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Topic: Is Scorpio Interested? How will I know?
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EmGem
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posted January 13, 2017 05:10 AM
  
Nine!
How'd you go with this Scorpio/Libra?? I'm dealing with a Libra/Scorpio and I'm confused AF! First yes all interested and flirty with all the innuendos, we meet, he's nervous as anything! Intense sexy eye contact (his words). Just wanted to rip my clothes off (again his words). Tells me all this after encounter. And now I get short sentences out of him and he's gone quiet. We didn't kiss or anything.
My clairevoyant thinks he's been in love with me since I met him 10 years ago! Is this what an interested scorp mars/Venus/moon/Uranus CONJUNCT my ASC does?! IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 13, 2017 09:18 AM
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How'd you go with this Scorpio/Libra??
I went on vacay, came back and Scorpio was gone. Turns out on the Tuesday, 2nd day of my vacay, Scoprio called in and said he was moving far away. Yep, that's how that ended. IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 13, 2017 09:21 AM
^^ I've heard they have a moody/quiet phase in the beginning. This is to test your level of interest. Perhaps that is yours is going through.IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted January 13, 2017 05:16 PM
Damn sorry it ended so abruptly 😐Hmmmm he already knows I'm interested though, I flirt with him and all that. I initiate messaging the last few times so wtf! I'm now waiting for him to come to me but it's really frustrating. He's still liking my posts so... IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 13, 2017 05:32 PM
Libras are different in their approach. I expect Libra to be more open and straight forward. Even with all his Scorpio planets, I don't expect a Libra to play too many games if interested.IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted January 13, 2017 05:53 PM
why is Dancing Maenad banned? how can anyone ban the raving one dancing in the nude?! and a good astrologer to boot!IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 13, 2017 06:47 PM
Banned? Really?Could've been the nudity. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted January 13, 2017 06:58 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
Libras are different in their approach. I expect Libra to be more open and straight forward. Even with all his Scorpio planets, I don't expect a Libra to play too many games if interested.
Well I hate game playing so I hope you're right lol.
He might be struggling between his head and his heart with this one. He's been so used to the crash and burn type relationships but I know he doesn't want that with me because we've known each other for so long.
I'll let him process and come to me. Let it go to let it be and unfold.
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Nine
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posted January 13, 2017 10:12 PM
To memory, I've known four Libras w/ Venus in Scorpio (men). Two were in LTR. The exception were the ones with Moon in Leo.There was also a Sagittarius w/ Libra Asc, Venus in Scorpio who was also in a LTR. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted January 13, 2017 11:25 PM
What's LTR?!IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted January 14, 2017 03:08 AM
Oh! Long term relationships IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 14, 2017 05:31 AM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
why is Dancing Maenad banned? how can anyone ban the raving one dancing in the nude?! and a good astrologer to boot!
She didn't get banned, she left LL a while back, probably requested to get unregistered. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted January 14, 2017 10:00 AM
A Scorpio who likes you, you'll know. I'd say a solid 9 out of 10 times.
And Libras are a *whole* different can of worms. More straightforward? Certainly not in my experience and from what I've seen with other people in my life. Those are the real "fence-sitters" who can't seem to make up their mind a lot of the time. Especially if they have very discordant elements in their charts (God forbid they have a Moon/Venus square).
So, a Libra with Scorpio stuff will be very different from a Scorpio with Libra stuff. Don't underestimate the power of the Sun (especially in the charts of males). IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted January 14, 2017 10:13 AM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
why is Dancing Maenad banned? how can anyone ban the raving one dancing in the nude?! and a good astrologer to boot!
She probably asked for her account to be deleted. I was just wondering what happened to hanna. IP: Logged |
soren
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posted January 14, 2017 10:22 AM
its for when people decide to let go of the "crutch" lindaland. it's not a crutch to most, it's a challenge. that's the only reason i'm still here. if it was easy, i would have moved on to further development. it's a chellenging process. growing incredibly. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted January 14, 2017 10:28 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
A Scorpio who likes you, you'll know. I'd say a solid 9 out of 10 times.
And Libras are a *whole* different can of worms. More straightforward? Certainly not in my experience and from what I've seen with other people in my life. Those are the real "fence-sitters" who can't seem to make up their mind a lot of the time. Especially if they have very discordant elements in their charts (God forbid they have a Moon/Venus square).
So, a Libra with Scorpio stuff will be very different from a Scorpio with Libra stuff. Don't underestimate the power of the Sun (especially in the charts of males).
^ Seconded, all of it.
That's the one thing that Scorpios never make you doubt - how much they're into you. Even through the "game-playing" phase, if at all there is one. It'll be pretty obvious. In fact, they're masters of the chase and the hardest to get away from, IME. The shy ones will find all sorts of excuses to be near you and get rid of "others". The not-so-shy ones will woo the living daylights out of you. IP: Logged |
Elysia
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posted January 14, 2017 10:30 AM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
She didn't get banned, she left LL a while back, probably requested to get unregistered.
Why'd she leave? :/ IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted January 14, 2017 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
A Scorpio who likes you, you'll know. I'd say a solid 9 out of 10 times.
And Libras are a *whole* different can of worms. More straightforward? Certainly not in my experience and from what I've seen with other people in my life. Those are the real "fence-sitters" who can't seem to make up their mind a lot of the time. Especially if they have very discordant elements in their charts (God forbid they have a Moon/Venus square).
