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Topic: Is Scorpio Interested? How will I know?
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Nine
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From: The Cusp of Love
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posted November 24, 2014 07:08 PM
  
In the past I've had no problems figuring whether a Scorpio was interested or not, because ime it's a pretty direct sign...or so I thought. My rule of thumb: they lock eyes with you at first encounter. If they were on the shier side then I'd make the moves. I have Mars in Taurus, I can be pretty persistent when fixed on a target.There's a Scorpio in my orbit who has me utterly confused. For starters this person refuses to make eye contact, meh, not my type anyway, and they're kinda scary/forbidding. Nevertheless, there have been weird happenings that make me wonder at times - is this person trying to get my attention?? Is this Scorpio shy? Playing a game? Knowflakes; how can you tell if a Scorpio is interested in you? Especially the shy ones?? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted November 24, 2014 07:15 PM
They'll find a way to connect with you but it'll be in private.IP: Logged |
Iced8Ace
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posted November 24, 2014 07:36 PM
If they ever act overtly sexy, its to lure you in. The less interested you are, the more subtle he will be if hes caught feelings. Look for cautiousness on his part. If they aren't careful or mindfully observing you, somethings off. He isn't sincerely interested.IP: Logged |
Southern Sun
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posted November 24, 2014 08:45 PM
They always never notice me at first, until *something* clicks and all of the sudden I see out of the corner of my eye that they're looking at me. Nobody else notices them doing this.It gets more and more frequent when the guy intentionally find excuses to come near me, interact with me, or catch glimpses of me. They know I'm watching them (because I do the same stunts they do, sun/merc/mars in 8th), but whether or not he approaches me depends on their level of confidence. Usually very cocky to friends and co-workers but damn, the interested ones can be terribly shy. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted November 24, 2014 11:17 PM
Damned if I know..In my experience, the more interested they are, they less they show it. They pursue openly when it's usually not that serious. But what do I know.. I have horrible relations with them. ------------------
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theunknown
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posted November 24, 2014 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by Southern Sun:
They always never notice me at first, until *something* clicks and all of the sudden I see out of the corner of my eye that they're looking at me. Nobody else notices them doing this.It gets more and more frequent when the guy intentionally find excuses to come near me, interact with me, or catch glimpses of me. They know I'm watching them (because I do the same stunts they do, sun/merc/mars in 8th), but whether or not he approaches me depends on their level of confidence. Usually very cocky to friends and co-workers but damn, the interested ones can be terribly shy.
Yup! They start showing up around you. This applies for mars-pluto people too. Anything pluto in about zoning someone or something in... Depends on their aspects the stares might not apply. I know scorpio with pisces moon and his pisces eyes are so watery that it's hard to think it's intimidating. But they all will start coming up to you to test out your personality. They might ask question about you so that you start telling them about yourself IP: Logged |
DeepFreeze
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posted November 24, 2014 11:39 PM
I think even if they are shy. If you crack the door. One thing to make it clear that they have the green light and they feel safe.
They'll finish the job.
Fearing rejection is a big hindrance for them. My opinion. IP: Logged |
Reincarnation
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posted November 25, 2014 01:33 AM
If I like you, I will tell you.------------------
Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Mars, Pluto, Lilith
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LeeLoo2014
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posted November 25, 2014 04:31 AM
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Originally posted by Iced8Ace:
the more subtle he will be if hes caught feelings. Look for cautiousness on his part. If they aren't careful or mindfully observing you, somethings off. He isn't sincerely interested.
Plus: if a Scorpio wants you, you will soon find out. Their old ruler still rules  Even for the shiest Scorp.
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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... IP: Logged |
Nine
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posted November 25, 2014 05:15 AM
Thanks you, guys.Wow, it's amazing the number of Scorpios that have popped up in my life. Previous to this there was a Scorpio-Capricorn whom I felt was coming on too strong, so I put the brakes on it...and they may not have been my type. Later on, after we'd both calmed down, I would find myself alone with this person - of course they were oblivious to my existence, but always polite (Venus in Libra) when spoken to. I still see them about randomly talking with friends & folk. In the very beginning they would always initiate, say something to me. Now, nada, unless I say hi. Curious. The current is a Scorpio-Libra. quote:
If they ever act overtly sexy, its to lure you in. The less interested you are, the more subtle he will be if hes caught feelings. Look for cautiousness on his part. If they aren't careful or mindfully observing you, somethings off. He isn't sincerely interested.
Yes, yes. There has been innuendo. This from someone who's a brick wall when approached. quote:
In my experience, the more interested they are, they less they show it. They pursue openly when it's usually not that serious. But what do I know.. I have horrible relations with them.
