posted November 19, 2014 08:38 AM            

I need some space from him. I feel like if he doesn't know what he wants then he shouldn't get the privilege of having me around while he figures it out. That may sound snarky, but it is what it is at this point. He made this bed.

Sis, man...I'm sorry This Scorp has never proposed a relationship or marriage to me. He always says "he doesn't know" lol.

posted March 05, 2015 06:21 AM              

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Originally posted by moonstruck87:
how does that go over? I'm not doing it to play games, I really needed to have some space from his extremes

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posted March 05, 2015 10:28 AM            

Going through the process from moving on from an ex. He's a Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Mars Pluto, and rising.

Though I am no where near ready to start dating and such. I have the future in mind.
He was a huge part of my life, and that shows on my fb. There are things on my fb that I don't know how to remove. Down the road I'm hoping a computer wiz can help me. I do NOT want to go to HIM to get it off my FB.

The past cannot be erased. But a few days ago I decided if a new guy shows interest in me and sees all the old pictures of us, that would make potential new guy uncomfortable. So I deleted some pictures in my profile and mobile pics category. It felt good, and it really doesn't cause a scene on the exes part. It's not like he gets notifications like "ex girl just deleted photos of you"

We are also on a group chat, I've been wanting to leave it since he dumped me, but it will "make a scene." Lately I've just been ignoring the group. I just don't see the point.

Ex says he wants to be friends. Like everyone else I'm kind of like "yeah right." I'm open minded but skeptical. I'm the type that usually, if I've been with someone longer than a month. I pretty much cut off all contact.

Lately I've been thinking of all the ways "he did me wrong" and the urge to cut him out of my fb life more has been strong. The more I'm reminded of this the more I want to escape.

posted March 05, 2015 11:34 AM            

I know exactly what you are going through, and I won't lie, when I went through it and came out, I feel likes its was at least the 2nd hardest thing I have ever done in my life.

But I won't let you know of my own experience because I don't think it will be of much help. I say this because I am not a Scorpio, the only placement I have in relation is a 7th house Pluto. BUT my best friend who is a Scorpio sun and moon had a pretty rough break up with her ex Scorpio sun and mars guy. I feel like Scorpio on Scorpio break ups are even more intense then just a one sided Scorpio break up. So I will tell you what she had to do. Basically your instincts are right, you need to completely cut him off. The great thing about you Scorpios is that you guys embody 'transformation'. Once you cut him off completely, you will begin to transform again all anew, and you will feel a big weight life off of your shoulders in time, I promise. Its one of the enviable traits you guys posses :0), this type of a fresh beginning. The only rocky part is when he will (and he most likely will) try to reach out to you again. When this happened to my friend, and it did happen in person and via email, it was like an intense power struggle like I have never seen before. The only way she ended it was to stop all the contact (again and for good), and to leave it off on a neutral/positive message. This was hard because both of them being so Scorpio wanted that 'last word'. So she sent her last message, and never entertained the idea of replying again to his reply. Now she barley ever thinks of that guy, and when she does she isn't angry/sad anymore. Another thing, and I can understand this because of the 7th house Pluto, embrace the person you have become BECAUSE this relationship happened. It may be some good change within all the bad. Im sure you are much stronger now. Plutonic relationships are transformative experiences more than the usual ones. One rarely leaves them the same person. Embrace the good change that has come from your time together. Use the bad change to become stronger.

posted March 06, 2015 11:02 AM            

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Saturday night he was accusing me of being vague/lying about having another guy (We're not a couple, mind you and I told him I am keeping my options open)

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Sunday, after asking to see me, he changed his mind and seemed apathetic

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I am thoroughly frustrated & I have felt like withdrawing is in order to regain some perspective & not to acknowledge his bad behavior

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posted March 07, 2015 07:38 AM            

Nothing ever progressed between me and the scorpio

He still texts me and he's still an idiot, asking me about what I'm doing etc but now I rarely answer and am rarely phased by his antics

posted March 07, 2015 11:24 AM            

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Originally posted by SaturnFan:
Stawr,
Not astrology related, but you can remove ANYTHING you wish from your Facebook profile, or if you don't want to delete it you can at least hide it and decide who from your FB friends can see what. You have full control of your FB profile and can decide what stay on it. Happy to give you tips if/when needed.

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Thank you SaturnFan, yeah there are a few things that I cannot figure out. My best friend said she would help me though.

posted March 09, 2015 04:42 AM            

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hi im a scorpio male and saying "keep your options open". is a good way to push a scorpio away we dont want ppl that wanna play around. for me i would not waste my time with a girl that said that to me. us scorpio males want to know u like us and want to be with us before we trust you with our heart and if your keeping your options open we wont trust you.

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posted March 09, 2015 05:15 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
But what IS wrong with keeping your options open? You never ever wanna put all your eggs in one basket, at least not in the beginning anyway. But I guess for furture reference if you're dealing w/a Scorp male keep that bit of info to yourself cuz apparently they can't handle it. Well to be honest no woman needs to disclose if she's seeing other men, especially in the beginning. Let them think what they want until you know for sure he's the ONE. I mean it's pretty much a guarantee he's keeping HIS options open. Never assume you're the only game in town ladies cuz chances are you're not.

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posted March 09, 2015 12:55 PM            

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there is nothing wrong with keeping your options open at the start maybe in the first few dates but to us scopios if we have been seeing you for awhile and your still keeping your options open then thats a big turn of and why would we trust someone like that. i wouild not open up much to the person im dating unless i know im the only one im sun scorpio venus conjunt pluto in scorpio and in 8th house stellium. i dont get jealous these days my last gf had lots of guy mates and it never bothered me.... had to learn from when i was younger and lots a meditation .

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posted March 09, 2015 01:38 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
But what IS wrong with keeping your options open? You never ever wanna put all your eggs in one basket, at least not in the beginning anyway. But I guess for furture reference if you're dealing w/a Scorp male keep that bit of info to yourself cuz apparently they can't handle it. Well to be honest no woman needs to disclose if she's seeing other men, especially in the beginning. Let them think what they want until you know for sure he's the ONE. I mean it's pretty much a guarantee he's keeping HIS options open. Never assume you're the only game in town ladies cuz chances are you're not.

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