So, a Libra with Scorpio stuff will be very different from a Scorpio with Libra stuff. Don't underestimate the power of the Sun (especially in the charts of males).
Doux tell me more, I'm intrigued. This guy in question has Venus/mars/Uranus conjunction in Scorpio and the moon is possibly conjunct Venus too. Libra sun/merc/Pluto. As I said his Scorpio stellium conjuncts my ASC.
I know he has these deep feelings for me. He spilled everything like a volcano before we met up and then when we saw each other he was so so nervous. Couldn't maintain eye contact - was too intense.
Then he went on to tell me straight after how he wanted to rip my clothes off but managed to behave himself etc etc. then the following days he went quiet. I could hardly get a sentence out of him.
I met him 10 years ago when I was with mybthen bf. But the energy between us has always been palpable. I just had to shove it to the back of my mind. Every time we'd see each other there was this thing there. I got married some years later then divorced early last year and after that he kept popping up and sending me sweet messages. He is an actor and wants to live in LA so I think maybe that might be causing this fence sitting?
I so want to message him again but I know I gotta leave him be and come to me when he's ready. At least I think?! I don't want to be the aggressor.
Do they EVER end up making up their mind?? IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted January 14, 2017 07:39 PM
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And Libras are a *whole* different can of worms. More straightforward? Certainly not in my experience and from what I've seen with other people in my life. Those are the real "fence-sitters" who can't seem to make up their mind a lot of the time. Especially if they have very discordant elements in their charts (God forbid they have a Moon/Venus square...
I have to disagree with Doux Reve here. Libra is a cardinal, masculine sign. That means something. Libra needs no help in initiating or asserting themselves. If Libra wants it, Libra goes after it. Further, Libra is the sign of relationships. While they may be indecisive in other areas of their lives, there is never hesitation where relationships are concerned. Libra is either wooing you into a romance, or giving you the green-light to woo them. The thing with Libra is they can [s]keep you on a string[/s] be very polite. Don't expect an outright rejection if Libra isn't interested, just know if things aren't moving in a romantic direction pretty early on, you're just a friend. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted January 14, 2017 08:30 PM
I have to agree with Doux with a minor caveat that being straightforward means different things to different ppl.That said, my experiences with Scorpio suns have been very clear. They don't like you, you won't hear from then. They like you, it's obvious in everything. And they tell you in details when and where you screw up and when and where you start becoming something important. They'll take you to important places to them. Venus/moon fluctuate more. There are more layers to everything and these planets tend to be coy about expressing themselves. Libra in general tend to take forever to do anything. They're the most controlling, most perfectionistic and at work place they tend to be secretly disliked because they are incredibly ambiguous, yet picky, and overly appeasing. I've known so many libras and their relationships are almost always tumultuous, lots of arguing back and forth and they are absolutely controlling. Elsaelsa did a video about how controlling libras are as an astrologer with a stellium in libra. I know a libra who wanted to buy a car. She read through all the websites, went to the dealers and saw all the car. She ended up didn't buy any of them. A Scorpio always knows what they want, obsess about it and once they got it, they're happy and they don't really look elsewhere. Many libras pretty much just do whatever other ppl want them to be and can easily flounder around. The ones with lots of Scorpio placements have clear dislikes and likes like a Scorpio, but they would take forever to do anything because they're still managing their own image, who they're gonna upset or who they're gonna please. So they tend to stick with a safer choice because it's too much work to go after something they want if they themselves can't measure up. They're considerate in the sense that they know who they' are... the sun is fall in libra. It's not confident about what it has to offer and yet all the inner scorp planets feel so strongly about everything else. So they weigh up and down and decide who is gonna have a "fair" relationship with them. Fair as in are they the ones giving more.
A Scorpio sun on the other hand will love you regardless of how much you give them if they know you're loyal and care about them. They understand you cannot always give as much depending on who you' are and your station in life. if they decide that they're not into marriage, à la DiCaprio, then they have no shame about going out all night in their 50s. A libra won't do it because they'll start considering their images and how they should still seem to be cool
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EmGem
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posted January 14, 2017 08:40 PM
^^ thank you for this insight. Which leaves me with the question, what should I do with this Libra/Scorpio?
I know he has feelings for me but I don't want him to think he's not good enough. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted January 15, 2017 12:08 AM
My only advice is do whatever is best for your well being and safety. He's old enough to walk by himself, you don't have to hold his hand and tell him he's good enuf. With the moon and mars in scorpio, he's probably cocky enuf you don't need to put him on the pedestals. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 16, 2017 03:18 PM
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Why'd she leave? :/
She had her personal reasons. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 16, 2017 03:20 PM
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She probably asked for her account to be deleted. I was just wondering what happened to hanna.
I am curious about hanna as well. IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 16, 2017 03:43 PM
About Scorpios, in my experience its in the eye contact, I remember how me and my Scorpio crush stared at each other from a distance, like a predator staring at its prey, she seemed very comfortable maintaining eye contact from up-close as much as she was from a distance. I have loved to look into the eyes of other girls as well, but this felt like it was on a whole different level, her having beautiful eyes to look into also helped. I once tried to look into the eyes of my Virgo crush from up-close and within first few seconds she turned her head towards the window in a very abrupt manner which I found very funny, her head performed a complete left turn, lmfao, it was so apparent that she was trying to avoid the eye contact. She seems very comfortable from a distance though.About Libra-Scorpios I might post later. IP: Logged |
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