posted December 24, 2014 01:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Koho:
I spent some time with a Mars in Libra exactly conjunct my Venus in Libra. She ranks up there as one of my all time favorite sex partners. Her sexuality was well explored, BUT she could easily go without sex when she wanted. She was also a Venus in Gemini and it showed. She was very much inclined to change positions pretty often and pretty creatively. It was like a yoga/gymnastics class.

I'll take a Mars in Libra to bed any day of the week if they conjunct my Venus :P

I did really appreciate the give in take in bed. I mean I've only been with one Mars in Libra but they don't seem the type to leave you hanging after you give a little loving.

There was one interpretation that said they're picky lovers.. I didn't really feel that way from her so maybe you Libran Mars people could tell me that

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Venus/Mars conjunctions often either work out very well. Or the two people go off really hating each other- because of unfulfilled ideals(no matter how non-verbal they may have been). Or that their ideas of "justice and fairness" clashed a lot.

My SO has Venus in Libra conjunct my Mars. His Sun is also in Libra conjunct my Mars.
Saturn also conjuncts my Mars and squares my Mercury.

Our debates are fierce and as much as I hate to admit it,he is often right at highlighting the flaws in my reasoning(damn his Saturn square my Mercury interaction ).

I think the "pickiness" they speak of is when Mars in Libra realizes that sex is best when they engage intellectually with a partner.

Upon this realization and also concluding that the"best sex ever" is possible with someone who can take them to new heights(intelectually),they start to scrutinize would-be applicants very vigorously.

Because much like Virgo, they don't want to make a "mistake" and sleep with someone who'll "dilute" that ideal.

But for those who haven't gotten the memo(and there are plenty of those out there). They are not likely to be that picky.

Not before that idea is sparked in their head and they start to see the connection between mind stimulation and the quality of the sex.

Don't wake them

posted December 24, 2014 04:08 AM              

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Hmmmmm....You have made me realize something that might be very true.

My opinion of a personal planet in 6th was that of someone who offers a service.

And by that I mean a person who is very much eager to do work- usually under the guidance of someone.Or someone who has pieces of their personality invested in rendering a service(6th)to others.

When Mars/Sun/Pluto/Uranus is in the 6th,one often wants to "lead" in the rendering of that service in some way. And this conflicts greatly with the 6th house attitude of "subordination".

Now with regards to sexuality,I now see how this also plays out.

Since Mars is a planet of the leader(not the secretary),the person who has Mars in 6th wants to do the rendering of the service(6th),ON THEIR OWN TERMS(Mars)!!!

This is why I always LEAD conversations with my partner.Which he then responds to.Or when a conversation has already started,I am quick to take the lead in asking questions and guiding its development.

So my sex drive could be connected to how able my partner(Libra)is to respond to me(Mars)?The more he responds,the more sexually confident I feel.

Even when having sex.I want to make him feel good(6th).That is my initial motivation.

But I don't like to ask him what makes him feel good(ironic).I prefer going on my own devices and make him feel good on my own terms-Mars wants to lead on their own terms.

So the more he responds to my "service",the more turned on I get(Mars in 6th).If he doesn't,I don't feel him as much.Not to mention the relationship.

Wow!! So my Mars in Libra is really quite self-centered in essence and is not about "fairness" after all.But rather about reciprocation/mirroring(Libra).

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This made me think of the Mars in Libra I wish were mine. He really responded to positive reinforcement (like a child). I usually thank people for the things they do that I appreciate, but when I thanked him and told him how much it meant to me, he came alive, and did more. It made me happy and I told him, and he did even MORE.

posted December 24, 2014 08:07 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
This made me think of the Mars in Libra I wish were mine. He really responded to positive reinforcement (like a child). I usually thank people for the things they do that I appreciate, but when I thanked him and told him how much it meant to me, he came alive, and did more. It made me happy and I told him, and he did even MORE.

This quality was really so sweet to me. I wouldn't have connected it to Mars in Libra.

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Tell a Moon in Libra that you appreciate what they do for you through reciprocation and mirroring.And you feed their need for security(Moon)

Tell a Mars in Libra that you appreciate what they do for you through reciprocation and mirroring. And you feed their spirit/ their confidence/ their sex drive.

In the end, even when Mars is in Libra. Mars wants to know that they can "do". That no-one else comes close to them and that there will be no other after them.

The key to unleashing this assertive energy lies in the quality of the relationship. this is what i actually am starting to believe very strongly.

Those who are conscious of this choose the best partners. Because at the crux of the relationship, is the key to their sex drive. And desire to "do".

posted March 24, 2017 03:11 AM            

Due to the opposition aspect, there may be instances where you think that they are not assertive enough etc.

posted March 25, 2017 09:26 AM            

I've been told by my boyfriend I'm more of an initiator because I like to "seduce" him when I want to do it. It's true. It turns me on even more when the person I am trying to get with responds EXACTLY as how I'd want it. Another guy I had sexual relations with before even told me I was a tease.

But wait.. could it just be because I have Libra in the 5th house and Mars is exactly in there? Maybe.

The only times I have experienced a low sex drive was when I had some serious self-loathing issues. When I was fwb with someone, I feel quite grossed out because I've done it wth someone idgaf about or just a friend. It makes me feel like ***** or impure even though I don't even sleep around like that (Virgo venus lol). Then it's back to "I wanna pass by men and give them b*ners but never give it to them".

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