with effortlessly. [/QUOTE]
It is nine... Women my age tend to like guys who play mindgames and keep them at arms length. I'm not like that.
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted November 13, 2014 07:35 PM
Haha seriously.... I don't understand where the anti-aquarius male sentiment comes from. But i'll entertain this nonsense. I guess I could be considered cold by women who are incredibly emotionally needy. But women like that would consider any man cold. With women like that you can't give them enough attention or love, they are emotional bottomless pits. I'm starting to think that the anti-aquarius girls are that type of woman. I have dealt with those types before and it's suffocating. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 13, 2014 08:39 PM
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I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
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posted November 14, 2014 06:21 AM
I was teasing. ------------------
I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 14, 2014 09:41 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
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Sorry, but FWB is pathetic, creepy even - it's just a passing contemporary brand. New Age and Aqua is about spirituality, spiritual sex, and FWB is the opposite of that. My experience with Aqua is that, among other things, they fear co-dependency - they take it as a sign of "loosing freedom". They also fear permanence and death - a typical Aqua statement, uncosciuous or not: "If I realize there's only one person for me and that person disappears or abandons me, I'll probably die" Strangely, I heard this from several Aqua, men and women. Aqua is a very intelligent sign, with a strong sense of permanence vs. impermanence, freedom vs dependency etc. They prefer intellectual exchanges to cuddling and constant physical contact and display of affection. But you need more than one Aqua placement for that, and not necessarily Venus. The Moon may change the display of affection a lot. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 14, 2014 10:09 AM
LeeLoo - Could you please unquote me?
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I'm so cappy
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From: Death Star
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posted November 14, 2014 10:13 AM
Lee  I don't know how people get over losing their SOs to death. Especially if they pair up again after a year or less which makes me wonder if they loved at all. I wouldn't even be functional by then. I could put myself together after being cheated on or whatever but if I had a fairytale relationship and my weirdmate died I'd be in dust. Yeah, I believe in souls, higher dimensions and stuff but thinking he still exists somewhere out there wouldn't help me much. I'd be dying of sorrow and longing. Ugh, phuck this $hit. ------------------
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bansheequeen
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posted November 14, 2014 10:18 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
My experience with Aqua is that, among other things, they fear co-dependency - they take it as a sign of "loosing freedom". They also fear permanence and death - a typical Aqua statement, uncosciuous or not: "If I realize there's only one person for me and that person disappears or abandons me, I'll probably die" Strangely, I heard this from several Aqua, men and women.
This is it for me. Aqua sun an mercury. I'm slowly learning through life that you can't ever depend fully on one person. But I don't think that's reality. I'm coming to realize that putting all my trust in one person is wrong because if they abanoned me you're right. I probably might just die. If I keep my distance and keep in my mind they'll leave me anyway I probably wont get as hurt. I almost trusted people to that point before but they've always ****** up. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted November 14, 2014 10:20 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Lee I don't know how people get over losing their SOs to death. Especially if they pair up again after a year or less which makes me wonder if they loved at all. I wouldn't even be functional by then. I could put myself together after being cheated on or whatever but if I had a fairytale relationship and my weirdmate died I'd be in dust. Yeah, I believe in souls, higher dimensions and stuff but thinking he still exists somewhere out there wouldn't help me much. I'd be dying of sorrow and longing. Ugh, phuck this $hit.
This is a huge reason why I don't think I could ever trust anyone enough to have the love I want. I'm pretty sure if I died my boyfriend would be elbow deep in ***** a month later. And that's not to talk him down, I think that about all men. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 17110
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 14, 2014 10:35 AM
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Originally posted by Odette:
LeeLoo - Could you please unquote me?
Thank you
Really? Why? You don't stand by it? 
Done! 
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LeeLoo2014
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From: Venus cornering Neptune
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posted November 14, 2014 10:37 AM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Lee I don't know how people get over losing their SOs to death. Especially if they pair up again after a year or less which makes me wonder if they loved at all. I wouldn't even be functional by then. I could put myself together after being cheated on or whatever but if I had a fairytale relationship and my weirdmate died I'd be in dust. Yeah, I believe in souls, higher dimensions and stuff but thinking he still exists somewhere out there wouldn't help me much. I'd be dying of sorrow and longing. Ugh, phuck this $hit.
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LeeLoo2014
Knowflake Posts: 17110
From: Venus cornering Neptune
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted November 14, 2014 10:40 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
If I keep my distance and keep in my mind they'll leave me anyway I probably wont get as hurt.
Wow...you're not gonna believe it how often I heard this from Aqua when they REALLY open up to you!!
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Odette
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posted November 14, 2014 10:50 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Really? Why? You don't stand by it?
Done!
Thanks. I'll just stir clear of posting on Aquarius threads. My breakup is too recent. I don't think I'm really ready to talk about Aquarius-ness.
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aquaguy91
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From: Wankety Wankerson
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posted November 14, 2014 11:01 AM
Odette,
Are you angry at all aqua men right now?  IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 14, 2014 11:44 AM
^^ No.. LoL
I'm not angry at him either. I have no reason at all to be angry. I'm just... ya... hurt and unsure about why certain things happen the way they do. I guess there's a lesson in everything though. IP: Logged |
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