They're doing a poor job of not showing it, with the no eye contact, and all that jazz. I'm almost tempted to seek them out, and do things to bring their attention to me. Almost - but I don't want to send the wrong message to someone who may be interested. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted November 25, 2014 06:27 AM
They are testing the waters. It's a good sign. IP: Logged |
moonstruck87
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posted November 25, 2014 08:22 AM
I dated one w/a Cancer moon and he was still pretty direct, not verbally, but he would try to see me a lotand yeah, they don't make it obvious.... I think it's better to observe how they act towards you, if they make the effort to be around you IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted November 25, 2014 11:57 AM
Just ignore them then, Nine. They like that sweet torture. A taste of their own medicine. Squash that silly arachnid's defenses. ------------------
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moonstruck87
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posted November 25, 2014 12:03 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Just ignore them then, Nine. They like that sweet torture. A taste of their own medicine. Squash that silly arachnid's defenses.
lololol  "mine" is ignoring me now What happens when two parties ignore each other? dun dun dun IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted November 25, 2014 12:17 PM
If they're really interested they can't afford to lose you. But it's not a game for the faint hearted and it can backfire. I myself love to p*ss them off regardless of the result.  Warning: don't flirt with other guys if you do the ignoring thingie. They'll think you're easy/cheap/fickle and lose interest for real. But a little indifference works wonders with these undercover masochists. They'll think you're mysterious and it will fry their brain trying to figure you out. ------------------
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Vajra
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posted November 25, 2014 01:00 PM
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moonstruck87
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posted November 25, 2014 01:21 PM
heh fellow crab here & you'd think it would be easier for us to understand the other clawed creatures...
NOPE!
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Nine
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posted November 25, 2014 05:09 PM
tSaturn @ 26° Scorpio is in an applying opposition to my nVenus @ 27° Taurus, I shouldn't be meeting anybody new now. This is too weird. quote:
Just ignore them then, Nine. They like that sweet torture. A taste of their own medicine. Squash that silly arachnid's defenses.
I like the ignore 'em part. IP: Logged |
Southern Sun
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 25, 2014 06:16 PM
Yeah, perhaps I'm doing something wrong here--I'm like a bag of rocks when it comes to guys showing interest in me. So when one comes along and looks interested, I just can't ignore them. I got to find out who he is, why he's here, and what's his motive! Or else I'LL go mad  IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty
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posted November 28, 2014 02:22 AM
I' m a woman with Mercury , mars , uranus in scorpio. And I'm a shy type because saturn is sitting at my AC . When I really like men , I 'm sooooooo afraid to look at him . Let alone eye - contact , it take a few weeks to start an eye-contact . And I don't stare at people like another scorp . But I do sure "research" you very well Just give him a time , when he really like you . He can't stop essily , his mind will always obscess about you..... like I am with s.o. I like IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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From: The future... or the past. I get them confused...
Registered: May 2014
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posted November 28, 2014 12:15 PM
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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
If they're really interested they can't afford to lose you. But it's not a game for the faint hearted and it can backfire. I myself love to p*ss them off regardless of the result. ...
Hey!  Still, Marquess of Queensbury rules and all... Defend yourself at all times, and in case of a knockdown, go to a neutral corner... IP: Logged |
Venusincap89
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posted November 28, 2014 12:31 PM
You cannot come to conclusion whether someone likes you or not just by their sun sign
Even with full natal chart analysis or synastry chart analysis it will only offer 50% accuracyBut please do post his natal chart if you can IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
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posted November 28, 2014 12:56 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
Hey!
What? They deserve it! Flaunting their silly stinger at me, when in fact it's all smoke and mirrors. It's time the world saw Scorpios for what they really are: scared little boys. I don't know if their experiences are more dramatic than the rest of us, but they sure as hell like to mull over them for ages and torture themselves and their partners with stupid mind games in regards to offenses that happened eons ago and have nothing to do with their current partner/crush.  I laughed when I read Love on a rotten day, where Hazel Dixon-Cooper said falling in love with a Scorpio earns you bonus points on the karma scale and might even erase some of your previous transgressions from the Akashic Records. Something like that, I don't have the book memorized lol. Of course, these are mostly the unevolved types, which are sadly overwhelming and leave a long trail of tears and broken hearts. Is it really worth it? I don't pray, but if I would, I'd ask never to cross paths with one of these creatures, ever again. PS: BTW I wasn't talking about Scorpio risings.  Different stories there. ------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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posted November 28, 2014 01:34 PM
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Originally posted by Vajra:
Dancing Maenad, I think you got those "silly arachnids" figured out alright! (No offense to any Scorps here, love you guys, us Crabs just have to let off some steam now and then…Not for the faint-hearted, indeed!)
Eh.. little good that did for me. We both know that if there's a sign to get me eating from their hand, it's this one. My posts are mostly "note to self".
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Nine
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posted November 28, 2014 03:25 PM
OMG, this is so erotic. I have the feeling this has never happened to me before. Everything is so new and exciting. If this Scorpio is laying a trap I may fall right in. ...ahhIn recent developments Scorpio, it seems, makes it a point to be walking in the opposite direction of where I'm going so that we're facing, or may possibly brush past each other. No, those are my moves. The only aspects that stand out in the synastry is their pSun conj my nNeptune, and their pVenus conj my nMoon. My pAsc conj their pMars - I think this may be THE aspect. All orbs are applying.
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Originally posted by Venusincap89:
You cannot come to conclusion whether someone likes you or not just by their sun sign
Even with full natal chart analysis or synastry chart analysis it will only offer 50% accuracy
Disagree. quote:
But please do post his natal chart if you can
Technically, I'm not supposed to know this. IP: Logged |
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